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Ep.94 Charisa "The BKFC Sweetheart" Sigala

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Sex and Violence Hey guys, welcome back to sex and violence rebel girl, the show where we interview high level MMA fighters and other experts in their fields about love, dating, romance. And that subject you all love, sex. I'm your host, Ashley, rebel girl. And now let's talk about it what's happening hot stuff,

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what is up all my naughty listeners and now viewers, we are on YouTube with full episodes. Check that out. I hope you guys are all having a kick ass week so far. I've had a great week, to be honest, I got a new job. And I'm super excited to share that with you guys. I haven't put it out on social media. I barely even told some of my best friends. So you guys, you're all my friends. I'm telling you first and I will now be the official backstage interviewer doing posts by interviews for a new local MMA promotion and they are called up next fighting. Their first event is being held May 21 at the Burbank Marriott in Burbank, California that's local here in Southern California. If you guys want to go tickets are actually they're doing pretty good. It's less than a month away. General Admission is already sold out. So if you really want to go, you gotta get a reserved seat. But please go to that website that is up next You can check out their social media handles that is at up next fighting on Instagram and Twitter. So pretty easy. Check that out. If you guys come in person and you see me please say hi, I'll probably be walking around when the people or the fighters are fighting and then backstage interviewing afterwards. So yeah, you know, if you guys are long term listeners, then you know that this is a really, really, it's a milestone for me really, because as I've been injured the last pretty much two years, but like for sure year and a half now, I have been attempting to do other things like podcasting, and post by interviews working for local organizations by organizations. I've you know, started a fan time, which shout out my fan time, you can check that out at www. Ashley rebel You know, see me do some naughty poses and little X rated content for you guys. And I've just been doing other things to stay busy because being a professional athlete on the bench is heartbreaking. And in order to not feel sorry for yourself or you know, kind of stay busy and and feel like you have some sort of purpose. I've been doing these other things. And let's face it, we all know you can't fight forever. So trying to set my life up for when I do retire, which is not anytime soon. I know people kind of think that with all the tittie pictures and podcast stuff. But that's not the case. I am just slowly healing and trying to get back in the cage. So this whole opportunity for this local MMA promotion, it's like, yeah, it's a gig. But for me, it's proof that attempting all these different things has finally paid off. You know, I've been putting myself out there. And let's face it, when you start doing something, you're gonna suck, and I did it once say that I was gonna be a good backstage interviewer. But I was doing it on the local scene for free for a while then I had someone pay me and now legit promotion has hired me. So it's just a very cool evolution. And I guess I'm giving myself a little pat pat on the back because I was nervous. I was nervous to start this podcast, I was nervous to go out there and, you know, do these interviews and you know, mess my words up or look like a fool. Just like I was nervous when I started MMA. But I did it and I pushed myself and now it's paid off. You know? Is it the UFC where I would love to work someday? No, but you know, you got to start somewhere. So who knows? Other than that, I just been doing lots of fucking Downward Dog. building my body up. I feel really strong. I'm pain free for you consistent and weekly listeners. I've told you stem cells, fucking check them out. If you have chronic pain, anywhere. 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We're live with Teresa. Not sure ERISA the bare knuckle sweetheart. Segalla Sharifa. Thank you so much for joining us. How are you?

Unknown Speaker 13:26
Good. Thank you for having me on.

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Yeah, I told you before we started, you're kind of like the guinea pig. We're still working out our full video situation. So if you guys are seeing the full video, that means we did it. If you only see clips on Instagram, we failed horribly. But we appreciate you coming on. I'm really excited to talk to you. So let's jump right in. I want to talk first about the violence aspect. And then we'll get to the sex and love and romance part. Okay, that sounds good. So you are a badass MMA fighter who transitioned into bare knuckle. Pretty much. That's all I know. I know you had an epic fight of the year in 2021. So badass, there's pictures and that I think I think that fight will live, you know, kind of in infamy in the bare knuckle world. So what are you doing now? Do you have anything scheduled? And just what can you tell us about what's coming up?

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So right now I'm still working on the scheduling part. I was hoping to have something by now but we're still working on it. But I'm still active with the KFC and I love it. I think it's just something when I did it, I didn't know what it was gonna be like, you know, I've seen a couple of back and you saw a couple of things here and there with bare knuckle when it was first coming out. So you're like, I don't know if that's for me. And when COVID happened, you know, MMA sort of stopped and I literally my last MMA fight was the week before everything got shut down. And so it's like I you know, my age, I'm like, I want to keep going and so when I got hit up by some rbkc and asked me if I wanted to do it, I was like, Oh yeah, I'll go give it a try. I add so like I immediately fell in love with sports. So I mean, MMA isn't a no go for me. I the thing with the KMC is that let you do a little bit of everything but right now it's like strictly be a KFC and I'm like waiting to see where I'm gonna go with it. They're gonna offer me another 125 fighter another 115 Because I do both weight classes.

