Ep.76 Andy "The CrAsian" Ngyuen
Sex and Violence Hey guys, welcome back to sex environments with rebels, where we interview top level MMA fighters and other experts in their fields about love, dating, romance and all the taboo subjects. I'm your host, Ashley, rebel girl, Evan Smith, talking about
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what's happening, the hot stuff, what's up all my naughty listeners, we're back another episode another day, we are two weeks from Christmas time Christmas. And, you know, I don't know if that means you're loving this holiday season and your Festivus fuck, or if you are kind of dreading, you know, coming in contact with your immediate relatives or, you know, distant relatives. It's always different for everybody, right? I personally love this time of year just because unfortunately, it's not all year round that people are kind to each other. But I do feel like there's a sense of, you know, just, you know, more and more kindness Do unto others as you would like to be done to yourself, and whether that's just in the month of December, or, you know, people carried on into the new year. I don't know. But that's the My favorite part about the holiday season. So add I know, you know, this is not a fun fact. But I do know that suicide rates, and you know, depression, all that bad stuff escalate during this time, because I think people who don't have a good family situation are reminded of the bad shit or maybe they lost someone. And it's a reminder that those people won't be there during the holidays. And that's sad. So this is your reminder. Don't be an asshole. Be nice. Try and be festive if you can. You don't got to sing fucking Jingle Bell Rock every day. Actually, that's that's probably my my biggest qualm with fucking The holiday season is I just want to go buy some fucking bananas. And I'm gonna hear what's that Mariah Carey song is the only one for Yeah, goddamnit if I hear all i want for Christmas, is you one more time? Yeah.
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I hate the repetitive Christmas music. It makes me want to shoot myself. But yeah, that's about it. We're in the holiday season, guys. There's a lot of cool things coming up in fighting in my life. And I hope that overall, you guys got some good things going on to end your year off. I'm sure we'll start talking about all the new year's resolutions and all that very soon. But for now, I want you guys give you guys an update on myself. If you're a longtime listener, you know that this is my constant struggle to get back in the cage and get my body 100%. So update almost one full year post spine surgery. Two weeks ago, I got stem cells in my spine and shoulder area not actually in my spine but around the areas to help promote the healing process. One week ago, I got my second PRP shot in my knee to help with some tendinitis at a small quad tear that I have there. And what am I forgetting? Oh, I started working with a specialist Dr. Tara Pierce here in Orange County. It's called OC advanced wellness shout out. She's very awesome. I guess I had a rib out of place. And so now we're doing some like dry needling. And, you know, she's a chiropractor as well. So in adjustments, so I'm just like, you know, trying my damnedest to get back in the cage taking all my supplements. I just found out this morning that if you get stem cells you're not supposed to smoke the marijuana does and god dammit universe What joy are you going to take from me next, you know? Stop fucking drinking. You know, I can't work out right now. Now I can't smoke the marijuana. What are you gonna tell me next? I can't come God damn it. If you take orgasms away from me. I don't have a reason to live. That's all I'm saying. So I'm just gonna try and be a really fucking good girl. You know don't smoke weed. I've been taking all my vitamins sleeping good. I don't fucking drink anymore. Like please universe, you know, let my body heal. I want to get back in the cage at some fucking endpoint in 2022. And the Mission Continues. So that's that. We record this podcast a day early, right. So I'm super jazzed because I get to watch my friend Julia Ho, aka pro wrestler zeta Zang. Tonight at the Donquixote venue. I don't know where the fuck that is. It's in Los Angeles somewhere. But she's gonna be doing some, you know, laying the smackdown wrestling not you know, collegiate wrestling, like I did. Professional wrestling and so I'm really excited to see her live for the first time. And I know it's just going to be awesome. But I love supporting my friends no matter what, whether it's an MMA fight, or a wrestling match, or fucking, I don't have any cheerleaders. But I'm sure I would go watch one of my friends cheerleading competitions to probably wouldn't have that much fun, but whatever. So yeah, that's something I'm looking forward to. And then this podcast is in the future, obviously. So it hasn't happened yet. But the UFC fights are back and let me talk about them. The UFC will be hosting its final pay per view of 220 21 and they're going big for their grand finale with UFC 269 as they returned to the T mobile arena in Las Vegas, Nevada. This card features a whopping 15 fights with two title fights topping the card. The women will square off for a highly anticipated 135 pound title between Lego Amanda Nunez the lioness and the gritty number five ranked Julianna Pena, the Venezuelan vixen that's obviously super fucking exciting for me I love seeing badass women headline the cards I love it, love it, love it and then this CO Main Event is probably a fan favorite. We've got Charles Ola better. Olivera looks to defend his lightweight title for the first time against number one rate contender and the man many fans say feels they say and they feel is the true champion that's dusty portray the diamond to great fight card. The rest of the card looks awesome as well Jeff Neil versus Santiago Ponzi Bo chi car France vs. Cody Garbrandt. I feel like we haven't seen Cody Garbrandt in a minute, right? A year or so maybe more. I don't know. It's always nice to see a fighter return after a long layoff. Maybe I'm projecting about myself, really on Panavia versus Shawn O'Malley, then, you know, okay, DJ Zola is a Big Sean O'Malley fan.
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And then we've got the prelims a stat card as a stacked undercard. We got Josh Emmett, who went to Menlo College, whoop, go Menlo, and against Dan he gay. Oops. He's a sucker punch guy. So may the best man when Pedro Munoz versus Dominick Cruz. I love that Dominic is still doing it. Then we got Augustus Akai versus tied to Vyasa. I just want to Shui so I got to go for Thai. Jordan right versus Bruno Silva. And then the early prelims. We've got Andre mooneyes versus Eric Anders Miranda Maverick versus Aaron Blanchfield. Alex Perez versus Matthew Christopher Schnell, Alex Perez. Shout out he's an Orange County guy local. And Ryan Hall versus Derek miner Randy Kosta versus Tony Kelly. Tony Kelly is Andrea Lee's boyfriend. So that's exciting. I wonder if she'll be in his corner. Oh, I love love this. And last, opening the card is Jillian the savage Roberts who was a sex and violence alum versus Priscilla Kucera probably killed her name. I always mess it up that very tough. Brazilian chicks. So we're going for the savage Gillian Roberts. One thing I didn't mention guys, just keeping you in the loop with my life. What's going on? You know, you hear me podcasting if you tune in. And you know, I'm working on getting back in the cage. But I'm really really excited because tonight, I will actually technically you know, we're in the future tomorrow. I will be live sorry. I'll be an onsite media correspondent. So I'm like backstage interviewing fighters for lights out MMA. This will be my second time. I did it out, lights out. LSF six, it was really fun. You know, it's a very comfortable place for me. So if this is what I do decide to do following my fight career, then it's it's kind of a smooth transition. Obviously, I need to pronunciate a little bit better. These peoples. These fighters names. There's this one guy that I've been practicing. He was on the last card and he's on this card. He's an Armenian guy. His name is Volodya Frank Gulia. Wait. That might be Yeah, it's like Volodya Frank Gulia. Actually, he's, he's coached by Ronda Rousey. He's a former coach at admin. Oh, no, no. Okay. Yeah. Nice guy. Did a little interview with them last last fight card. Alex f6. So yeah, so I just got to learn the ins and outs of you know how to prepare. You know, it's easy talking fights with fighters, but I think I just need to really study and research how to be a little bit more professional on the journalism aspect of it. But yeah, doing that getting more experience under my belt, who knows, maybe I'll continue doing that. Or maybe it's just a part time gig while I heal. But I'm really excited about it. I'm going to add a link in the show notes for you guys. If you want to check it out. If you want to attend, there's still time. It's on Friday. So it will be two nights for you guys. And it's at the Commerce Casino. I think that's in commerce, California. That's like the LA area right? La. Okay. Yeah, right off the five freeway if you're SoCal, local. I think tickets are like 70 bucks, which is kind of a lot for an amateur organization, but use that money to pay their five. Yeah, yeah, exactly. That money goes to the fighters. So support local fights, guys, good job. DJs. Oh, and that's about all I want to tell you guys. We've got some other house household stuff. Sex and violence with Rebel Girls website is up. That's sex violence with rebel girl.com. We are still doing the signed UFC glove giveaway. So if you buy a shirt, any shirt on the website, you are automatically included in the giveaway for free. have signed Yossi glove That's from me. And I keep saying this every week, I'll figure somebody else's signature to get on there. It'll be easier. Just maybe I'll take it to zeta tonight. Maybe zeta or something. I'll figure it out, guys. It'll be a cool package. I'll give you some pictures as well. And yeah, just some extra stuff in there. And all that money goes to, you know, the T shirts and all that is paying studio bills paying DJs or paying or editor at Air Media Productions shout out. It's a team effort. We're building guys, I don't want to get my hopes up. But I don't want to get your hopes up. But I'm gonna just tell you that had another very cool phone call on Tuesday with a streaming platform that we all are familiar with. You know who I'm talking about? And they I might be their first explicit podcast on their platform, which is cool. You know, like, it's like, all right, like, groundbreaking.
