Sex and Violence Hey guys, welcome back to sex and violence with Rebel Girls, where we interviewed top level MMA fighters and other experts in their field about love and dating, romance. And that's all too taboo subjects. I'm your host, Ashley, rebel girl, Evan Smith. Now let's talk about sex and violence. What's happening
Unknown Speaker 0:51
hot stuff, what is up all my naughty listeners, I'm so happy to be back. Sorry, I apologize for leaving you. But I did let you know ahead of time. If you're following along, you'll know that I got called last minute I was on standby for a military tour. Basically, me and other fighters we go overseas to different bases, Air Force, you know, whatever it is, to different countries, and we put on seminars, and it's just to boost morale, you know, kind of bring home, bring over a piece of home to kind of make what they're going through. Not so bad. And I love doing it. This was my fourth Tour. Tour sounds like I'm going to war or something. But this was the column. So it's my fourth tour. I went to Cuba. No, first we went to Greenland. And I had been there before cold as balls. This time, it was actually negative six degrees. Last time I was there, it was negative it was 40 degrees. So the difference between 40 degrees and negative six, I had gloves on, I had two pairs of gloves on cloth gloves and leather gloves. And I couldn't even take a video without my fingertips feeling like they they were going to freeze off. Like that's how cold it was there. spent two days there flew immediately to Cuba. Sorry, Honduras was first and spent a few days in Honduras. And I love Honduras. The weather is amazing. But it was so heartbreaking to see this just poverty level. You know, I thought I'd seen poverty here, you know, homeless and all that. I saw babies Holding Babies asking for money and it broke my heart. And I'd never seen that before. I know. It's out there, you know, seen on television, but it was a first for me. And let's just say I came home with, you know, a lot of appreciation and gratitude for what we have here. I always have but even more so now. And I loved that base. It was a Soto Cano Air Force Base in Honduras. Great people great, you know, a great time there. And we went immediately to Cuba. And Cuba was was really great, too, a little bit more muggy weather. We actually were in Guantanamo Bay. And yeah, I didn't know what to expect. You just hear about the prison and the you know, scary tales and all that and you know what they did and I had a great time you know, not everyone that goes to Guantanamo Bay has a great time but you know, obviously we didn't get to see the prison or anything like that. But we put on the seminar me and Sam Alvey we had an amazing time. He's just the jolliest motherfucker you're ever going to meet. He's got like a billion kids, a hot model wife. And, you know, you know what, why else would he you know, be sad. He's living the life. And yeah, we just traveled all over. Had a great time. He usually brings his ukulele but I guess he left it at home this time. And we were supposed to be on the trip with a few other fighters. But unfortunately, some fighters got COVID. And some other fighters were fighting the previous weekend and they got injured. So it didn't happen. But I think me and Sam held it down. Like to joke I'm like, Oh, we were the B team. But we are not the bat. I just joke around. But yeah, it was a great trip, guys. Thank you so much for sticking with me. I know. It seems like every time I kind of get some momentum with these episodes, a guest will pull out or I'll leave on a trip. But I promise I promise you're not going to miss another episode. I'm not gonna miss another episode for quite some time now. And I've got some good news as far as my injury goes. For those of you who follow along every week, you know, I'm dealing with my spine surgery back in December. So it's almost an entire year now. Or a month away from me or less than a month away from a year since I got that surgery. And I've also had some knee issues yesterday. I got some PRP injections in my knee. Apex Chiropractic in Long Beach hooked it up. Shout out to those guys. Amazing. And then next Monday. So this coming Monday I will be on my way to Las Vegas. The UFC is going to fly me out there and get some imaging done. And just help me out with the last stage of this, you know, recovery process. It's, I've got some lingering pain, and they're just going to take care of me. I'll let you guys know how it goes, you know, hopefully I go out there and get checked out, get some procedures done, and I'm back in the cage, we'll back to the training room. By the end of January, like fuck, please, please, guys, please cross your fingers. For me. I feel like I've got a plan. You know, there's things in motion medically that are gonna happen. I don't want to get myself a timeline, you know, a hard timeline? Because, fuck look, if this, you know, last two years has showed us anything, it's that you never know what's gonna fucking happen. So I just want to tell myself, so I can kind of be hopeful that I'm gonna be in the cage, mid 2022. But who fucking knows? I'll keep you guys updated. And yeah, there's no fights this weekend, I was going to talk about the fights. But this is like the one weekend in forever, where they haven't had some fights. What will we do with ourselves, I don't know how to figure some shit out. And then I want to tell you guys two things. One, that we're doing a giveaway. If you're a longtime listener, you know, we've been doing it for a few weeks, we you still have a few weeks left. So how you do it, you buy a shirt on our website, the website is sex violence with rebel girl calm, and you're automatically entered into a giveaway. And you what you win is a signed UFC glove from myself. And I'm actually thinking of getting a few other fighters on there. I haven't decided who yet because I've been traveling and whatnot. But I promise I'll make it worth it, guys. 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Connect with them on social media for all their latest product releases and giveaways. That's at perfect sports TM again, connect with them on social media for all the latest products and giveaways at perfect sports TM choose perfect sports be great. Today's guest is an American mixed martial artist who competes in the Featherweight division Isabella tore MMA and Invicta FC veteran this bay area California native has fought some of the top female featherweights and looks to improve her record while continuing to take on the best in the division. The 33 year old hasn't fought since March 2020 COVID shut down and is eager to show off the improvements she's made to her game. We talk about flatulence deal breaker, first date horror stories, fake teeth over fake boobies going from by to strictly dickly foreign young guys with ABS the dominatrix fantasy and much more. Here's your guest, Amber, touch him up labor
Unknown Speaker 11:06
All right, we're here with Amber. Touch them up. live rock. And I'm so grateful. We actually had to restart this podcast, we had some technical issues. Hasn't happened in 74 episodes. So you must be special girl.
Unknown Speaker 11:20
A. It's been a long road. But here we are.
Unknown Speaker 11:24
Yeah. And I've been wanting to have you on the podcast for a while. If people don't know and don't follow the page. Amber was supposed to be on two weeks ago. But I unfortunately got called, actually fortunately, because it's a great trip and a great opportunity. But I had to go on a military tour. And she was just a fucking trooper and was like, I'll be here when you get back. So thank you so much. I know you're in fight camp. We're going to talk about that right now. But yeah, I just want to appreciate you for being so cool and flexible.
Unknown Speaker 11:54
Yeah, no problem. No problem at all. Like, I'll be chilling in fight camp, you know, because my plate be not as full as when I'm not in fight camp. So yeah, it was no problem.
Unknown Speaker 12:04
Yeah, and you know, some people, they, they're just a little drained. And so they don't really want to do interviews and podcasts and all that. So, yeah, you save the day. But let's talk about your fight. You know, where's it going to be? Who are you fighting? When all that?
Unknown Speaker 12:20
Alright, so I was supposed to be fighting on December 4. Unfortunately, I've had to have an opponent change, which happens, you know, just sucks to happen. So like close to the fight and like, right before the holidays, but we're hopeful my fingers are crossed. They're looking for somebody new for me. I'm supposed to fight for gladiator challenge down in Southern California. And like a week, and yeah, we're just staying hopeful, staying focused and hoping that this one comes through. I've had a few fights pull out this year. So I was really looking forward to this one.
Unknown Speaker 12:54
I know your girl and I know you haven't fought since right before the pandemic, we're at about 20 months of this craziness. And so it's been a minute and I and you know, I empathize. And I know what it's like to not fight for a while and that feeling of just like fuck, like, when is it going to happen? You know? Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 13:13
And you kind of just want to get it over with right? Because it's been so long. Like we haven't been in there like the nerves and anxiety all the hard work. Like you just want to show it and it sucks. But it happened. Like it's been a really weird time not just for me, but literally everybody in the entire world. And yeah, so I'm just staying focused training and doing what I got to do until my time comes. Yeah, that's
Unknown Speaker 13:36
a good mindset to have stay positive. I'm trying to do the same thing while I'm on the bench right now. What do you think a ring rust is a thing?
Unknown Speaker 13:44
I hope not. No.
Unknown Speaker 13:47
are about to find out.
Unknown Speaker 13:49
Honestly, I don't know. Like I really don't know. I think that it's definitely like your mind like your mind is your greatest weapon and your worst enemy. So depending on your mental toughness, I think that depends on how much ring Russ lives and doesn't live. Like if you really believe regressed is a thing then you might start off a little slow but if you're just like, whatever I've been fighting in the gym every day for the last two years like let's go like I don't think Greengrass will be a problem but we'll see you know, I'm gonna eventually make that break and we'll see if bring Ross is true or not.
Unknown Speaker 14:22
Is this the longest that you've ever had a break between fights?
Unknown Speaker 14:26
Yeah, this is this will officially be the longest time I haven't fought like, even when I was kind of waiting in the beginning of my pro career. Like waiting like, I don't know, I think god wait like 12 months was like the longest 10 months, something like that, like a year. But uh, yeah, this is definitely the longest I've waited for if I
Unknown Speaker 14:47
have How do you stay positive? You know, I mean, I know it's a corny question, but you know, I follow you on social media and, you know, throughout the pandemic, I've kept up with you and you are really positive and You know, it might get hard sometimes, but what are some things that you do to, you know, just kind of reassure yourself like it's gonna happen and, you know, a lot of people, they don't stay positive and they throw in the towel, they give up fighting, they, you know, choose another profession, like what do you do to help you continue on this not so easy path, you know, to be in a fighter?