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Yeah, so I won't have to, you know, not cuss. I can fucking say whatever the fuck I want. Yeah, yeah. Another one for the ladies as well. So that's something that's going on. It's very cool. What else always forget stuff. The website. Oh, yeah. And if you guys want to email me if you guys have any guest suggestions, I've got a couple sponsor zoom calls lined up. There have been some some leads from this podcast, people reaching out and saying that they want to promote their website or their product on here. So if you want to be a sponsor of the podcast, you can email me or if you just want to shoot the shit, tell me a funny story. Tell me an embarrassing story. You want to get it out here on the podcast. Sometimes I read them afterwards. And if you want to be anonymous, that's okay too. So that email is sex and violence podcast@gmail.com Whatever you guys want to talk about a funny story, or sponsor the podcast. Speaking of sponsors, let's talk about our best sponsor perfect sports. When choosing a supplement company, most would think it's an easy choice, but it's not. It's a matter of pride. You have your goal set to become who you are meant to be a decision, a moment in life when you decide to be more, to be great to use everything you can to be more than who you were. I choose perfect sports as my supplement company. Because perfect sports has been dedicated to providing top pros and athletes with the absolute highest quality nutritional supplements for over 18 years. Since 2003. Perfect sports has been the choice for the most dedicated and discerning MMA and physique transforming athletes who demand the very best. Perfect sports is known for their product, diesel, New Zealand whey protein isolate. It's a pure grass fed pasture raised protein that comes exclusively from the isolated island nation of New Zealand, virtually free of lactose with a 90% protein yield. Even people who feel that they might be sensitive to dairy, love this protein. I'm really most excited because you guys know me about their newest product, the diesel vegan that will be ready in about a month so stay tuned. But they aren't just a protein company. They've got products for bulking and leaning out products for strength and recovery, pre workout or health and wellness to keep your immune up During these unprecedented times, buy online at www dot perfect sports.com and use code rebel girl for 20% discount. Connect with them on social media for all their latest product releases and giveaways. That's at perfect sports TM, again, connect with them on social media for all the latest products and giveaways at perfect sports. TM choose perfect sports. Be great. Today's guest is an all around professional fighter. She's competed in MMA, Muay Thai, boxing, Jujitsu, and most recently, bare knuckle MMA. Having fought close to 20 amateur bouts and another 14 As a professional over a 10 year span in combat sports. She's earned the title of season competitor. She's fought for promotions such as rising Bellator MMA x one King of the Cage and lion fights. She was born and lived in Los Angeles until she moved to Greenville, South Carolina at the age of 13. And now she's a Myrtle Beach local. When she's not fighting, she's a matchmaker for King of the Cage in the south east region to include her stomping grounds in South Carolina. When is the King of the Cage organizations three times out of weight champion we talk about third base on an airplane Tinder success story crying on the first date using the sex sells motto imaginary Devil's threesome sex cramps and much more. Here's your guest Andy the Craciun when.
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The gentle sweet whisper the calls and kisses here and there all right, we're here with the super badass the super beautiful Andy the Craciun when girl thank you for coming on the show.
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Thank you for having me. And thank you for pronouncing my last name correctly. That's why I love you Cali girls.
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Well, I mean, I've messed up people's names before and I feel like if you start the interview messing up someone's name you know it's all downhill from there. So yeah, when not know when and not nigga when? Thank you so much for coming on the show. Girl. I know that you've got a lot going on. You're even driving right now. Which is just the sign of a badass multitasking female in my opinion.
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Yeah, I'm trying to just you know, pick it all and not that not literally.
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Oh my God. Is that a sexual joke right off the bat. Okay, so let's let's let's get going. Let's talk about what you have coming up. We all know you as a fighter, but you know, some people know you as a Muay Thai fighter. Some people know you as MMA fighter. Most recently, you were the first ever ever female Bare Knuckle MMA fight forget game bred FC. Correct.
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I'm not the first I am the first female winner of VR TK Oh, okay, winner. Yeah, it was another girl on the on the first show. So bare knuckles a new sport. And, you know, everybody knows about Bare Knuckle boxing, but nobody knew like there's Bare Knuckle MMA. No. And I always Yeah. And I always like told myself like, I can't do Bare Knuckle boxing, but I would totally do Bare Knuckle MMA and then they came out like I swear to God, I heard you heard. I think he heard me or something. I don't know.
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You spoken into the universe. Good job, girl back. Yeah, I didn't know it was a thing until we had OG women's fighter Tanya Avenger on the show. And she said that that was a possibility for her that you know, she would love to do Bare Knuckle MMA. And so yeah, so I I would love to see more of that I I'm always hesitant to watch the bare knuckle boxing because I feel like you know, just in general, you don't have a way out like you do in mixed martial arts. If you're getting rocked to the head. You could always clench you can always go to the ground like what we're trained to do, but like Bare Knuckle boxing is like more CTE than then average your average file. Yeah,
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it gets bloody bloody as hell.
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So what's what's next for you? You're going to continue with the bare knuckle MMA. You're gonna go back to MMA what's what's on the schedule?
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Um, he will try to find me another fight for their third show where they couldn't find me anything which is fine. I wasn't really pushing it. It was around the holidays, you know, the fights got like around the corner like December 17. But um, there was another promotion that I saw it was all woman's and it's like they're competing with Invicta. Everybody knows about Invicta. And they contacted me after I registered and she was like, I was like, their next show is the first show was in January 15. And then their next show will be like in March or May. And I'm like, Man, March or May that's, that's a long way that was like, if you have anybody that pulls out, or like it's injured out, I'm ready to fill in. I'm ready to fill out and then so she contacted me. She was like, well, nobody really wants to fight this girl. This girl has over 100 kickboxing matches and she's Yeah, she's a glory champ, but it's her MMA debut. And I'm like, I can't say no to this. Are you fucking kidding me? Can I curse on this show? I can
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say whatever the fuck you want, Andy? Okay, okay.
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Yeah, there's more feelings when you when you say the word fuck, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, anyways. So I was like, yeah, uh, I just gotta, you know, negotiate with the personality. And now I know that she's a badass. Yeah, it usually usually I'm fighting girl that's trying to take me down. And now it's the opposite. I don't want to sit there with her and like, boss, you know, somebody that was that much experience. I want to take her down. So I gotta be like, you gotta be like a wrestler. Like wrestler.