Unknown Speaker 15:20
Well, I'm definitely like, being positive is definitely hard for me, like, I'm a super emotional person. And sometimes my emotions get the best of me. So I have like a super good support system and like my coach Kyrian like, he didn't baby me, he don't hold my hand, he keeps it like real with me. 100% whether I want to hear it, like to hear it or don't, you know, and sometimes we get into these discussions where he's just like, No kid, like, You're wrong, and you need to, you know, like, go back to the drawing board and just kind of rethink a little bit. And that's what just helps me like, stay like in it, you know, it's like, man, he's right. You know, like, I'm just mind fucking myself. Or I'm overs enemy again. Or I'm just like, resulting to like, old behaviors that just keeps me like wanting to grow as a person. Because I know I have so much room to still grow. And, yeah, so honestly, my support system and the people around me is what keeps me just fighting. And honestly, like, I have a lot of things to fight for my brother and my family. And I'm super stubborn. So quitting was has never been an option. Even when I went one and three and Bella tour. There was never a moment, maybe a split second where I was like, Alright, cool. I'm done. Like, I can't do this no more, but never like, like really have, I felt like I can't do this. Like, all I keep telling myself is I'm gonna do this again. And I'm going to get there and I'm going to get what I want. You know, I'm gonna get what what's mine and it's big. It's gold. It's shiny. It's heavy, and it's coming home one day.
Unknown Speaker 16:54
Yeah, I love that you have a true fighters heart, you know, and it's not, you know, it's not always a clear path to the belt. You know, there's ups there's downs as a fucking hardest sport in the world. So, I love that mindset. You talked about your coach Kyrian Where are you training? Where's he? Where's he the head coach of?
Unknown Speaker 17:12
So Coach carians the head coach over at combat sports academy, that's my home gym. I'm super, super fortunate. I get to train at three of the best gyms in Northern California. So CSA is my home gym. That's where you know bases. That's where I do most of my work all my striking, you know, my MMA, whatever all of it happens at CSA, but then we also have a nice SR gym connection going with El Nino. So Gilbert Melendez comes over to our gym a couple times a week teaches us and then coach carrion goes over there and then teaches them and so we just kind of have this nice little collab Gilbert Melendez is pretty much Gilbert Melendez and Adam pick allottee both have pretty much became my like head MMA coach, ball carrier, Coach carrion is my head head coach, like these are the two that are in charge of my MMA who I listened to the most. And then we got a nice thing going with alpha male, you know, the alpha male guys come down to combat sports academy and they get their striking in and we go up there, we get sparring in some of the guys do one on ones with the coaches out there go up there for the wrestling the strength and conditioning program. And it's just a nice little flow that coach carians built for us, you know, it's it's with him and his connections, and him just being such an open coach and like, you know what, I don't got all the answers for this problem. So let me send you to a specialist who does, you know, because I'm not gonna sit here and pretend like I know something I don't but I know for a fact that this guy's the best in the world. And I'm gonna let you guys go and experience that or I know for a fact that these guys are the best in the world. We're gonna bring this in for you so the team can flourish and you guys can get what you need to to get to where you guys are trying to go.
Unknown Speaker 18:52
I love that. I love that. That's, that's the measure of a true coach who cares about you who won who can put his ego aside be humble enough to be like, just like you said, I am great in this aspect, but I'm you know, sure as hell not the best in every aspect of Mixed Martial Arts. You know, no one's gonna be a black belt level of striking, grappling, conditioning all of that so that's cool that he allows you to cross train or you know, or have multiple gyms that you do call home that's really great. And those sound like great gyms I've heard nothing but great things about CSA alpha male, the scrap pack super cool. I'm sure you get to train with some amazing people as well.
Unknown Speaker 19:31
It's literally the best in the world at each gym, you know, like sometimes I because I'm so used to it, but you know, like through this whole fight camp, I've been having these comedy mental conversations with Andre feely and you know, like to some people they'd be like, oh my god like Andre feely and I have. Like, I'm literally surrounded by the best in the world who are taking time out of their day to like, help me to be like a man like look, I've been doing this Long time, this is what I do. That's how I think, like, stay in it, you know, I literally have like, Andre Fili quotes all over my mirror right? Told me because a couple weeks ago, I was like, you know, like when you start to go through those mental waves of fight camp, you're like, oh shit about the fight again. Oh my god, like, this is crazy, like, what do I do you know, and so he just gave me some quotes and was like, hey, just like keep repeating these to yourself and like, like, just stay focused, like you can do this, you know, and, and that's that each gym that's not just an alpha male, I go over to El Nino and from Gilbert to all of the guys that coach there and teach there, you know, my boxing coach, Coach Escobar, like I'm learning from the best in the world, and I'm in such a great position. And I love it. I love where my team's at eye level we're all at and we're all flourishing. Like, we don't got the biggest team, but we've got a solid team. And yeah, we're all doing what we have to do.
Unknown Speaker 20:55
That's awesome. I maybe I could get some of those Andre feely quotes from you, because that guy Damn, you know, like, I remember watching him in his early years, and then it was just like, I don't know what year it was, but you just saw like the switch in him like aesthetically like physically. And I and also like his, he just was went on that spree, you know, obviously, he's fought the best of the best in the in the UFC. It's, it's, you know, that's one of those people that you can tell somewhere along the way. He just put it together, whether it was mentally or the right coaches or nutrition and asleep and all that. So yeah, you're surrounded by great people.
Unknown Speaker 21:31
Yeah, Andre Philly's a dope, dude, man. Like, that's a really good person. We're both from California. So like, you know, I know, I've heard him say it about like Nate Diaz and Nick Diaz. And I say it about him. Like, if you make it, we all make it because we're from the same place, you know, like, so. And that's what I've heard him say about the Diaz brothers. And I say it about him, you know, like, he's just a great dude. Like, I'm, I'm feel super, super grateful to be around the amount of talent, just not on in the cage. Like, I don't think people realize like, how great some of these people are in like, everyday life, you know?
Unknown Speaker 22:04
No, and that's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to give you guys a platform to talk about who you are outside the cage. So you're from the Bay Area. I know where exactly what was kind of, you know, where exactly are you from, and what was life, like growing up in the Bay Area.
Unknown Speaker 22:22
I was born and raised in Hayward, California. I still pretty much live here. Now. I live in San Lorenzo, which is like five minutes from Hayward. But uh, yeah, you know, if you're from the Bay Area, obviously, some places are much much worse than others. Like I'm super grateful like My neighborhood was bad, but it wasn't like some of the other places out here. You know, everybody could have it much worse. But you know, it's rough. It's rough when you kind of grow up a little poor little little more on property you know, there's a lot of games where I'm from so a lot of drug use parents like all have addiction problems like it was just kind of a struggle. And and and I know like that's why I connect with people because he's from Sac and like out Aaron. Like it's the same you know, we all in some way kind of share similar story being from, like, the Bay Area, and yeah, it was rough. It was wasn't always the best, but we've made the best of it. And it's definitely shaped me to be the person I am today.
Unknown Speaker 23:24
Yeah, I love that. You're from the bay. I'm not from the Bay Area. I'm from three hours north. I'm from Ukiah, do you know that?
Unknown Speaker 23:30
Okay, yeah, I one of my best friends is from Orville I know where that's your like
Unknown Speaker 23:35
the big city to little. But I did go to college in the bay. I went to Menlo College, and it was right there in Atherton Palo Alto area. And I missed that Bay. I really do. I love it. I loved being in San Francisco. It's different down here in SoCal. Have you ever been down here?
Unknown Speaker 23:53
Yeah. I've been to SoCal a few times. You know, I've fought down there a few times go down there to visit and stuff. So yeah, I've never lived in SoCal, but I've definitely been down there a few times. It's a lot different. Like since the pandemic up here in northern California, like things are a lot different. For sure. It's not as dope as it used to be like, California is kind of in a weird place right now.
Unknown Speaker 24:14
How has NorCal changed since you were young?
Unknown Speaker 24:17
Uh, for me? Well, obviously, like prices have gone up, but like we've got a really bad homeless crisis going on right now. Like literally everywhere. Yeah, I know. I know. So cows don't do the same thing but it's like they keep jacking up prices and it just keeps pushing people lower and lower. And like obviously you guys watch the news so there's a lot of smashing grabbing happen right now like the crimes kind of went up you know, because I mean, I feel for it because a lot of people are not excusing anybody's actions, but a lot of people are in sticky situations. It's a hard time on everybody and some people don't know any other ways but to take what they need, you know, an amine or even if they don't need it, just take it because they can and it's it's fucked up that people are put in situations and this is how people kind of get by in their life. But, you know, some people have no other options and I things have just been crazy here lately like real crazy, crazier than normal,
Unknown Speaker 25:12
for sure. And it sounds like when you were younger, you saw some crazy stuff too. For sure what was you know, kind of like the talk like, did anybody explain sex dating relationships? Love? You know, did you have that kind of guidance when you're younger?
Unknown Speaker 25:28
No, not really. So like, I think like any kid, kind of, like I learned from my friends, like, my, my mom or my grandma never really gave me like the talk talk. You know? They kind of just let life teach me so my friends taught me and you know, you kind of learn just from different ways over my home girl. Like, we used to have like this big box of like, 80s porn, which means porn and talking crazy. And, and you know, I remember just watching this shit. Like, this isn't true. Like it's like shapes and like superhero caves. So it's like the worst like, props ever. Like just terrible. But yeah, mostly came from my friends, like, really lose their virginity till I was like 18 years old. So I was like a late bloomer. Like, all my friends were active, and I was just chilling, but I was also the youngest in the crew. So it was probably like, okay, that I was like, you know, not being too crazy.