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Yeah. Okay, so are you allowed to say her name?
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Your opponent I am not I cannot show her you know her name or anything but I signed with a pallet Athena woman's championship and it's not exclusive. So I could always switch back the game bread which I freakin love. They gave me a three fight deal. And I'm happy with the first day negotiated with so
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Oh, that's very cool. That game bred. So. So the women's organization called Polaris or Pallas Athena, Pallas Athena. Yes. Pallas Athena. Okay, and that promotion gave you a three fight deal.
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Three fight deal, and it's not exclusive. So that means I get to go fight for somebody else. As long as it doesn't go within the 60 day period of like, if I have a match that has a set of the date. You can go past Yeah, yeah, you can. It has to be over 60 days,
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which is very cool. Most organizations do not have that clause in the contract. It's like hey, please sign your name here. Now you We fucking own you and you will fight when we say who we say and it's a lot more restrictive. So that's very cool. That organization. If you guys don't know, Invicta is an all women's organization, very good feeder program into the UFC and it sounds like Polaris. Athena is similar to that except I think I did a little bit of research before this. They are based in Canada. So I think that's the only difference from Invicta, which are based in the US and Pallas Athena. Pallas Athena. I don't even saying it right.
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There. I think it's going towards like the Greek goddess and stuff. Okay, that's what that's what I'm seeing by the website. It looks kind of cool. I like I'm like, I'm just excited.
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Yeah, I mean, any more opportunities for women is a great thing. And you know that that doesn't mean that it's Invictus competition. It just means that's more opportunities for women to be active and fight and make it to the bigger shows like UFC or Bella tour. So I hope that organization continues to grow and give women opportunities. You are like always a pioneer doing things first. I love that. I love that so much. What's your favorite? Would you prefer MMA or do you is your heart now with bare knuckle MMA?
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And I did fall in love with bare knuckle. I may I don't know why. What is it? What is it about it?
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I don't I don't know. Man. It was so dangerous, though. Because sometimes when like when my hands are wrapped up, I feel I feel like it's too tight. I feel awkward. Sometimes, you know, but like that. The only part that's wrapped is your wrist and I felt like it's no good, but you can kick ass. Oh my god. It was just like, it just felt like a street fight. Which I you know, I don't like to proudly say that I've had any or whatever, but it just felt more comfortable. Um, when I was doing Muay Thai when I was, you know, signed with line fights. I did miss MMA a lot. And it's always one or the other. And I don't know, I did miss MMA a lot. It's just, you know, I can't help it. It was my first love. Yeah,
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yeah. I mean, it's just like a you know, it's a very 3d sport, you know? Unfortunately Bare Knuckle boxing is just boxing, you know and then boy tie you just the kicks you don't got the groundwork so MMA, that's my love, you know, just because I feel like we get to really showcase our full skill set. Do we want to kick we want to punch one take someone down, you want to submit someone. It's my favorite. I love to watch it, I love to compete in it. And now you get all these these choices of what you want to compete in, which is very exciting as well. You know, I know you've been in the sport for over 10 years. What's the future look like? What's the what's the goal from here on out?
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Oh my gosh, goes higher, like healthy way? No, I'm, I'm Asian and like us Asian women. We just don't retire. Like I'm looking at my mother. She is on the go. That lady makes beef jerky from like morning tonight. She's like some she's like, late 70s. He still does nails on the side and like, and then I'm thinking to myself, I'm exactly like her. I'm almost 40 years old. Like, in four months, I will be 40 years old. That's that's like bigger than the 50 it's the 40 is like you're there. You're all you're halfway through. He got it. You gotta you gotta do something now, you know, but Well, I'm
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not. You know, I know. I'm not alone in saying this. But from looks alone. No one would fucking guessed that you are close to 40 You're still killing it. You look like you're 20 years old. I I didn't know that you are a mother of a grown man, an 18 year old, which is amazing. I'm like, Damn, you look like, you know, he just looked great. You know, and I don't know if this is racist. I'm like, you know, Asian people like they they don't age and then they do age really fast. It's like the stereotype. I don't know, maybe you're just gonna hold it super tight until like, you know, 60 or 70. Then you know, you'll just be a wrinkly little Asian lady.
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I'll get back on the podcast at the age 50. We'll go back to that subject and see that
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Yeah, yeah. You know, a lot of people don't know, we've been friends for a while now. And when you shared the picture on Instagram the other day, I'm like, Damn, we were so young. We had to be in our line. No, I mean, I was in my 20s
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Amateurs. We were still amateurs. Right? You were amateur? I know. I was. Yeah, I'm
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like, I remember. I'm so sick in that picture. And like when I was in my amateurs, I was fighting 145 And so I think yeah, I was amateur. I was even pro yet when I went pro Yeah. Couple 45 and 35 and 25. Now I'm back to you.
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You weren't you were telling me a secret. You were telling me that Invicta you're going to go and do this and that and you never went there? You just went straight to the USA. I was like, What the hell? Like I knew the secret but that wasn't even the secret.
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Yeah, well, I mean, if you and I can everyone can attest to this. It's like you have a plan in life or fighting right? And then yeah, and then Shit happens. It never works out the way you want it to and sometimes that's good. You know, I wanted to make it on the Ultimate Fighter I didn't get called but then I got called to fight a transgender fighter and that was very iconic at the time and and epic and and that boosted my notoriety. And so you know, I was heartbroken about not making the Ultimate Fighter show. But then the opportunity that I got right after was even better in my opinion. So you know,
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Yeah, cuz you beat up a born man I mean, you You killed it. look very feminine. That's another thing to us like looking feminine. We don't look you know like, like like butchy and stuff like that. That's why I didn't know that females were allowed to fight I thought they were all like bigger and I did not know there was weight classes. I had no idea about any of that. That's how I got into sport because I didn't know we were allowed.
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Oh really?
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Well I had no idea
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Well, you know that's that's definitely something that women are more comfortable with nowadays like right embracing their their femininity while still doing a you know, air quotes over here masculine and male dominated sport and you Andrea Lee, Rachel asked dovish like so many women are so beautiful and they really celebrate their sexuality and embrace their femininity and put it out there you and you and lead you guys make a calendar. And I love that it's just like hey, I'm a badass woman but there's still this sexy side to me.
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Exactly sexy you know strong as the new sexy
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strong is the new sexy Hell yeah. So what's what's up with you on a personal level? I know you're fighting you got the you know the 18 year old kid but I don't really know much about you know, are you in a relationship? Are you how do you identify sexually straight gay by pansexual asexual?
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I believe I'm Shri by my boyfriend we always call each other like puppy and you know YC I haven't saved under as husband on my phone and and he has me save his Wi Fi and you know we love it. Other, we care about each other, we live together. And in sometimes I do forget that he is my boyfriend. He he's a big fan of yours, obviously, because he's telling me that you announced the show and I didn't even know about it. I've just been so busy with my doctor appointments and everything. And I'm like, Oh, wow, okay. Thanks for telling me. I don't know what you did. But yeah, you got you got some of these people hooked and they couldn't wait to listen to the show.
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Really? Okay, that makes me happy. I was just talking to my sound engineer, DJ soul who we've been grinding at this thing for like, a year and a half. And, you know, my biggest fear is like, just wasting my time wasted my money wasting my homies time, you know, and then little things like that people were like, Oh, I fucking you know, I heard people talking about your show, or, you know, just little things like that. I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna hold on to that, that hopefully, I'm not wasting my goddamn time here. Cuz we are getting older. I'm 35. You know? So it's like, I feel that urgency to set my life up for post fight life. Right? Like, you know, we can We can't fight forever girl, you know, like, so I know, what the fuck are we gonna do after this shit.