Unknown Speaker 26:21
Why were you less sexually active when you're younger? Not that it's a bad thing. It's a great thing. It's so rare. But you know,
Unknown Speaker 26:27
I think I was, I've always been kind of a late bloomer. So and I've always had like, super, super self conscious, like, be like, super self conscious. And I've never really thought I was the prettiest. So like, I didn't, I don't think I really ever came out of my shell. Especially growing up like the the guy I was with that took my virginity, like we actually dated like, I wasn't just like, like, you know, like hooking up with people when I was young, like, I hated that dude for like, can you remember like he that was so long ago, like a year or something like that, you know? And I think he was just a late bloomer and I was like, plain Jane, I was super skinny, super tall. I definitely didn't have this aspect. I've definitely been like, I've always been super flat chested. So I think I was just kind of like in a shell. And my friends like that I grew up with a friend, right and her sister and her mom and they were a naked household like they were a naked family and I was never a naked person. So like, being this little like clothes person like my family didn't just walk around butt naked like that. And like it like being introduced to this like, very open, female dominant family like that. They taught me there. That's still my sister. To this day. Like, they're still like, my family forever. I still contact with them. But uh, yeah, I was like, wow, like, these are how people are just like naked everywhere. Mom, sister, like, like, don't even care just letting it live in. And it really taught me like, more confidence with myself, right? Like my friend Lacey used to tell me all the time, like, like, competent girl, like, it's cool. Like, we all got the same part. You know? And then be like, Oh my god.
Unknown Speaker 28:03
It was cool. It was cool.
Unknown Speaker 28:05
So would you label that family as like, notice?
Unknown Speaker 28:09
No, no, no, no, no notice at all. Just you know, just to openly like, you know, like, like, free family. You know what I mean? Like, not care. Like if you're in your own home, like Why wear clothes? You know, like, you're you're at home by yourself. Yeah, but why not just be like walking around, you know? Or like, when you get out the shower, like, like, I'm at home like, why am I gonna like the shower cover up for our league, you know, but it was a it was a full household. It was three of us four girls with me there, you know, mom, sister, and then my best friend at the time. And then me I was like, the adopted family. So it was just a house full of chicks. Like whatever.
Unknown Speaker 28:43
Yeah, different. Definitely. Yeah. You know, you get some people who are extremely prudish family and then you got the opposite ends are just titties out everywhere. It's all good.
Unknown Speaker 28:53
Yeah, like, I mean, if you got it, right, yeah.
Unknown Speaker 28:57
But we I definitely didn't have it when I was younger. Like, Yeah, me neither. Anybody titty committee for life. Oh, no, not anymore.
Unknown Speaker 29:05
Not for life. And over here still. Like the only one left.
Unknown Speaker 29:11
I have a friend name. Little she's a five foot I hang out there all the time. And me and my bet our best friend Kelly book up fake titties, whatever, the same year, and she's like, god dammit. I'm the only one with small tits now. And I'm like, I don't know not to say girl.
Unknown Speaker 29:26
I know. You know, like, all my friends got him like everyone and I'm like fuck What do I do? That scared I'm scared of surgery like honestly like I'm scared like and now I feel like I got my rights like it's cool. We go make little cheese that thing again. But I'm so scared of surgery like Fuck, man. I don't really know if I want to go under for that. You know, like yeah, really that important for me?
Unknown Speaker 29:52
Yeah, it definitely like after I did it. Like I was like, wow, you know, because you know anything could happen. I was like, It's definitely like a stupid decision and My mind cuz it's like what if something did happen? For what for fucking for esthetics, you know, dumbass but at the same time, like, you can't help but you want you know, like, you want to feel good. You want to feel feminine you want to feel whatever it is that's gonna make you feel. You know, it does you know, at the end of the day, yeah, I highly doubt there's tiddy regret but you know, yeah, remorse, buyer's remorse, you know, whatever you want to call it, you know, buyer's remorse.
Unknown Speaker 30:25
I would love to just fill out a nice bathing suit. Like, oh, man, if I could just fill out a nice bathing suit, I'd be happy. But you know, not everyone's supposed to have everything so this I got it in the back may not have it in the front.
Unknown Speaker 30:37
And you know, one thing that I heard listened to a boy told me a long time ago, he's like, dude, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You're never going to be attractive to everyone, somewhat. If you even if you did get fake titties. You may meet the man of your dreams. And he's gonna be like, you know, I'm just into more of an athletic, smaller chest. Did you be like, mad about that? Yeah, no
Unknown Speaker 30:56
funny that you say that? I thought about that was like, watch. I'm gonna get fake ass TV. And then the guy that was gonna marry forever is gonna be like, Man, you got fake titties, like I'm not even into that. I'm gonna
Unknown Speaker 31:08
put some there are there are dudes that are just not into it. They're just like, oh, girl, you know, I used to have this old coach who was just like, yeah, fake tits, or gross fake tits are gross. And I didn't have him back then. And in the back of my mind, I was like, I'm gonna think I'm not your girlfriend cuz I'm getting my boyfriend right now was like, he was like, don't get them. Don't get them. I'm not a fake boob guy. And I'm like, All right. And then I got him. And now he's like, I love fake boobs.
Unknown Speaker 31:33
So you can also, you know, I think women can do whatever you need to do to make yourself feel beautiful. You know? And if you can, like, I'm just all about women feeling good about themselves. You know, and if big movies is what does it like? I know, I probably feel a lot better if I had big boobies. But it is what it is. You know, we all just make do with what we got.
Unknown Speaker 31:53
Maybe maybe one day, who knows? Who knows? Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 31:56
So I always think if I would do it, it'd be after fighting.
Unknown Speaker 32:00
Yeah, I thought so too. But then I you know, I didn't get any younger and fucking 34. And I'm like, I want to have like, a young body with some nice titties. I don't want to be all wrinkly and be like, Look at my nice boobs.
Unknown Speaker 32:11
You know what I really want want fake teeth. I want new teeth. Everyone's like, don't do it. Don't do it. Because like, if you get punched in them, they fall out. You know? Like, I don't care. Oh, do that after fighting though. Now I want them right now. Like if I paid all that money for anything, it'd be fake teeth. I tell people that all the time. Like when you see me with new teeth, they'll say nothing. No. I realize even love it.
Unknown Speaker 32:35
Unknown Speaker 32:36
up with you? Are you dating? And then a question. I'd like to ask all of our guests just because I'm trying to be as PC as fucking possible. How do you identify sexually and yeah, what's your dating status?
Unknown Speaker 32:47
I'm single, you know, I'm single. I mean, go. But I'm single. And, you know, identifies it as a woman. And I, I guess like, technically, I'd be considered bisexual because I was with a woman for eight years. But I don't ever tell people I'm bisexual because she was the only woman I was with. But I was with her for a very, very long time. So I don't really know where that where that puts me in like the category but I do know that one of my longest most serious relationships. But somebody that I was absolutely in love with. was a woman.
Unknown Speaker 33:26
I have so many questions. Okay, so you know, like, fuck a label anyway, but like, you know, if we were gonna categorize it? Yeah, I would say bisexual because eight years is a long standing. You weren't like, what's it called? Like, by curious just testing the waters it's like eight years is a big chunk. So I guess my first question is, were you just emotionally physically mentally in love with her? Or were you aesthetically like biologically like attracted to her? And did you guys have sex as well?
Unknown Speaker 33:57
Well, like we were kind of like we dated for a year broke up for a year got back together like and then you know what I mean? So I think we went like twice or maybe even like three times where we were kind of on and off and then the last stint was like five years but I booked her like she was my best friend. I wanted to do everything with her until the end when things started to get bad like we did everything together. There was never like, like dislikes of things like we want us to do the same thing. She's also a professional fighter. So we so we did everything together training jiu jitsu fights vacati Like, we just loved being around each other so much and she was my best friend and I think that that is what made me stay with her for so long, even though like I was already getting checked out by the end was because I was my best friend. I feel like women just kind of grow like a deeper connection. Because it's not just physical it's not just this like legit like that was my my everything right? Girl like if I was having a bad day, like, that's who I ran to, if I was this, like she was there for everything. And like, of course I was attracted to her like she was like, much shorter than me, but she was covered in tattoos and I was like, Oh my God, that shoes, you know, but she was like, much shorter than me. And when we first got together, she was confident like she was bowtie or opening line to me, we were at a house party. I was with my boyfriend at the time. Him and I had been together for two years because when me and her first met, like we were partiers raving hard how are you? Fine, it was like 20 for three years and I wasn't a fighter yet I didn't even know fighting existed. She this girl I'm talking about she's even the reason I'm a fighter. Like she introduced me to the life. She was already a professional fighter. But you know, we all have our vices and it was a crazy time. And we used to get fucking party together get fucked up together. And I met her she looked at me she was like, Damn, girl. I'll climb you like a red bird. And I was like, Oh, shit. Off mica sweep me off my feet. Like within like, a month or something like that. I was breaking up with my big boy. He wasn't very good to me. Anyway, so that's whatever.
Unknown Speaker 36:15
Damn mister girl over here. And
Unknown Speaker 36:19
I fucking want her you know, but it wasn't until she got sober and stopped drinking that me and her were actually able to like grow like a real relationship with each other.
Unknown Speaker 36:28
Yeah, hell yeah. Yeah, that's, that's for sure. You know, you're not going to really be able to excel in many things if you're really fucking drinking and take it from me, girl. So that's amazing. If you're 24 you dated for eight years. So into your 30s And yeah, that's what
Unknown Speaker 36:46
we've all we've been split up now for like two and a half years.
Unknown Speaker 36:50
So kind of recently single, you know, cuz pandemic times that they don't even count. It's like, yeah, the world's not even the same. You're not going out and about, you know, it's just like those years. It's like, you think back you're like, What the fuck did I do? You probably trained your ass off and try to stay ready.
Unknown Speaker 37:06
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I definitely you know, that we, we, we made it work. During the pandemic, our secret trainings like, we made that shit work it whether it was outside the here there like wherever, like we made it work for sure.
Unknown Speaker 37:20
Yeah. Damn. Okay, so you have this long relationship with this woman and now you know, what's your what's your focus? Are you you know, trying to maybe just date men? Are you open to dating men and women, you know, doesn't matter.
Unknown Speaker 37:33
You know, lately I strictly dickly ever said last one. Just man. You know being in a relationship with a woman was kind of a lot like I don't know if I really want to deal with another woman emotions in a relationship, you know, like us, like, you know, on the same cycle like PMS. It just is a lot. So right now I'm just been you know, focused on men. I'm at times I can boy crazy. I love fighters. So people are like, always like, Oh, I don't want to shit. Eat or shoot where I sleep or whatever. I am the opposite. Like, I love fighters, like all I want to do is date fighters right now. Or athletes, like you got to be like doing something athletically that just like blows my mind. And I'm all for it.
Unknown Speaker 38:19
Yeah, it's like you know, quote unquote, dating in the industry in our industry is MMA, right? sports athletes that kind of stuff. And you know exactly don't shit where you eat but it is so fucking hard to not be attracted to someone who shares the same passion. You know, me I'm really attracted to hard work and like their, you know, good work ethic. So it's like you got like, Mr. muscles, you know, sweating next. You fucking just, you're just like, don't look don't look, don't look. It's like, Fuck, it's so hard. You know, it's like to share I look.
Unknown Speaker 38:52
I objectified man, like a motherfucker. Don't come around me in your little gray sweatpants. Like, like, if people know me, and like, most of the time, I'm also fucking with my friends. Like, you know what I mean? Or like just fucking with people. But if you're in my life, you know that I like them a little bit younger. So like, I'm really into like, hot, like younger dudes with six packs. And I'm just like, Fuck, man, you are the devil. I have to get away from you. I need to go over here. And focus. Love you boy. Boy crazy.
Unknown Speaker 39:22
Have you run into any problems dating younger guys. I've dated my fair share of younger guys I used to get made fun of because I had a best friend who was like, totally under older guys. And I wasn't into younger guys, but I happen to date a few younger guys. And you know, it's the same thing. It's like, Oh, great sex drive, rockin ABS horrible, you know, shit Priority Checklist, you know, it's like they're not established. They, you know, some of them can't take care of themselves. Some of them are, you know, especially fighter guys. Sorry, guys. You know, it's just like, you know, you and I know. It's, yeah, nobody's really making money unless you get to the top, top top level. So it's like if you're attracted to a young fighter guy, are you paying for the meal at the end of the night?
Unknown Speaker 40:04
Like, you know, I got I got super lucky because after my ex like I was dating a younger fighter dude. And he was from a different country. So his morals were a little different, like, then like American guy, so he, you know, paid for every meal, he drove me around, like he was super nice for his age, with the with the 23 year old sex drive, which is what I was, you know, like, I, I'm not really into, like, I'm not trying to, like, settle down with anybody at the moment, you know, like, well, at the moment, I've been kind of celebrating I kind of been like, not fucking with nobody. But, um, like, I date younger dudes for the sex drives. Like I've had bad experiences with people like 13 older, like my age, like, it's like one and done, you know, and I'm just like, I have a more healthy sex drive. And so I asked somebody who was a consultant that I always go to, we'll just leave them a name. And they were like, That's because that's because, and women, like men that are in their 20s and women that are like, beginning of their 30s their sex drives are the same. You know what I mean? Like our sex drives actually get higher as we get older and guys sex drives hire when they're a little baby girl. Yeah, so like, when you're just looking for like sex like they match up, you know? And yeah, like hot fighter, young dudes. I have a rule though. Like, you gotta at least be able to buy a drink. Like if you can't buy a drink, like we have a serious problem. You may because of
Unknown Speaker 41:30
that age or finances.
Unknown Speaker 41:33
Like Ah, okay, okay. No, like, Ah, okay, got it. Ah, you know, I got like, like a 23 to 28 Like that's like a nice little age bracket. Anything before that, even though lately like really young dudes have been like having crushes on me like, like, bro like, I'm not like I'm not like you're like fantasy, you know? Like six like 16 Like there's a lot of like young people at the gyms you know? And I noticed lately like like the like little 16 year olds are like looking at me. Like, you don't want to come up talk to me all the time. You know? Oh, I got the one little fighter one this one little fighter one the other day and he's funny. He was like, I'll be 18 and two years he's just for good.
Unknown Speaker 42:17
He's just putting play the long game Amber.
Unknown Speaker 42:21
I like the effort if I can high five you know and younger dudes are confident like me and Jesse just were talking about it and we think the new generation is really into like big fish like hard working strong women whereas like my age generation, they're still into like the woman staying home and kind of like playing a more submissive role where these younger dudes are like out here looking for Xena they're like yeah, like what's up Warrior Princess? Yeah, do this you
Unknown Speaker 42:47
know I think you're right I think you know sometimes with an older dude you get some benefits like being established can take care of themselves whatever right? And if you're looking to be take taken care of, you know, like, I'm not sounds like you're not either that's the route to go. But it's like they do usually want more like traditional values. You know, we had on Bazooka Joe the other night and you know, he just he admitted he's like, Yeah, more of a traditional guy and I'm like, do you want women in the kitchen? But
Unknown Speaker 43:17
oh, I scare me away because I am aggressive like not like sexually aggressive just like in my nature. I'm six foot tall fucking weigh like 167 pounds, you know? And I got like mad attitude like, you know, I'm trying to like work on my attitude but you know, I kind of just walk around like this look on my face. I got resting bitchface like really bad. A lot of weeds. So I'm usually like super high like with resting bitchface but I like it for me to date like when I find that's like really into me. Like they have to be really into like confident strong women because there's nothing missive about me until you really start dating me then people get shocked because I'm super submissive. I'll cook clean and take care of you do everything I need to do you know, but you don't get that side of me and so you kind of break down my walls and my walls are high and they're thick and they're like locked and coated and it's hard to get through them but once you do you get like a super soft submissive person.
Unknown Speaker 44:17
Okay, so you want an athlete you know prefer preferably a younger dude. Anything else you got like a type tall guy short guys, you know you said ABS
Unknown Speaker 44:28
I love to date just a dude bigger than me like bigger a tall order my girl. I know right? I only like want a younger do when it comes to like sexual stuff. When I really think about like progressing in life. Like I would like somebody who's on the same page as me, who is busy like me who understands but also bring something to the table. And if they were bigger than me like that'd be a plus. Like a super plus. Like there's just one guy I won't say any names, but he's super super Super big super tall and I've just been trying to get him to take me out to dinner forever because I just want to be around like a big dude that's like bigger than me, you know, like, just be seen in public because this is what I've been looking for my entire life.
Unknown Speaker 45:13
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Unknown Speaker 46:27
And I could fight? Yeah, so So like when I train I train with dudes, right? So it is kind of hard for me like, I want to like date within the team. It's kind of hard for me because when I train, I don't really train with the women. I do some times but most of the time, like my hard stuff is coming with the dudes and no dude wants to date. A chick that's literally like, going toe to toe with them. You know, like the dudes I trained with if they wanted to knock me out, they fucking could easily like, Dude strengths a real thing. But like when when they're giving me my level of strength, and I'm giving them you know, they're like reciprocating the same level like I'm not just getting smashed on by dudes you know, even like wrestling even though I don't know so much like I'm fucking strong gas chick. And that doesn't really do the best for my dating life. And like trying to date within the circle, so I got to like pull outside sources like Instagrams great, you know, cuz you can just kind of like sliding some DMs here and there. You know, like, like, you're out of the way I don't really like to like, I don't want to date no more like, close. Because the last day was on my team. Oh, and, and it's but we're cool. Like, we're cool. Like, like, thankfully, I've haven't ran across drama, too much drama yet. Like there's been a little bit of drama with like, Dude I've just hooked up with but when it comes to like dating, dating, like it's been pretty cool. Like, it's been like, Alright, whatever. That sucks. But you get over you. Yeah. Yeah, like he's he's taking it as easy on me as she was.
Unknown Speaker 48:07
Yeah. That's cool. So you mentioned Instagram. Do you do online dating at all?
Unknown Speaker 48:15
I've tried like those dating apps, but they freaked me out. Like, nobody I like to these people are trying to set me up. But I won't lie. Like I have had like some like Instagram crushes. You know, I like to, like try to like reach people that don't live in my same state that I think are like, cute or that I'm into. But yeah, you know, I'll drop a few heart eyes every now and then.
Unknown Speaker 48:36
And does anything ever come to fruition? Yeah. Or is it just like flirting?
Unknown Speaker 48:39
Sometimes Sometimes it's flirty sometimes. So I've had I had something come to flourishing with this dude, I got from Michigan. I loved him so much. I still love him. But like, something happened, it just wasn't that great. So it was like disappointing. But I still love him from afar. It's cool.
Unknown Speaker 48:57
Do you got any dating horror stories? Whether it was like a catfish online dating story? Or just, you know, you went on a date with a dude and it just was like, wow, like not gonna forget this?