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I don't know, I want to grow up.
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either. But like adulting is like, I don't know, this pandemic. It's like, you know, the weight of everything has just, like, brought it to my attention. And I can't ignore it anymore. Like, what are we going to do? Post fight life. And I feel like, I wish that more of my fellow co workers fellow fighters had a plan because I know a lot of us don't, we're just kind of going with the flow, you know?
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Yeah, I match my King of the Cage before I've matched for them, like four times for their cards, and I enjoyed that. It was a little stressful. And it may be kind of missing and maybe like losing weight at all. And, but that that was something that I would love to like, continue doing after I retired from fighting, I still want to be part of the sport somehow, you know? Yeah, yeah. Yeah. So I think another one of my friends was asking, would you manage females? I don't know if I can manage females. I would love to help with women's, you know, women's MMA promote them somehow. But managing females. They're, they're tough man.
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Yeah, I mean, take it from two females who have been fight or are fighters, active fighters and, and I feel bad for my manager, sometimes shout out to Brian Butler, Sucker Punch, you know, you got to have a lot of patience, and, and be able to put your pride and your ego aside because people are not nice all the time. And even the people that help us and take care of us, like our managers and our coaches, you know, they get backlash. And it's like, you know, it's all coming from a place of like, you know, insecurity or stress or fear. But, you know, I just, I, I'm actually like, a side holding on it like a part time agent for sucker punch. I kind of help out here and there. But then it's like, if imagining the weight of being a manager, a full time manager and having all these fighters call me, especially women with our emotions. Nothing. Oh, yeah. Good. So you and you and your hubby, let's just call him your hubby. How'd you guys meet?
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Ah, see, I just finished training Muay Thai. And I got home in Myrtle Beach. And I saw this cute guy on Tinder. Right, and then we were matched. And I was like, hell yeah. I mean, He swiped right first. Yeah, I was busy training. And I was like, Oh, this guy's Oh, kale. So I messaged him after we got matched. And I was like, full 10. And I think he said, I don't know what he said. And he said, and I forgot. That's pretty bad. I don't remember what he said. But I know that he wanted to take me out on the dinner right away. And that was really sweet. So the next day Yeah, I think it was the next day and then we've been together ever since. And it's just sponsored me, by the way. Vendors what? Yeah, this is a one relationship that did work.
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Okay, okay, so how long have you guys been together now?
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Three years.
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Oh, that's good. Yeah, my um, my world record what two years right now you know, crazy fighter girls. I feel like it's you know, we're a lot you know, we're a lot to to handle it takes a strong secure man. And yeah, so three years that's a long time. Congrats. How are things going? I mean, is it all smooth sailing without you know throwing Colton under the bus which is so weird because that's my brother's name. So I'm like I don't eat I feel like I don't meet a lot of Bolton's. Go to one. Okay,
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how about that? Okay,
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my brothers with a C. Okay, so you in coulomb been dating for three years? Yeah, what's it like? Like dating? As you know, obviously, I know. But tell the listeners. What's it like dating for a female You know, bare knuckle MMA fighter, you know, like, what does it take in order to make a relationship work, there's so much that we have to go through with fight camps and training and, you know, social media, like there can be a lot of roadblocks, right? It could create some tension in the relationship as there ever been anything. I guess, pros and cons of your career in a relationship is what I'm asking.
Unknown Speaker 35:24
Um, I, I always said, like, I would never fight in a data fighter. I just, I don't want to see that in the gym after we broke up. You know, like, I don't want to be around that person that long. And that that much. I, I've never really thought I mean, data fighter before. Bolton and I, you know, he fights for our freedom, and I fight for fun. So he's in the military. Yeah, yeah. So we, we make it work. And you know, it's not, it's not perfect. Everybody has like, ups and downs, and good and bad pros and cons. I wish I could tell you though, it's been smooth sailing all three years. But now No, it's not like that. I think. I think it gets better. And we learn more about each other as long as like be you're open to communications and stuff like that. And to be honest, it sucks to say, but like, the more problems you have to ask when you note, you know, you learn more, and we don't have any problems. It's like we're either being too polite, or like we're not talking about the problem. We're avoiding it. So we're still learning progress. Yeah, great training partner. There's not a lot of girls. I moved from Myrtle Beach, South Carolina to Jacksonville. That's where he stationed dad and he was my main training partner. And he actually got into a little like, he did I KF because you know, if you're rounded, you kind of want to do it. You know what I mean? Oh, yeah. He felt the energy and you know, he's, he's been in the corner and he's been behind standing backstage and he's been all of that is so. So organized. Oh my god. Like if I'm cutting away, he have all my Pedialyte coconut water. Ah, yeah, by everything and things I forget, know how you get when you like, cut what you do. Can't remember a damn thing. Like he gets everything. You know, organize even like, brings a Sharpie because he knows people gonna ask for my autograph. Oh, my posters and the calendars. Yeah, he's on top of things. Um,
Unknown Speaker 37:21
so what back to the military? Is he in? And is he active or former military?
Unknown Speaker 37:26
Yes, he's active. And he's in the Marines and he's in the schoolhouse. So he's like, instructing the students. Oh, wow. Right now? Yeah. Like so all the newbies are coming in. He's, he's the one that's given them. Hell.
Unknown Speaker 37:41
I wonder if he listened to the last episode with Justin la macchina. Governor who's a former Marine Scout Sniper?
Unknown Speaker 37:48
No, I have no idea. I have no idea. A fan of yours. Because he knows about. He knows more about it than I do.
Unknown Speaker 37:55
Awesome. Well, I mean, I love that you guys are making it work. Regardless, and you're in you're right about. Unfortunately, sometimes when you have problems, that's when you learn about each other. And you actually grow just like with that corny phrase, you learn more from a loss fight wise than you do. away. That's exactly what it is. It's similar, right? It's like, if it's smooth sailing the whole time. You really don't, you don't know how strong your relationship is until it's tested. And that's, I always say that I'm, it's kind of corny, but it's very, I'm very grateful for the pandemic because my boyfriend and I were only four months into dating, you know, fucking honeymoon stage, whoo, yay, sex every day sex all the time, you know, and then the pandemic hits. And it's like, you know, money pressure, his living situation, like vaccine mandates, like, you know, our dreams, both put on pause. But at the same time, we got through it, we got through it together, we learned what makes each other tick. And you know, how we can help each other out. And so, I'm grateful, you know, like, I'm grateful for the struggle, whether it's in my relationship, or, you know, I know you're the same way girl, you know, you like a challenge. Look at you, you're doing all these different sports. So, you know, I know relationships are a struggle, and but yeah, it's good to hear you guys are making it work.
Unknown Speaker 39:07
Yep, we are. We are now you add an 18 year old into the mix. Yeah. It's still still learning.
Unknown Speaker 39:15
I love that you have an 18 year old. But But you were
Unknown Speaker 39:19
shocked that, you know, I didn't have them when I was 15 or nothing like that. Okay.
Unknown Speaker 39:24
You just Okay, so here and maybe you've done this on purpose. But, you know, we're friends. We talk about things very casually. You know, we haven't been in very close contact and in most recent years, but I feel like you you didn't really expose him on your social media. And I don't know if that was for a reason or not, but I know some people kind of keep their children out of the limelight. Is that something that you did on purpose?