Unknown Speaker 49:08
Yeah, I went. Just recently actually, maybe it was like, the month before the pandemic, where I was gonna give this dude like, like a normal dude. Just kind of like a shot right? So I was like, Alright, let me just get this every day. Average Josh shot like he did jujitsu or whatever. But like he wasn't like super attractive. Like he wasn't very big. Like, I got this thing about shoulders. I guess my shoulders are bigger than yours. I like I'm not into it. And he was just like, uh, you know how like some jujitsu guys are just kind of like you know they're not really out there lifting weights and like doing all that Yeah, but I was like, fuck it. You know what let me go on a date with him. Let's see how it is. And so I go on this date takes me to the city which San Francisco and February's rainy, so I'm like fuck all right. It's raining, it's cold as fuck cool, whatever. Get in the car already, like it's already bad because his car smelled like cat piss and, oh, here we go. And if you know me, I have like a super sensitive nose. I'm like got the window down like halfway it's raining. I'm like, you know, Amber just be open, it's cool, whatever. So we were supposed to go to the city for dinner. and I are like, you know, like, go eat and I was like, Alright, cool. Like, we're gonna go eat some food, whatever. We get to the city. And he's like, so what do you want to do? which already is like, no. Like you. You were supposed to have something for us to do. Yeah. So he takes he takes us to go get crepes and boba, which in my head, I'm like, oh, okay, well, maybe this is just what he wants to do. Right? So we get crepes, Boba, and I'm like, Are you going to get nothing? He's like, No, I don't like boba. And I was like, Oh, do you want to create? He's like, No, I don't like crepes. And I was like, Oh, well, why did you take us here? Then, you know, cuz like, this is just like sweet stuff. Like, I'm hungry. Like, we should go eat some food, you know? So we're walking around, whatever. We're walking around the city, it starts to rain. And he's like, so I'm thinking about taking you to the Cheesecake Factory, which in my head, I'm like, oh, like, you know, I'm not saying like, I need like a lot, you know, but if you're taking a date, like I would like expect, like, I don't know, just a little something more, you know, like, we're in the city. And like Cheesecake Factory is where you like, pick us. And I'm already kind of having like, a like a bad time. So I'm like, Alright, cool, whatever. How long is the wait, and he's like, it's an hour and a half? Oh, no, it's like an hour and a half. And I was like, Well, what do you want to do from then? And he was like, Well, I figured we could just walk around. Like, yeah, but it's raining, you know? And he's like, Oh, well, we can we're just gonna have to wait. And I was like, I'm looking around. There's hella sushi spots where I'm at. And I'm like, I I'm like, Cool. I'm like, Well, do you just want to get some sushi? And he's like, he's like, yeah, like, he's like, yeah, like, I guess I'm like, Yeah, well, there's like sushi right here. I'm just trying to like, cut it short, whatever. And I tell him, I'm like, oh, like, it's cool. Like, we're gonna order sushi. Like because I eat sushi. Like, I can eat sushi. songline rolls, you know? Yeah. And I'm like, it's cool. Right? Like, we're gonna order that. Yeah, yeah, get whatever you want. So I order my sushi, whatever. Bill comes to X amount. And he's like, shuffling through his wallet. And he's like, I see him like counting cash. And I'm like, Oh, shit. He doesn't have like, I'll have enough. Oh, definitely. He definitely don't have enough to tick either. Right. Which to me, like, That's karma. Like, you have to be Tipperary if you're not a good tipper. Like, we can't go out.
Unknown Speaker 52:43
And then so I forget, like, I forget if he ended up paying with this card, or if he eventually just like, had enough, and he did have enough. But it was like barely any and like, he didn't have much to tip and I'm like, oh, fuck, I pull out my card. I'm like, Are you cool? Like, you know, I can I can get this, you know? No, no, no, it's cool. I got it. I got it. I'm like, Alright, cool. So we sit down, whatever we're eating. And all he's doing is like name dropping like these people that he's trained with and these fights that he's been in and like, these people that he fought because he fought somebody I knew and like all this, that and I'm like, fuck, man like this. This is like what I came out for, like, talk about this. So I'm like, constantly trying to change the subject. And then he and he keeps bringing it back like to this name dropping the statin in my head. I'm like, bro, I train with the best in the world. I just can't, like I'm not impressed right now. And, and so cut it. I cut it short, right? I'm like, Alright, we're done. Right? Cool. Like, I'm ready to go back. I can take them back, we get to the parking garage, can hit his car doesn't work. So pay for the parking garage on the way out. So I pull out my card again. And I'm like, do you need like, I can help you know? And he's like, no, no, I got it. Put another one in. And I'm like, All right, cool. Nice. Like, it's been great. He takes me home, I get a text message. And he's like, and I'm like, mortified. At this point. I'm like, Oh my God. Like, this is like, the worst experience of the first day and I haven't been on a date and literally like six years, like, I'm just like, not with it. And then he texts me. He's like, Man, I had such a good time. Do you? I'm sorry. He's like, I'm sorry. I'm so awkward. Next time we'll be better. And you're like yes time. Yeah. And he and I was like, yeah, yeah, cool, whatever. And then like a week later, I was blocked on everything. He stopped following me and like yeah, what
Unknown Speaker 54:29
Alright, cool. So he did you a favor,
Unknown Speaker 54:30
whatever. He did you a favor, like showed you the worst time of your life and then blocked you. Sweet. Yeah,
Unknown Speaker 54:36
it was. It was crazy. I was like, Okay, well, this is why don't stay. Please don't take but I've also been ghosted. I'm like I call myself the queen of being ghosted, like are and this is why don't like pursue anybody anymore. I just wait for people to come to me because the few guys that I have tried to pursue will be like, yeah, like it's cool. Like, I'll call you Sunday like, let's go out like Let's be on a day like, whatever and then they'll ghost me. One time I got ghosted twice in one day, I was supposed to go on this hike with this guy. And I just thought he was cute like he really wasn't even like fully sure if I was into it, but he was cute as fuck. So I was like, Yeah, let's go walk around the the little lake and smokes weed, you know, cuz he smoked weed too. And it's very rare that I find a cute guy that also smokes weed. So I'm like, Yeah, let's smoke weed together. And then I just had this feeling I was like, bro, he's not the ghost me. I could feel it right. And he's like, literally calls me he's like, Hey, or texted me. He's like, Hey, I'm not gonna make it. I got X, Y, and Z, um, hit you up a little bit later will leak later. And I'm like, Alright, cool. Blah, blah, blah, blah. Later comes Oh, sorry. I'm not gonna make it ghost me doesn't talk to me. No more. I was like,
Unknown Speaker 55:49
Are you like, like, being like some kind of weird aggressive in these text messages? Like, what? What could this
Unknown Speaker 55:55
know? So sometimes I think that I'm not like, reading things correctly. So like, if I think a guy might be into it, I push a little too hard. But if I think a guy's not into it, I pull all the way away. Like, I've just had like this big conversation with one of the talking to about like, we were just having like, super miscommunication. He's like, now I was feeling like you were pulling away from me. Like he didn't want to fuck with me. And I'm like, bro, I'm literally asking you all the time to take me on a date. Like, what are you talking about? You know? And so, so sometimes I feel like I just misread dude. Like, I don't really know. Like,
Unknown Speaker 56:36
I got a question. Oh, so do you. You know, you're you're communicating with these guys back and forth, just like we all do. I'm old school. Like, once we like start initiating, like, clearly we like each other. I'll just be like, call me. Do you talk on the phone? Are you just like these fucking Gen Z or is just like Did he text message but yeah.
Unknown Speaker 56:54
Honestly, I like the Gen Xers years, I do a lot of talking through Instagram. I just think it's like the new norm. Like, I don't even want people to have my phone number. Unless it's like super, super serious. I just had to change. I just had to change my phone number not too long ago because I was getting a lot of prank calls. Because somebody was saying this is fun to somebody was saying that I was in their boyfriends, DMS trying to break up a happy home. Which I was not. I was not. And just because people's boyfriends talk to themselves in my DM doesn't mean that I'm engaging. But I didn't have I had no idea who it was like even to this day, like are kind of think I know, I really don't know. And so I had to change my phone number. So once I changed my phone number this last time I was like I'm not giving my phone number to fucking Oh, buddy. So you better hit me. Yeah, you better hit me up on Snapchat. Like if you just try to be sneaky, like, hit me up on Snapchat. You know, like, if I'm like, kind of like trying to talk talk to you hit me up on Instagram. Except for the one dude that I talked to sort of kind of lightweight. He has my phone number because he don't have an Instagram. So I have to text him if I want to communicate, you know. So
Unknown Speaker 58:02
I totally get that. The only reason I ask is just like, things get lost in translation, just like I said, you know, just like explain what the communication, but also it's like, you know, you're talking a certain way. And I feel like this newer generation is really guilty of this. They have like all this confidence and they are a certain way. And then you get them in person. And they're a completely different person. And I feel like when you connect just even just through the phone as opposed to text, you get a better sense of who that person really is. And there's like less of a chance of a letdown. You know what I
Unknown Speaker 58:33
mean? Yeah, for sure, I could see that. And that probably is why a lot of miscommunication comes. But I'm also weird too, like, I really want to talk to you on the phone. Like I just don't like, like I got some friends who love it. Like they're like, they want to FaceTime and talk to everybody. Like I'd much rather just shoot a text. Like me and Jesse Jess, it's so weird. We don't FaceTime each other all day, we just send each other clips from Instagram, and I communicate and everybody's like, why don't you guys just FaceTime I'm like, do this too much of a commitment. Like because then we're stuck on the phone with each other. Like, we can't take a break if we want to and come back later, you know. So if we just send little snippets to each other, then there's like, I don't know, it's like less of a commitment.
Unknown Speaker 59:14
That's funny. Do you mean you just send like Instagram video or like a meme to each other back and forth?
Unknown Speaker 59:20
No, no, just like an Instagram video. Like, okay, we send each other like 18 videos, instead of just calling each other like, Hey, this is what we want to talk about.
Unknown Speaker 59:29
I got a girlfriend who I send me voice texts. And I'm like, I don't like that only because I like everything written down. I'm like almost OCD about like writing things down. And so if I don't answer right away, it's like, I want to scroll back and be like, Alright, what do I need to respond to but a fucking voice memo? I'm like, I gotta press play and
Unknown Speaker 59:46
and if you don't save them, they don't stay there. Like yeah, literally save them to keep them like yeah,
Unknown Speaker 59:51
whatever. Everybody's different. It's all good. So let's talk about sex girl. Hey, what what's one of your wildest or just Weirdest, craziest places. Have you ever done the deed?
Unknown Speaker 1:00:04
Craziest places? Yeah, I don't I don't I've never been like too super adventurous. You know, maybe when I was younger, like, like, environment wise, right, like, but uh, I think the one of the most craziest places I ever had sex was out of the park that in the heart, but I was young. I was young. I was like, 21 ish. But yeah, it was like, in the open like, right in the like, just like there was no coverage and I was drunk as fuck. So
Unknown Speaker 1:00:35
daytime or nighttime,
Unknown Speaker 1:00:36
nighttime thank God
Unknown Speaker 1:00:37
nighttime. At least you had the cover of night.
Unknown Speaker 1:00:40
Yeah, I've done a lot of car hookups like a little like, you know, quickies especially if you fuck with dudes from a gym. Like when I first started fighting, I used to fuck with this dude. And we would hook up in the car all the time. But I'm so long. I was just gonna say you're like, Yeah, I fucking hated it. Because it's like, bro, like, I've got nowhere to go here. Like my legs are literally out the window. That's not working.