Unknown Speaker 39:47
Yes. I'm glad I did. I just rather not. Social media. It could be tricky, and it could be a very bad place. I've even seen my fans following you They'll close it. And I'm like, that's weird. Why are you doing that? But that's, that's okay. Because I tagged them. So what did they follow to my son? You know, like, back in our day before social media, if you have like 30,000 followers, they're creeping you out. Do you have like these followers, people like that you're following you around? Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Numbers, you know, the numbers are better. You know, you get more sponsors or whatever, guys, it sounds totally different. And yeah, I guess I did do that on purpose. It's just too personal. And you don't want to expose that. But sometimes by you know, once in a blue moon, I do post like, like a dinner or something really quick. Yeah,
Unknown Speaker 40:42
yeah. I mean, it's like they said, it's different times or times are different. Common lingo nowadays is oh, I stalked you on Instagram. But like before, it was like, stalk stalking, like, that's cause for calling the police, you know? And now it's like, Oh, you didn't stalk me on Instagram. You didn't see my pictures. You don't know what's going on? I'm like, No, you know, so. And then just like you touched on it yourself. It's like social media is so crucial for us fighters, males and females. the more followers you have, the more sponsorships you'll get, the more money you'll get, the better you can take care of yourself. So what does that translate to? The better your social media? That yeah, the more stalkers the better.
Unknown Speaker 41:29
So yeah,
Unknown Speaker 41:30
I'm happy that you kept him away from that, but now he's 18 years old, and he can, you know, figure things out for himself. I want to take a quick break to thank our sponsor, perfect sports. These guys are always keeping things fresh and being creative with their flavor options. Their newest flavor of diesel whey protein isolate is no different. Inspired by the fall season, perfect has come out with a limited edition. Pumpkin Spice Latte flavored protein. Pumpkin Spice Latte provides a spicy and savory aromatic tastes that can be enjoyed warmed or chilled. Remember, guys, this is a limited edition. So make sure to get your orders in soon, inventory will be going quick. As always, this new limited edition flavor provides you with the same benefits that diesel always does. It's third party tested for banned substances and is the highest quality that protein can be. Order yours now by heading to perfect sports.com and using my code, rebel girl for a 20% discount. Now back to the episode. Okay, I wanted to ask you actually, Andy, when you are dating a new partner, and you have a kid, you know, I'm not a mom, like I said, so. Is there a certain amount of time that you wait before you introduce your partner to your new partner to your kid?
Unknown Speaker 42:46
Yes, I do. I don't want to be like, I don't want to like to be his dad. Oh my gosh, he like remarried twice already. Oh, you know what I mean? Um, I remember dating somebody before Colton. And he was like, oh, I want to be Sebastian fishing. I was like, No, you don't you don't know. You're not dating him. You're dating me? Yeah, that's yeah, there is a time limit. And I Yeah, it doesn't get that. I I'm very sensitive about that. And it's my personal life. It's the only thing that I have personal that I carry it and I keep to myself and in that what I enjoy, you know? Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 43:24
Yeah. So, you know, do you know like, the exact is like, a year a couple months? Like, no, I just have to have that feeling. Yeah, it's probably on a case by case situation, right?
Unknown Speaker 43:36
Yeah, I definitely had that feeling. Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 43:39
So another mother follow up question. I just can't fathom it. i All the women, all you women who are fighters and mothers, I'm like, Dude, I can barely deal with fightcamp Let alone you know, I was just talking to my girl Denae on the phone and she's telling me about her story her week what she has to do. And then she's like, Oh, hold on. My kid just threw up and I'm like, oh my god, I can't even imagine going through that. So I'm like, when you're a mother and you've got all this this child stuff to deal with? Right? You're raising kids? Is there? Does it change the way you approach your fight camp or change the way your mental game like, you know, you know, your preparation at all? Like, you know, a mama bear instincts? Is there anything like different I guess? I was
Unknown Speaker 44:23
a little lucky on that side, like, okay, so I was a single mother with Sebastian and then till about he was about eight years old. His his father was like, you know, it's time for you to take it to the next step. You should turn pro. Let me let Subash live with me. And I'm like, really? He's like, Yeah, I mean, you're not getting any younger. He was like, you're not getting any younger. I'm like, I know that. Right? And then at this time, this is like early 30s. And Sebastian's already. Let's see, I think I started MMA when he was six. So he's eight now and so he started living with his dad. So then I was, you know, I was free then that's what I was able to move Louisiana with Andrew Lee. And then I think we were both still an amateur for like one or two more years and then we turned pro, because we start focusing 100% onto that. So yeah, I actually got lucky. And every time I, you know, finished a fight, I would go back home and visit him.
Unknown Speaker 45:15
Okay, that's, that's probably one of the coolest things he did. Right, like, allow you the freedom to take it to the next level. And he took on more responsibilities for the kid, huh?
Unknown Speaker 45:26
Yeah, exactly. Um, you know, we were together when I was like, 18, he was 19. And then if he hadn't when I was 21. So we were kids, you know, and when we have a friendship, we understand each other. And he was yeah, he was actually my, my first fan. I moved to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. So then my son could get closer to his father. I hated that. He grew up like, you know, just a single mom, I was playing both roles. I know, I'm a tomboy, but I don't fulfill that father figure part at all. Yeah. So I moved to Myrtle Beach so they could get closer. And then when he asked them to live with him fly, you know, primarily, yeah, that ticket to another level. And that was a great understanding, also, but it was him. That was my first fan, him and his fiancee at the time.
Unknown Speaker 46:13
Okay. So, you know, obviously, being a mother and a fighter at the same time is its own struggle, but I'm wondering, is there any other struggles that you've had to face in the fight game or, you know, in the dating world as a, you know, a female fighter just because it's different. The Dating Game is a little bit different.
Unknown Speaker 46:33
Um, let's say we're amateurs we're not making money with sponsorships and stuff. So I was doing, you know, I'm Asian, so I was doing nails. I was doing nails and and I was, you know, fighting. So, I've never really had 100% full fightcamp I didn't even know what that was until I met Andrea. Say, dating. It's like a blur. I swear to God. Like, it's like I was like, the blackout. I don't think I dated much. I there was not a lot of guys in Louisiana that I was interested in and you don't want to go there. Oh, you don't want to go there? I like the best one is like probably already taken or like, or married or something, you know, like the best ones. So whatever.
Unknown Speaker 47:21
Well, you know, we talked briefly about you know, the tinder like the online dating. You've had some experience in that and most recently with your three year relationship with Colton success, but have you ever been in a situation online dating where, you know, like, a horror story? Like, you know, maybe catfished or, like, a bad experience?
Unknown Speaker 47:44
Um, I know, I know a lot of guys have a catfish. I know a lot of guys think like, my profile is fake. Even when I have like real real pictures up not not like, you know, not like photoshoots and stuff like that. I think I might have went on a date with a guy that was a little like, heavier than what he said it was like it maybe 2030 pounds. But I mean, I I'm not. I'm not that, you know, fallow. I mean, I still let him pay for my food. And then yeah, I hugged him. I hugged him goodbye. I'm not gonna get up because he was like, 20 pounds off and what he says because we're
Unknown Speaker 48:16
what what? What do you recommend if someone? Okay, two questions. What do you recommend if someone you're catfished you get there and the person either doesn't look like what they explained or their pictures, or maybe their personality is completely different. They were given off a different vibe online, you know, through text and DMS, as as opposed to in person. What would you do? What do you do? What's your advice?
Unknown Speaker 48:45
My advice to other people? Yeah, I guess drinking toy looks like the pitcher. I'm kidding. I'm not like I did that. Oh my god. I was so nervous on our first day. I drank a lot and I cried. I told him about like, my personal stuff and, and like my ex boyfriend, and then trust me, and oh my god, I can't believe I told I spilled my guts out and he's still looking back for more.