Unknown Speaker 1:01:02
You're gonna be like a Bronco or like a Cadillac. You're gonna need like a lot of room.
Unknown Speaker 1:01:07
Yeah, right. I need a whole issue be I need a whole like chunks.
Unknown Speaker 1:01:12
Okay, what's one of your bedroom pet peeves? You know, there could be anything that annoys you in the bedroom. Right? Some people have said like hygiene or Oh,
Unknown Speaker 1:01:21
if you pet if you pass gaspereau We're done. Like, like, I'm not fucking kidding. Like, don't use the bathroom like not even too long ago. Like, I was just like using the bathroom with the door open like p o nine. I was like, Oh my god. This is not happening to me right now. And anybody that knows me knows I'm hella weird about shit like that. Don't talk about it around me don't but if you pass gas near me. That's it. It's like an instant turnoff. Yeah, I was with my I was with my ex for eight years. And never just intentionally was I like, let it go. Like, no, yeah,
Unknown Speaker 1:01:55
I'm like, I'm the same way. I'm the same way. I even told my boyfriend. I'm like, I don't care if we're together for 20 years. You hold that sucker in?
Unknown Speaker 1:02:04
Or just go anywhere else?
Unknown Speaker 1:02:07
Yeah, like, I'm not going to do it too. You know, if you especially if you live with someone, it's like, a lot of romance is lost. Because it's like, the illusion is taken away. It's like you see them get ready. You see them go from like, busted in the morning to like, you know, I
Unknown Speaker 1:02:22
won't be convinced if I pass gas in front of somebody that the person I was with literally like did not like me after that. Like I just went down 10 attractive points. I feel like if you're a woman, the only time your dude or significant others should hear you pass gas is when you're sleeping and you can't control it. Other than that, bitch, take your ass in the bathroom outside like a normal fucking person. Like don't. But some women who don't care, they do not care. They're like, this is me as who I am. Let it go.
Unknown Speaker 1:02:55
Oh, yeah. You know, I've got a couple friends too. And I'm just like, hey, whatever, if you're, I will die. If your guy still wants to go down after you dutch oven, Tim. You know, it's like, that's
Unknown Speaker 1:03:09
you got yourself a raunchy boy.
Unknown Speaker 1:03:12
Writer guy? Yeah, writer,
Unknown Speaker 1:03:15
whatever you want to call it. It's not for me though.
Unknown Speaker 1:03:18
So you're, you're big chick,
Unknown Speaker 1:03:20
you're aggressive. We're fighter girls, we're Alpha question I always ask are you more submissive in the bedroom? Is it that one time that you can be just let it all like, go and just be submissive? Or do you keep that dominance in the bedroom?
Unknown Speaker 1:03:32
Now I'm submissive, I'm submissive. I like a person who's sexually in control. Like I don't want to be teaching nobody nothing you know like I like I'm a big girl and I don't want to feel like a big girl in the bedroom. You know what I mean? Like I want to be taped up and yeah, like I want to I want to be felt small sometimes to like want to be treated like the lady like a woman so like, like do your job bro like this your job like especially dude like, like, dude yeah, if dudes are like in everyday life like super strong dominant like all these things, like I really expect that to translate over in the bedroom like don't ask to be held afterwards. I want to be you know what I mean? Like, like don't do that weird shit Don't be one of those guys that like cries during sex because I'm going to not never ever like fuck with you again. Like I need you strong dominate, like, in control like no, you on the bed now. Yeah, okay. Yes, sir. Whatever you need.
Unknown Speaker 1:04:31
There's that you know, myth. You should abstain from sex before competition. Do you follow that? Lies? Lies, lies, lies
Unknown Speaker 1:04:41
I follow? I follow it Ronda Rousey said years ago lies like women we need that like we don't we don't just get national testosterone and when we you know have sex like it's builds up our aggression and our testosterone like, I think for women's eyes.
Unknown Speaker 1:04:56
What's What's something that and I totally agree with you on that My, my take is, is do what makes you happy. You know, if you believe that having sex is gonna fuck up your game don't have sex. If you think like, I just got a nut or do whatever, I just got to rub one out, you know, masturbate come it doesn't matter like then do that make that part of your process you know and like, I know people with, you know some seriously weird routines, but they're also what some of the best fighters in the world so it's like I hear
Unknown Speaker 1:05:27
I hear more guys say that like I can't have sex or masturbate or do anything like that before if I then women I feel like I hear a lot of women like oh fuck like, yeah, it's happening still but men are like no I gotta be disciplined
Unknown Speaker 1:05:41
I gotta so you're my first guest that I've had on the show since I read this article that just came out a few days ago about Mike Tyson. Did you hear about this?
Unknown Speaker 1:05:49
I feel like I seen something but I didn't really look into it.
Unknown Speaker 1:05:53
So basically, his longtime security guard came out, wrote a book and was like, one of the crazy things about Mike was that right before his fight, like, minutes before he walked out, he would have a girl on standby, like in the locker room, like hidden, and he would just go fucker, he would just go have sex. And then like he would come out and because he would tell his security guard, he would say, if I don't have sex right now I'm going to kill this man. Tonight. He's like, I know I can. I'm capable of it. So he would go have sex and feel relaxed and calm. And then he would come out and say, Okay, this guy is gonna go live tonight. And I'm just like, yeah, that's intense.
Unknown Speaker 1:06:32
I believe it because Mike Tyson man, when he did when he did his podcast, which are Joe Rogan, talked about how he hated the person he was as a fighter. Like, I believed him when he said that, and I'm sure he probably went to some dark places. Yeah, he seemed like a dude with a lot going on. But I believe that shit out of that, but fucking What a crazy way like, if I don't get off right now to kill that motherfucker. Yeah. And I'm just
Unknown Speaker 1:06:58
like, I believe it like it's fucking Mike Tyson. Maybe that time he bet that guy's here. He didn't get laid. Who knows? Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 1:07:06
I don't know. That'll make a lot of sense. This year. Well,
Unknown Speaker 1:07:11
I didn't get that. But she will. Yeah. All right. I think it's time for the lightning sex round. All right. So the lightning sex round is a rapid fire one word, one phrase where I just asked you and you say yes or no, unless you feel so inclined to tell us a story. Then we'll talk this shit. And we'll talk to you about that. Okay, all right. Lightning sex Brown. Do you dirty talk in bed? No spank are like to be spanked. Spank me biting. Sure. Choking?
Unknown Speaker 1:07:51
Yes. You gotta fight. You got to buy my ass to the like, don't just be biting my bat back and not my ass. Choking. Yes, but me choke me. You choke me. Not me. choke you. Like that's weird.
Unknown Speaker 1:08:05
I mean, okay, threesomes
Unknown Speaker 1:08:10
I have never been a good experience
Unknown Speaker 1:08:12
can go awry real fast?
Unknown Speaker 1:08:14
Yeah, yeah, I think I think I'm, I'm too much of a jealous person. And the only three times I have been with like a significant other, I feel like if it was just some random, like, I don't really know you. I don't really know you kind of deal I would do better. But when it was me and my boyfriend and another chick, I was like, he liked her more than me, huh? Yeah, he's staring at her too long. Just like
Unknown Speaker 1:08:38
your mind just going a million miles an hour and Oh, yeah. All he's thinking is I want to come and you're like, okay.
Unknown Speaker 1:08:44
Yeah, I'm like, Why is he laughing at her jokes? This is getting serious like,
Unknown Speaker 1:08:50
yeah, some girls can do three some some girls care.
Unknown Speaker 1:08:52
Yeah. Do you watch porn? Not anymore. I used to.
Unknown Speaker 1:08:57
Okay, any foot fetish? No bodily fluid fetish. No. Bondage like ropes. Blindfold handcuffs.
Unknown Speaker 1:09:06
I never have but I'd be into trying. Alright,
Unknown Speaker 1:09:09
role ly role playing.
Unknown Speaker 1:09:10
I've got I've got some bondage stuff I just ordered from my only fan so Oh,
Unknown Speaker 1:09:14
shit. Oh, okay,
Unknown Speaker 1:09:16
Unknown Speaker 1:09:17
How is your weightless stuff? The lightning sex round. I'd even ask you about your own hands. I mean, I'll plug it at the end of the show. But yeah, what's your experience like in the you know, only fans and fan time?
Unknown Speaker 1:09:29
Is that it? Yeah, I'm on both Yes, I'm on only fans and fan time because I've just noticed that some people like one or the other right. I actually have some people that are like, No, I prefer this fan time over only fans. And then I've got only fans that are like, fuck that other shit. Like we're here. My only fans does well, like as long as I'm staying up on it. And like engaging and posting and like putting out quality paper views. My only fans does really really well and I had to take a break for a minute just because I was running out of time. Like I just couldn't manage everything. But shit your girl broke before this holidays and yeah, so we brought it back and I love I honestly like, at first I was weird about it like, Oh man, what am I doing? But then the second time around, I'm way more comfortable and now that I've like set my standards, and I know what I'll do what I won't do, then like, I'm much better about it right? And I put it on there, like, this is what I'm willing to do. But this is what is not going to do. Right? Like, I don't do any sex acts, I don't do full nudity. I don't show my vagina and I that's that, you know, I try to I try to like, as much as I can. And it's risky, right? Like, you get a little adrenaline from it like, oh, shit, you know. But it's sex work. It is what it is like people can can say whatever they want, but I guys are on there to get their rocks off. And today,
Unknown Speaker 1:10:52
I fuck them. They
Unknown Speaker 1:10:53
don't say your girl. They do pay my bills, and they actually are paying my bills. So thank you very much. Please join my only Fanjul live it there. And I try to do I try to do other things like I do a Fan Friday, where I give them some free I ask them a bunch of questions. I try to engage like more like a social media platform, then just like buy my ass, you know? Yeah. So there might there might be some week like a week where I don't sell anything. Like I just post for free because people aren't paying for it. I don't have any fans. So sometimes I'll just give them a little treat, like Alright, cool. Like, I just post a few things throughout the week. Give them some free stuff in the DMS and I try to make it an interactive place. You know, like, I'll do movie nights or wanting to fight her on like, I'll talk about the fights in the comments. So and that's pretty much what most of those guys want. Anyways, they just want like, like a chick that they can fucking talk to and relate to and fucking get some ass pictures from without like the commitment you know, so I mean, it is what it is. You got to use what you got to get what you want.