Unknown Speaker 49:14
Wow, he must have really liked you and been like, hopefully that was just, uh, you know, hopefully that's all her crazy hopefully. Gosh, hopefully she got all her crazy out on the first day. Okay, I guess not. So little 60 Time questions. Where is a crazy place you've ever had sex or, you know, the most abnormal place?
Unknown Speaker 49:41
I'm gonna do it on a plane. And I didn't feel comfortable doing it. Oh, yeah, we didn't. Yeah, we didn't do it in a in a plane in the stall or anything. I might have touched him like when we're on the flight, but that's about it. That would have been The craziest I guess
Unknown Speaker 50:01
that's all right 33rd base on the on the flight
Unknown Speaker 50:06
Yeah something like that.
Unknown Speaker 50:09
Was that a busy flight or was it empty?
Unknown Speaker 50:12
I don't know it was a lot of turbulence
Unknown Speaker 50:16
I love it I love it. Okay and you know you're a dominant female just like I am you know your your partner is obviously an alpha male. He's a fucking Marine. Right? So yeah, wondering do you kind of let your walls down when in the bedroom and kind of let him be more the dominant one or do you kind of maintain that dominance in the bedroom?
Unknown Speaker 50:38
Um, let me see. I think we've taken turns like you know, sometimes I just take over and sometimes when I'm too sore from training, I let him take over. Yeah. I think I remember the first time I asked him to rate me he was like, No, but I was like, What do you mean I'm kidding. Like, you know, you can't rape the willing. Yeah, he's probably gonna I'm probably gonna go home. Get bitched out for that one but
Unknown Speaker 51:02
no, we literally we literally just talked about this on I think was a two podcasts ago. And like, that's a fetish, right, like rape fantasy. But the important thing is have a safe word. You know, you're literally to consensual consenting adults. What the fuck is the problem? You know? It's
Unknown Speaker 51:19
like, yeah, exactly. Yeah,
Unknown Speaker 51:21
you know, it's like, okay, is that so? Worse? Is that so bad? Like, what's worse? Like, what if I want to dress up like Mickey Mouse and get boned? Is that is that bad? Like, what's worse? You know, it's like, I want to do it. He wants to do it. Let's do it. You know? Like, whatever. Yeah, exactly. I think that's a good segue into the lightning sex round.
Unknown Speaker 51:50
Lightning second round, if you're not familiar with it, guys, is a rapid fire one word, one question answer segment where I ask Andy a question and she just answers yes or no. We've been doing this lately. If you want to stop and tell us a story. That is okay, too. But otherwise, just yes or no is fine. Okay, okay. All right. Lightning sex round with Andy. Here we go. Do you dirty talk in bed? Hi. Yes. Do you spank or like to be spanked?
Unknown Speaker 52:19
He thinks Yes. Biting. He loves bite. Yes. Choking? No, absolutely not.
Unknown Speaker 52:29
No, you know, okay, I'm gonna stop. No, I'm gonna share this with you. And I just been. It's so funny. Like, you know, it's a sex podcast, and I share you know, I'm very open, obviously. And I expect my guest to be open. So I'll just be open with you guys. For the last year. I have not been able to get choked by my boyfriend and it's fucking bum. It's a big bummer for me, right? Because I like that. But I had spine surgery. So like, uh, you know, he's not gonna be like, holding me down by my neck. Right? And so ever. Every time someone's like, no choking, I'm like, you bastards. Like choking is great, you know? Like, you know, controlled and there's ways to do it. You can't have the guy who's fucking crushing your windpipe and like, you know, Vulcan death grip, but you know, like, there's a right way anyway. Okay, we're continuing on. Lightning section. threesomes
Unknown Speaker 53:20
No, hell no. Said that real fast. real aggressive. Okay, I have I have imagined like to have him before. Like to apologize. I've done that. Probably. You know, a lot of times.
Unknown Speaker 53:34
Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. That's always nice that
Unknown Speaker 53:36
that's, yeah, that's not like another frickin person. Oh, hell no.
Unknown Speaker 53:40
That's to have your partner that's like a monogamous Devil's threesome. All right. Do you watch porn? No. Any foot fetish?
Unknown Speaker 53:51
No, no. Don't want to see my feet.
Unknown Speaker 53:54
I know. There's some guys online that want to see your feet. Oh, yeah, I know. bodily fluid fetish. Okay, rogues are blindfolds. Any kind of any kind of bondage. Okay, if you guys are wondering what the QA is all about, Andy's not crazy. Well, Andy is fucking crazy. That's why they call her the crazy one. But that's our code word. So moving on. What about bondage like ropes, blindfold handcuffs.
Unknown Speaker 54:29
I'm pretty sure Colton wants to do that. I've never done it before. I'll be open to it to do with him.
Unknown Speaker 54:35
I love it. There's plenty of time. You know, like, I kind of feel like I love my partners so much and like sex is so great right now that I want to wait like, you know, 1015 years when shit starts to get like super boring and stale. And then you know did whips out some of this stuff. But But yeah, I'm open to it too. Okay. Role playing.
Unknown Speaker 54:54
Yeah, a little bit.
Unknown Speaker 54:55
Yeah, I seen some of your cute little photo shoots. I feel like you'd be good at role playing
Unknown Speaker 55:00
Gosh, you know, it's so hard like to, because we live together. So it's so hard for me to surprise them in lingerie or anything. I had to do it one time and sweat. Like, I had to do it underneath the sweat. Because my kid was around, you know, like, I was like, I hope you don't see the stockings to like, you know, like sandals and stuff like that. Oh, I love Yeah, yeah. You mean? Like, yeah, he'll hit around. I'm going to the shower, won't you just go ahead and change? I'm like, I don't need to change and I'm like, still in them like sweat. But he had no idea underneath. And I was like, I don't need to change. And then he's like, fucking bitch. He said he didn't say it. He was like, flashy. He's me. She told me. Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 55:37
Okay, so but stuff on you or partner?
Unknown Speaker 55:42
What would you say? But stuff? Oh.
Unknown Speaker 55:50
Do you use sex toys? Ever been to a swingers party? Or a sex club?
Unknown Speaker 55:57
No, nothing. Okay. And I'm very selfish about him. Like I do not want to share him and that I'm pretty sure you feel the same way. I hope he feels the same way. Yeah, the man of my dreams and I don't want him to be touching anything else but me.
Unknown Speaker 56:09
You know, it's funny girl is the other day one of my homegirls was like, yeah, like some people are on the mat. We're talking and I guess you got the reputation now just like fucking you and your boyfriend. Oh, swingers. And I'm like, that's funny. Cuz no one's laying their hands on my territorial.
Unknown Speaker 56:28
There's no way I think it's like, even if I can't, I can't even say even like, if it happened. I'll always have the insecurity inside. Like, it's gonna play roleplay back in my head. You know? I mean, like, I don't think that will work. I don't know how people do it. There's no way.
Unknown Speaker 56:42
Yeah, and I've had on guests, you know, shout out care. Avatara she is very open with her pansexuality and she just lives a lifestyle of very, like, no fucks in her. I don't want to miss title it but it's like polyamory. Like where it's just like,
Unknown Speaker 56:58
Oh, she's super free. I mean, that is her spirit. And, you know, maybe that was her age, you know, but like, that's not for me. And I don't know, I just can't I can say she's super happy the way she is.
Unknown Speaker 57:10
All I'm saying is that, like, I love that. I appreciate that. And like maybe someday in the future, like, you know, I can be more or less insecure and more comfortable with my own sexuality. And you know, maybe but I'm like not being my partner. I think we're kind of like stuck in our ways. But who knows? Right? Like life? Yeah. You never know. You never know. Well, that's it. You did great. That's the lightning sex round. So congratulations, girl.
Unknown Speaker 57:33
That was reading.
Unknown Speaker 57:40
Okay, I just want to let the listeners in. Like, you know, sex and violence with rebel girl is a podcast where we showcase an alternate side of fighters and experts in their fields. But I'm not here to make you guys feel uncomfortable. So we and Andy had a pre call where we're like, you know, we might need a code word if we start to get a little uncomfortable. So thanks for sharing you know your personal side. We're gonna finish up with a game of fuck marry kill and some fan questions. Is that okay Mary want to kill one go. I think we're done. We're done here. Okay, so the Fuck, Marry kill. I'm going to give you three names and you're going to tell me who you want to fuck who you want to marry who you want to kill. Okay. Okay. Now on you. Do you want to do superheroes or Christmas movies? Because we're in the holiday season?
Unknown Speaker 58:36
Ah, gosh, I had a bad childhood. I don't think I know a lot of Christmas movies.
Unknown Speaker 58:42
Well, you know, I was like, because I tried to make it specific to the guest. And then like, I Googled like, famous Vietnamese actors. And like, I was gonna give you like Kung Li and like some people that I was like, Nah, let's just give her and then I saw you wearing like Batman on your sports bra when you fight and Superman and I'm like, does this girl have a superhero fetish? Like what do you got going on girl?
Unknown Speaker 59:05
Yeah, just a tomboy and I don't date asian guys no offense guys. I'm sorry. I'm I'm gonna lose some fans. I know. I will.
Unknown Speaker 59:13
Oh, no, you won't. I mean, we all like you know what I mean? Like some people I'm
Unknown Speaker 59:17
just way too I'm way too beefy man next standing next to them. It just doesn't look right.
Unknown Speaker 59:22
Yeah, traditionally you don't see a lot of beefy Asians this is true. This is true. Yeah. Well you don't need to worry about that you got you got cool and so you're all good. Okay, let's do fuck marry kill you got Batman, Superman and threw in the joker who you want to fuck who you want to marry who you want to kill? Go
Unknown Speaker 59:40
huh? Ah, see and I want to marry Batman. I like his like, I like his man cave and I like his Batmobile. And like how it goes out and I think that sexy. Superman I think it will be annoying. I think that'd be so annoying. He's so fucking bipolar with his two personalities. So Right. Yeah, and yeah, you gotta plug the Joker right.
Unknown Speaker 1:00:04
Oh, he's good in bed for
Unknown Speaker 1:00:07
that crazy so yeah. Good job. get kicked out the house tonight.
Unknown Speaker 1:00:15
Dude if he gets mad at you wanted to fuck the Joker come on he should just be like, how about you dress up like the Joker and then fuck me yeah all right let's do some fan questions we got at RL Larsson to 2001 What is the craziest thing a friend has ever talked to you into doing? Ooh,
Unknown Speaker 1:00:45
shoot. Love would be the craziest thing. Ah, I don't know. That's hard. I know I that's usually usually me if I'm the one telling people to do something. I just don't know if anybody asked me to do something.
Unknown Speaker 1:01:04
I used to have a friend who was very girly. And I'm like you Andy like tomboy? You're actually way more girly than I am. Or maybe you just kind of doll yourself up everyone. Well, look why that's why Yeah, and so she one time we were in Vegas, and I was super young, I think was like 19 or something. Or I think 2121 And she had me wear this fucking hoochie mama dress my butt cheeks hanging out. And I remember for the first time like, just saying like, Okay, I'll do it. But then after that I got a lot more comfortable wearing like girly dresses. And like, you know, sometimes when your friend talks you into doing something that you're uncomfortable with, it's not always bad, right?
Unknown Speaker 1:01:43
Yeah, it was always bad. It's just out of your comfort zone for sure.
Unknown Speaker 1:01:47
Nothing off the top of your head.
Unknown Speaker 1:01:49
I honestly can't think of one. I don't know why
Unknown Speaker 1:01:53
that's okay. And name one thing this guy's got a two parter. Name. One thing that's on your bucket list that most people wouldn't think you would want to do?
Unknown Speaker 1:02:04
A cash I don't know either. I've done a lot of things that I want to do. What is
Unknown Speaker 1:02:10
your life is complete. You can die happy. Nay I
Unknown Speaker 1:02:12
wish I know. I probably won't be able to die. Happy but I'm trying to like there's got to be something. I'm okay. I want to have the balls to scuba dive one day or something like that. Yeah,
Unknown Speaker 1:02:28
actually, I want to connect you with a guy shout out at scuba Tony. On Instagram. He takes a lot of fighters down to Cozumel, Mexico, and hooks him up with free scuba diving lessons.
Unknown Speaker 1:02:42
I think I keep phobic or something I don't know cuz I did. What did I do? I did a pool training session with Sironi like he does his swimming laps. Yeah. And like you have to stay underneath the water and like it's only three four feet, but you have to swim back and forth and I felt claustrophobic and I don't know why. But that I just died. I don't know that. Okay,
Unknown Speaker 1:03:01
so you want to conquer your fear? Yeah, I
Unknown Speaker 1:03:04
conquered my fear. Probably. Skydiving fire one of those. I know. I see fighting is like a lot of my adrenaline like, it makes me happy. That's my joy. And like I you know, I don't really need that. I don't need this skydive. But if I could ever have you know, I can't fight no more. Maybe I'll do that. You will.
Unknown Speaker 1:03:23
I'll go skydiving with you. If you come visit me here. There's a place in San Diego. And it's like, jump San Diego or something like that. And we'll go it's fun. It's real fun. Okay, okay, you've done it before just one other time and it was really fun. Okay, all right@shaq.attack.li favorite way and outfit and favorite staredown of you and another fighter?
Unknown Speaker 1:03:49
I don't know man. I just have so many times when my favorite my favorite one or their favorite one.
Unknown Speaker 1:03:57
Your favorite one? Yeah. Cute.
Unknown Speaker 1:04:01
Probably Wonder Woman. It was for Ryzen and it was against Rena. Oh yeah, I did Papa. Yeah, that was probably my favorite outfit. Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 1:04:11
Okay and favorite staredown
Unknown Speaker 1:04:14
favorite stared down was a girl that was bare knuckle. That one with the shove and that one went like little viral and everything. I never really shot anybody I wanted to stick my forehead on her forehead. And I couldn't because she had a stupid cap on like a hat and I just put this little you know, I just did a little shove I didn't think it was gonna get that much reaction if she you know she pardon me? No, you saw that way and
Unknown Speaker 1:04:44
no, I didn't I'll check it out. Okay, at Air Media Productions shout out to our editor. What fighters would you like to see join gamebird FC the most and why?
Unknown Speaker 1:04:59
Oh, Oh man, I don't know man. i It's a competition man. I don't want you guys to get on like
Unknown Speaker 1:05:07
maybe different weight class or maybe dudes you know like I want to see Tanya Avenger but she's not your weight class.
Unknown Speaker 1:05:13
No, she's not my weight class. I want you I would like to see. There's a lot of people. That would be good. It doesn't go on top of my head. All right. No, a lot of people I know a lot of people that wouldn't do it. Oh, yeah, yeah, and I I don't know. Okay. I thought about that.
Unknown Speaker 1:05:31
Okay, and she fights to media. Have you or a partner ever suffered an injury during sex?
Unknown Speaker 1:05:39
Oh, man last night we I cramp up oh my god. I haven't done no game forever. My left button Oh my right inner thigh his abs. Yeah, we probably have to stretch before sex now.
Unknown Speaker 1:05:51
Why? Why is it the inner thigh? Cuz it happens to me too. And maybe it's just females the inner size? Always were we cramp? I feel like
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I it was weird. And that was I wasn't even moving
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you need a banana eat a banana girl.