Unknown Speaker 1:11:58
Yeah, I love it. All right, and then back to lightning sex round.
Unknown Speaker 1:12:02
Do you do any roleplay No, I
Unknown Speaker 1:12:06
have never have but I think it'd be fun. Like I've always wanted to be like a naughty, like made.
Unknown Speaker 1:12:11
Oh, yeah, man. Like you should just like you know your guy or your girl that comes back and is like, in that's just the start of the porno.
Unknown Speaker 1:12:20
Yeah, very nice business.
Unknown Speaker 1:12:23
Nice. If you do only fans made themed. I made a homemade set. Yeah. It just dusted with your little. You better send that to me.
Unknown Speaker 1:12:34
Well, I got you girl.
Unknown Speaker 1:12:36
All right about but stuff on you or a partner.
Unknown Speaker 1:12:41
I mean, you can lick my ass like you want to be that dude that like my ass. Go for it. Like, like, I'm not going to ask for it. And I'm not going to be like no either. But like actual like real bad stuff. I feel like I got to be like drunk drunk to like, let it do stick.
Unknown Speaker 1:12:56
That sounds like a recipe for a bad morning but yeah, so
Unknown Speaker 1:13:00
sure. Like up like yeah, okay, but I was just having a comment cuz I got a friend who don't do but stuff like they're like, bro, don't even like look at it. Don't put your tongue near it. Nothing. And I'm like, Dude, you should let him all fuckin lick your ass. Like, that's not fair. Like let them do what they want. And then that person will just forever be the dude, that lecture is like,
Unknown Speaker 1:13:19
Yeah, that's cool. We have a shout out to taste darling. I love her bare knuckle boxer queen she Oh, yeah, I
Unknown Speaker 1:13:26
love J to her whole thing is
Unknown Speaker 1:13:27
if a motherfucker won't lick my butthole I don't want to be with him. And I'm like,
Unknown Speaker 1:13:31
oh my god, I love you. Make that a fucking shirt. Please make that a shirt because I'm worth it. And like, if you guys ever break up, he will forever be known as a guy that licked your fucking ass like, yeah, it's okay, bro. You licked my ass like or a bro you like my ass? Like so it can go either way.
Unknown Speaker 1:13:50
I love to talk to you about making merch. Hell yeah.
Unknown Speaker 1:13:53
Okay, Tom, like lick my butt, bro.
Unknown Speaker 1:13:56
Do you sex toys? Yes. Ever been to a sex club or a swingers party? No. And are you a lingerie lover? Sure.
Unknown Speaker 1:14:06
They do well on my only fans, I've become a lingerie lover. Because only fans you know, I didn't really know much about lingerie and so like I had to start posing in
Unknown Speaker 1:14:15
it. Yeah, so much work girl. That's it. Congratulations on a lightning sex round. Awesome. Hey, so we're gonna end the show with a couple fan questions and a game of fuck marry kill marry one kill one go. I think we're done. We're done. Here. You down. Okay,
Unknown Speaker 1:14:38
yes. So let's go Fuck, Marry,
Unknown Speaker 1:14:40
Kill. I'm gonna give you three names and you got to tell me which one you want to fuck. Which one you want to marry? Which one you want to kill? You may not want to fuck any of them or kill any of them are marrying them but you gotta gotta pick. I gotta pick Okay, okay, so I'm being mean to you. I'm doing Bay Area fighters. You got Jake shields, John Thompson and as a as a duo, I'm giving you the Diaz brothers just both of them so you know, oh no, no.
Unknown Speaker 1:15:09
Okay, I'm fucking Nate for sure. I don't know about Nick but
Unknown Speaker 1:15:12
I love No You gotta they're a duo. So if you decide to fuck why do you gotta fuck?
Unknown Speaker 1:15:17
Okay, okay, okay, okay, so so we'll fuck the DS brothers. I'll marry Jake got it because that knowledge like bro like Teach Me jujitsu all day and then I'm sorry Josh I guess I'd have to kill Josh because I
Unknown Speaker 1:15:29
really know Josh definitely not the way this was gonna go down but okay,
Unknown Speaker 1:15:34
so yeah, that's how I'll do that right there
Unknown Speaker 1:15:38
Jake shields I think is vegan too which I love
Unknown Speaker 1:15:42
a Jake shields I you know, I just went up to Vegas and obviously he's part of the scrap pack you know, but I just went to Vegas and he teaches that extreme man. His details are everything like his grappling is just no other next level that next level that dude's dough
Unknown Speaker 1:15:59
and is he a good coach? Because it's like you could be a badass fighter, a badass jujitsu guy but like your ability to teach is you know, like, that's what matters when you when you need a coach, right? Like how is his teaching ability?
Unknown Speaker 1:16:11
So far? Like his teaching ability to me is great. Like, every time I take one of his classes, I always learned some kind of detail, you know, whether it's when he was training and like teaching for Gil or when I went out to extreme like I always learned something and it says vibe, like he's super aggro like over the top right? Like he's super mellow. Like, hey, this is what I'm giving you but like no, like, this is a fight. Like anything happens. This is just a way like it's not the way it's a way you know, so I like it.
Unknown Speaker 1:16:41
Okay. All right. Let's do a couple fan questions cross I'm sorry, I'm taking a lot of your time. But she's no you're good. Good. Good. Good content here. I love talking to you. You're awesome. Okay.
Unknown Speaker 1:16:59
This is one of the funnest podcasts I've ever done.
Unknown Speaker 1:17:01
I fucking love it. I love it. sound bite, right? Yeah. Okay, at Efron. MMA, what's sexier, being smart and articulate or being confident and arrogant.
Unknown Speaker 1:17:14
Okay, so this is the toxic side of me. It's going to be confident and arrogant. But know that that's toxic. That's red flag. My favorite color. Understand this? Understand? Don't ask me in the comments. I get it.
Unknown Speaker 1:17:28
Okay, okay. And this one's from anonymous. Have you ever been with a submissive slash switch? Male?
Unknown Speaker 1:17:36
No, I don't even know what that is. Me
Unknown Speaker 1:17:38
either. I thought maybe you might but like no, so I'm assuming he's just like super submissive. You know? We're like the female does all the male roles.
Unknown Speaker 1:17:47
I have not but I will not lie. One of my extreme fantasies is like Damiana dude like for real like me and like all leather with like, flips and shit. Like, would you like stepping on a dude's balls?
Unknown Speaker 1:18:01
Would you pick would you pick a man like in the blood? Well, that's the only place you can peg them
Unknown Speaker 1:18:09
in the bud it depends like how much are they paying me?
Unknown Speaker 1:18:17
Okay, you mean like not just like on a personal level but like for work?
Unknown Speaker 1:18:21
Oh yeah. Like work like oh like dama dude for like work for I got it. I could connect not for like fun. Like, I want to make some money off some shit like that. Oh, I
Unknown Speaker 1:18:29
got a girl for you friggin Dominique ainger
Unknown Speaker 1:18:32
I hooked me up I've always wanted to like break into that scene.
Unknown Speaker 1:18:36
I'll hook you up with the best of the best girl. Hell yeah. Awesome. Okay at Spencer Plata. Will you be doing any grappling comps in 2022 Yet
Unknown Speaker 1:18:46
I want to I want to get back grappling my fucking grappling is fire right now. Gilbert Melendez and Adam piggledy have turned me back into a monster on the ground and I want to get back into it.
Unknown Speaker 1:18:56
It's so fucking scary, though. Because you and I both know, it's like MMA will I feel like MMA is our main passion. Right? And then yeah, grappling secondary. So like, you always take that risk of getting hurt grappling match, and then you're fucking unable to compete and it's just like, yeah, so that's why I'm like, You know what I'm going to grapple after I'm done doing MMA
Unknown Speaker 1:19:18
for me right now because I think I've been off for so long. Like, I'll just take anything like I just need to get active. And these these fights keep fucking falling through beginning of the year, like if I still like if they don't find me an opponent in a week and I still don't have a fight like I'm gonna grapple for
Unknown Speaker 1:19:33
sure. That's my you got to do something to feed that competition. Fire edge. Yeah,
Unknown Speaker 1:19:39
yeah, cuz I'm angry. I'm an angry person, just like inside. So if I don't let that anger out, it starts to it starts to bleed over into my everyday life and I do and say stupid shit.
Unknown Speaker 1:19:50
Me too. Girl. Me too. That's why I'm all I smoke a lot of weed now because I can't train how to train for the last year. And I stopped drinking and I'm like two completely fucking lifestyle changed for me I can't punch people and I can't drink anymore and I'm just like I'm gonna smoke a lot of weed.
Unknown Speaker 1:20:05
Yeah I smoke a lot of dabs
Unknown Speaker 1:20:09
okay these last couple of questions are from the same account it's at she fights to two great page they always support us we try to Okay, these are larious questions. Number one, pick a contract assign a $1,000 title fight in the UFC. Oh man that sucks. Or be $35,000 to fight in bare knuckle or C 1 million to fight in an all nude only fans fight League.
Unknown Speaker 1:20:39
1 million like legit 1 million
Unknown Speaker 1:20:41
Yeah, one mil all nude only fans fight league off.
Unknown Speaker 1:20:45
I know I can beat up like a lot. So let's go alright. Even though even though that 1000 For the UFC belt, like that's always a dream. Like, I just do it to get there. But yeah, we're going for the million.