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What I did when I jump off the bed
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all right. When was the end? This is the same person at she fights to media. Super big supporter of women's MMA. Check them out. When was the last time sex helped you get over an issue in your life? Oh, now I don't think this is necessarily a healthy question. I'm not you know, like, you know, but if it ever has helped you get over something. I guess that's a benefit but maybe not the smartest go to thing.
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Yeah. Go to thing. It was probably a rebound or something like a long time ago. Now. I just don't go. I don't think I've ever gone up to him like sad and like just want you know, to jump on his bone because I was sad. It's just I don't know. I don't see that happening.
Unknown Speaker 1:06:58
Sometimes when I feel sick, like you know, just like the flu, whatever. Like after sex. I feel better. That's weird, right? Really? Yeah. Because you naturally release endorphins and serotonin all these like good chemicals.
Unknown Speaker 1:07:12
Ah, okay. Like if you're hungover. Okay. Yeah, I get it. Now.
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Why do you think people masturbate before they go to bed? It's like, combat feeling. It's like better than melatonin but in smoking weed. Okay, last question for them. Would you rather pleasure yourself before a training session? Ooh. Or have Okay, sex after a training session.
Unknown Speaker 1:07:37
Okay, thanks. Now we can Okay, thanks.
Unknown Speaker 1:07:39
Like my, I guess maybe mediocre. He puts it in and like comes really fast. And you're like, Wow, that was not. Oh, no, no, no. So your first one pleasure yourself before training session?
Unknown Speaker 1:07:55
I guess I mean, that I think that will be better than the second one. Yeah,
Unknown Speaker 1:07:58
yeah. Okay, last question. And I don't know if there's a sponsor of yours. but@drip.rx How does drip RX help her with her warm up and recovery?
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No, shinies bothers me. Well, I
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wasn't sure I was like, cuz I always like to give like real fans real people that call him but then I'm like, is this guy just looking for a free promotion? Which you know, exactly. That's what we're getting right now.
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Well, I'm sure for X it's not good for lube because it heats up.
Unknown Speaker 1:08:29
Oh, good. So you found that out the hard way? No, I get what is drip RX?
Unknown Speaker 1:08:39
It's like sweet sweat. But better. They have this like it smells like coconut. I freakin love it. And I'm not saying that because he sponsored me. It's not like coconut it's so good.
Unknown Speaker 1:08:50
Well, drip RX. Hit us up. We are always looking for more sponsors for the podcast. Oh, awesome. Andy That's it. That's all the questions that's all the awkwardness that's working awkward. It
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was a bad me I did sweat a little bit but it was
Unknown Speaker 1:09:04
Okay hopefully I didn't you know rock the boat gets you in trouble at home. I love you so much. Where can we find you? on all the social media handles Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, whatever else you have.
Unknown Speaker 1:09:18
Any the crazy one? They're all Andy the crazy one. All of them. All of them.
Unknown Speaker 1:09:23
Okay, girl. What is the date for the Pallas Athena organization? Show on January 17 15 1515.
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Yes. Okay. Now Calgary, Alberta. In Canada. It's gonna be cold.
Unknown Speaker 1:09:40
Hey, I wrestled there when I was in college before. Oh, really? Yeah. Calgary.
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What is Canada known for? I know they have I know. They have nice people. Like what are they known for? like good food
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or pastries, pastries based. DJ Zol has traveled the world as a musician and he's Saying pastries okay, I'm butene I think that's meat though right gravy gravy gravy and mayonnaise on me is what I think putting on fries. Oh fries that's called yeah okay, okay. Oh, that sounds like a heart attack but whatever chips ketchup chips to Okay, well Andy you got about a month and a half to get ready for that fight or little over a month I guess and yeah you're filling in short notice you're just a badass I can't wait to see what's next for you. Yeah, I know you're just like me we're gonna fucking rock it to the wheels fall off I don't see
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it Yeah, exactly. I love you thanks for having me. Thank you so much tell Colton don't kill me don't be mad Kay bye All right goodbye sense of humor when I'm feeling low
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here when I come to when the sun goes down take away my travel takeaway my takeaway my holiday she came in she came in yeah yeah now I want to throw my kiss kiss that's it guys another awesome episode. Huge shout out huge thank you to our guest Andy the equation when professional Muay Thai, MMA and now Bare Knuckle MMA fighter. Just a badass and a beauty and an all around good person. I can't thank her enough for coming on the show and opening up. It's not it's not easy guys. You know you guys think like yeah, sex and violence the rebel girl but it takes a lot to put your shit out there. So I truly appreciate all of our guests for coming on and showing a different side of themselves. Next week. You guys are not going to want to miss this guest. I can't even believe she's coming on the show. God. Like I said, I'm just so appreciative. And I feel grateful that I've met so many cool men and women along the way. I know this girl from high school, I think the first time we met anyway. Adeline Gray, an American freestyle wrestler who is a six time world champion and a two time Olympian. She's the first American woman to win back to back wrestling world titles since Trisha Saunders in 1998. In 1989, she's also the first American wrestler to win six World Championships. Guys, that's, that's out of men and women. So she's the baddest, she's the goat not the goat of women. She's the fucking goat. So, um, so like, who she's coming on my little podcast like all six of you guys good to hear. Good to hear this badass woman talk about her personal life and dive deep so I'm very excited very honored to have her on the show. She also is the first female wrestler to have her own signature shoe, the Asics aggressor three, which I used to have, she sent me a pair until someone fucking broke into my car and stole them. But I gotta get myself another pair in just support her and sport women's wrestling. I'm jazzed if you can't, again, tell it's going to be amazing episode next week. So tune in for that guys every Friday. Don't forget all the other stuff. www sex violence with rebel girl.com Buy your shirt, support the show, pay the bills, keep the lights on and be entered into a free giveaway for a signed UFC glove by me and maybe somebody else. I haven't figured it out yet. I love you guys. Thank you so much. I cannot thank you enough for tuning in every week. Supporting the show's fan questions commenting on the social media, all that stuff. I love it. We appreciate it. The show is growing. Big things are happening. Big things are coming coming but I don't want to I don't want to get to I don't want to get my hopes up. You know, I just want to keep my nose to the grindstone keep cranking out this content for you guys keep you know researching and getting to know amazing guests and I know something special is gonna happen. Special Special thank you to the amazing DJs Oh, you can find him on social media at DJ Zolo please check out his music guys. Hip Hop, pivot hop all that stuff. He does it all some cool stuff that I don't even know what you call that genre but it makes me want to smoke weed and mellow out. So check his stuff out. Tomorrow could studio where the magic happens here in Orange County, California. I love it. It's a it's a recording studio but I feel like I have opened the podcasting doors if you will just a little bit and I feel home here guys and so if you are local and you want to reach out to tomorrow could studio because you too want professional sound quality podcasting, please hit them up on social media. It's at tomorrow kids official. And always you can find us at our Instagram account at sex and violence with rebel girl and my personal account at Ashley MMA. We say it every once in a while, but might as we'll say it again, please follow our backup account because there's Karen's in the world and you know, we post a lot of booty pics. And so yeah, that's just at sex and violence with rebel girl. The number two at the end. That's it guys. I hope you guys enjoy your weekend. Enjoy the fights, go to the fights, watch the fight support fighting somehow just listening to this podcast is kind of supporting fighting, you know, cuz I'm a fighter. Someday I'll get back in the cage. So you're supporting fighting that way. I love you guys. It's the goddamn holidays. So be extra kind. Remember, be grateful. Be kind, but don't take shit from anyone. I'll talk to you next week with a new amazing guest and more tales of sex and violence.
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Bye
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