Unknown Speaker 1:21:01
Yeah, that's that's a fucking great question. That's why I love this account.
Unknown Speaker 1:21:05
That was good. That was good. Thank you.
Unknown Speaker 1:21:07
Another a couple more great ones. Okay. Knockout, Megan Anderson in the bare knuckle fight in a bare knuckle fight or orgasm during public sex with Michael B. Jordan. Not sure why. Michael B. Jordan,
Unknown Speaker 1:21:21
because everybody loves Michael B. Jordan and believe me, I love Michael B. Jordan too. But Megan Anderson broke my face. So I'll have to take the Meagan Anderson Bare Knuckle fight.
Unknown Speaker 1:21:31
Nice. Okay. A number three. Using Bay Area slang. Describe your fighting style in the most sexual way possible.
Unknown Speaker 1:21:40
Describe my fighting style in the most sexual way. I mean, I would say that my fighting style is Hello Hi Fi in in a sexual way though. Like I said, my fighting style would be Hello Hi Fi swagged out I don't really know I don't know how to put a sexual twist like
Unknown Speaker 1:22:05
there's not a little you're out a lot of
Unknown Speaker 1:22:08
I only know how to be playing gangster in Bay Area slang. I don't know how to be sexual.
Unknown Speaker 1:22:13
Pretty much pretty much but yeah, you know my shirts. Hello. Hi, Fi. I should get wild. I like to I like to chunk them and that's all but I like I like it.
Unknown Speaker 1:22:23
Nice. Okay, last question. If you had to choose one hifi song that you could have sex to but also could fight to what would it be?
Unknown Speaker 1:22:34
Oh, you probably take anything from Messi Mar. Or even a I was just listening to it the other day. That one right there. Yeah. Probably anything for messy Mar for sure. And then right there too. Why can I think of Who? Who? Who who scenes that right now that's gonna mess me up.
Unknown Speaker 1:22:55
DJ zone is all about that too. And he's over here racking his brain he's like,
Unknown Speaker 1:23:00
right here right here right here by Earth a jerk right here. And fuck to that one. I was like fuck I was just listening to that. Oh, and this one Johnny Cash two recipes Johnny Cash. But hey, little mama t got it, man. I love all like, I love everything. Bay Area. I love where I'm from. The jakka Yeah, anything from the jakka
Unknown Speaker 1:23:24
DJ zone just lit up like a Christmas tree. His face just
Unknown Speaker 1:23:29
a double LEJ Oh, oh, hell yeah. He's from the gel. The valley Joe.
Unknown Speaker 1:23:36
Okay, my last question to you does. Great fan questions. Really? Thank you so much to as she fights to media. My last question, who would you like to hear next on sex and violence with rebel girl? Mm hmm. Let's see. What would I like
Unknown Speaker 1:23:52
to hear next on there? There are some few there's a few people there actually. You know who I'd like to hear on here. And she's like, Oh, am I thinking of right now? I feel like I don't I don't I don't want to butcher no one's name. Sorry. I don't want to put your Nolan's name. It's all good.
Unknown Speaker 1:24:10
Let me let me see if I can find her. Her Instagram
Unknown Speaker 1:24:20
anyways, well anyways, so I'll go to my second pick or go to my second pick because I can't I can't find the girl I was thinking about Mercedes. Have you ever had Mercedes on their
Unknown Speaker 1:24:29
Mercedes birdshot? Zebra chucks wife Yeah, no no I have not. I mean, yeah, Mercedes. Mercedes be talking that shit. No, no, no, not in a bad way. In a great way. We're friends. Oh yeah, that's
Unknown Speaker 1:24:46
why like I love Mercedes. That girl like I'm trying to like, for some reason. We're never in Vegas at the same time, but I'm trying to go to Vegas when she's in Vegas. So we can just get wild together like that girl. She's my spirit animal for sure.
Unknown Speaker 1:24:57
So what I mean by talking that shit Is that I just heard that she actually got booked for a grappling match with Tara LaRosa because they were just like chick talking back and forth. Yeah. And it's just like I'm so not that vibe. Like I get it like girls do that I'm like, do your thing you know, like, but I'm just like, tab like, so much aggression. Like I'm all about trying to build my fellow female fighter up, not break them down. But yeah, you know, like, I love Mercedes. And I know when I bring her on, because I'll have her on eventually, for sure. When I bring her on. She's just like a spit ball. You know? I love her.
Unknown Speaker 1:25:30
She's like a shot of fireball. I love it.
Unknown Speaker 1:25:33
I love her and, and her and Anthony's marriage, their relationship is fucking awesome.
Unknown Speaker 1:25:39
They just seem like they fit each other so well. You know, like, like, he's a little while she's wild but like, you know, like they just like this nice little wild little pieces together. I met Mercedes years ago when I knocked out Marina she fear and she was so fucking excited for me that like I just loved her ever since she was like, I fucking knew it. I fucking knew she was gonna get knocked up fuck out and I was like, oh shit, the six crazy I love it. I love everything about it.
Unknown Speaker 1:26:08
Mercedes is someone you want to have on your hype team. I literally I'll like post something. She'll be like yes, bitch. Yes. And I'm like, I'm feeling insecure about it. And I'm like, I the other day actually, I was posting I was I asked her I'm like which picture and she's like, these are both fucking fire You're so hot. And I'm like, I love you.
Unknown Speaker 1:26:25
Yeah, like every now and then I'll get like, like, you know like I get tagged in one of her booty shakin videos and like Yes girl. Yeah, get after it. Let's
Unknown Speaker 1:26:33
go. So where can we find you on all social media platforms Twitter, Facebook, Instagram and give us the only time I mean fans only only fans and fans. Clearly I'm not on
Unknown Speaker 1:26:46
whatever so my my Instagram is my first and last name anger ly Brock underscore MMA. My Twitter is Amber M ly Brock so you can find me. So those my fan time is WW dot amberleigh Brock calm and my only fans, you can go to the link in my bio, but it's Marie Rose 11 I don't know if you can just search on only fans, I think you need the link. So just go hit the link in my bio and you guys feel free to subscribe. I promise that you'll love it there. It's amazing. And I'm super interactive on my fan sites more than I am on Instagram like Instagram like I don't always call me back on comments or reply everybody's message but on my my fan sites I do so if people really want to like talk and like, get to know me like ask me questions like they're happy to do it. They're
Unknown Speaker 1:27:38
awesome. And all of those links will be in the Episode Notes listed on this show guys. Is there anything you want to leave the listeners with any you know information or how you would like to be portrayed or any advice anything at all?
Unknown Speaker 1:27:52
Yeah, you know, like, obviously be on the lookout for any of my fights coming up. Hopefully, I'll be able to do what I love again, but just something I always like to tell people like just just keep fighting, keep doing what you're doing. Don't let nobody make you feel any type of way especially as a woman in this industry. Like be sexy, be powerful. Whatever the fuck you want. Like it's your body Don't let nobody change you or make you feel like you need to be a certain way to fit their mold like we're women. It's our time stand up Let's get after it make this money get this bag and show the world what we do you know?
Unknown Speaker 1:28:27
Oh yeah girl, thank you so much for being on the show. for having me I loved having you on I you know I wish I would have done this sooner but you came in clutch for me. Thank you so much. I owe you one. I really hope that this fight comes to fruition I would love to be there December 4 in Southern California if it happens then I'll be blasting that shit on my social media come out and support her guys.
Unknown Speaker 1:28:50
Hell yeah and I'll definitely let you know details as as they come.
Unknown Speaker 1:28:53
Alright Girl Talk to you soon
Unknown Speaker 1:28:54
cool Thank you
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Nick That's it guys episode 74 with touch him up Amber lay Brock. Wow, Zola and I were just talking off my golf, whatever call it what do you call this off, stay off stay whatever you behind the scenes behind the scenes. We're talking behind the scenes and he said that Amber is one of his top 10 Guess and we've hired 74 episodes. So that's a big compliment Amber, I really enjoyed it as well. She's just very real unashamed of talking about who she is and what she likes. And I love that and I wish more of us could do that. I'm guilty of, you know, sometimes I'm on here and I'm like, just let it all hang out. Ashley who cares? Fuck it. And I feel like Amber is a fuck it. Let it all hang out kind of girl. I love her. She's awesome. So thank you guys for joining us. I want to give you a heads up on next week's guests. Just one of the funniest fucking guys I've ever been around. He's a former teammate of mine. His name is Justin. Governor. If you haven't heard of him, please tune in and he's probably going to make your day. This guy is a jiu jitsu Black Belt. He's an MMA fighter, a former Marine Scout Sniper, an open mic comic and a dog rescue advocate. I know him as MMA fighter, great jujitsu guy, and crazy Marine who, you know, told me some stories and I'm just like, how are you? Such a fuckin happy person, like this guy has seen some shit. And he's just he deals with it with his comedy and now he's doing an open mic stuff which I haven't been able to listen to yet, but I'm sure he kills it. And he's just a big sweetheart when it comes to animals. Literally if you follow him on social media, it's just him rescuing dogs in Dallas or San Antonio, Texas every week his house full full of dogs. And yeah, he's just like a big softy, but also kind of a badass so check him out next week guys. Don't forget to go to the website. It's www dot sex violence with rebel girl calm pick up a shirt be entered into the free giveaway. And a special thank you always to the awesome DJ Zol my sound engineer my homie my writer die at DJs on Instagram. Tomorrow good studio at tomorrow kids official and you can always find us on Instagram at sex and violence with rebel girl and myself at Ashley MMA. Quick reminder, people are assholes and there's Karen's in the world so follow us our follow our backup account that's SEC at sex and violence with rebel girl. The number two just in case you know because sometimes we piss people off. I hope you guys have an amazing weekend. Figure something out watch some Bella tour or some other organization know you know, UFC this weekend. But what do I tell you guys? Remember, be kind, be grateful. And don't take shit from anyone. I see you guys next week. Talk to you guys next week with more tales of sex violence.
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