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Okay, okay, so, so many questions. You said BK FC lets you do whatever you want meaning you can get out of your contract and go fight MMA and come back.

Unknown Speaker 15:29
It's not exclusive. So you're still in your contract, but you can go if like it there has to be within a certain amount of time. Obviously you have to ask them but as long as it doesn't conflict, yeah, you can do it.

Unknown Speaker 15:39
Yeah, that's awesome. Not every promotion as is as cool as they are when it comes to releasing fighters so that we could fucking put food on the table and provide for ourselves. We are not your your fighting slave. Okay. So So you said that you are a 115 and a 120. FiVER, why do you go back and forth? I feel like most people have like, you know, the weight class that they feel the best at? What's that situation?

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But my main weight class for MMA was always struck straightaway. It was always 115 Because that's just naturally I'm like, I lose like five pounds for flyweight. So it's not a lot they have to lose. But for me, either one works. It's just nbkc. The roster is mainly females, they really built up that flyweight female division and they're barely starting to bring in the ones who have teeners. But a lot of people who originally had signed for 115 when they came over, I'm being told now they're wanting to push for that flyweight fights because there's a belt, and there's not a belt at 115

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Oh, that makes sense. Okay, so Wow, that's kind of weird. The Oregon is organization is so new. There's just not even a belt for the straw weights.

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Yeah, and there's still not even a belt for all the male weight classes. Because I mean, they it was only I think 2010 that they started doing that we're all that we're only on 20 Something like they're on 24 Be KFC 24 They've had maybe I think 26 fights because the knuckle manias aren't numbered, but they're in there. So I mean, they're pretty new. So yeah, there's even a lot of the guys weight classes don't have

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it seems like you would just I mean, the President or whoever creates these belts would just just fucking created because everyone wants the bell and it would like, in my opinion, just create more, you know, fire under these fighters asses to obtain that belt put on more fights. I mean, you guys fight for a split second. It feels like you know, you train so hard, just like in MMA, but like even more so. I was speaking to Artem Loeb off a couple of weeks ago. And you know, he was saying it's like, being in a blender. You know, you just get fucking pushed in. someone presses the button, and it's just a whirlwind. And I I said it to me, that sounds like kind of like being in a punk rock mosh pit. And he said, Oh, I've never been in a mosh pit. But

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have you? Yeah, actually, I love my aunt wins concert tickets all the time. So I've gone with her a couple of times, and they're always like VIP section.

Unknown Speaker 18:15
That's awesome. Yeah, as I get as I get older, I Mosh less and really enjoy the box seats or the, you know, old lady seats or whatever.

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I like being up close and personal. I don't care. I'll put the earplugs in.

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Okay, that makes so much sense that the strawweight division all those female fighters are trying to get the flyweight belt. And that is a stacked division we've literally had I think every single person in the flyweight division except the current champ Christine Farah Farah yeah and maybe Britain heart maybe Britain heart I think she's the only other person that we haven't had. So who would you like to fight next? I know that's such an basic bitch question but you know don't tell me whoever they put in front of me like you know there's somebody you want to fight Who do you want to fight?

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I honestly want to see what they're bringing in. biggest one for me like I think it makes sense like I would love to fight Paige because for me I'm like at 125 I'm wanting to shoot oh into like it to me it makes sense. I know she had something coming up they haven't announced who she's fighting but that's honestly when I came that's who I was told like oh you know get in there get freeware and you know that was a big draw to coming over and then I just sort of fell in love with just fighting it so for me was whatever whatever came next I didn't I honestly am one of those like I just want to fight and I don't want to be stalled because the problem with waiting for people is there certain one like she's an AW, you know, they let you do like I said very cool. So it's like if you have to wait for somebody else you might as well just get another bite. Yeah, yeah, I can. I don't want to wait forever. And I always say even like, with the odds are if you bite enough and if you have enough fans behind you that are pushing for, you know them to bring a belt to the weight class, because he was one of those that likes to listen to their fans. And if they hear people like asking for certain fights, they definitely a bit something of interest to them, they'll put it together. We've seen it We've seen it happen before. So, you know, we'll see.

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Yeah, there's a lot of potential for the sport. It's brand new, even I mean, I guess it originated a long long time ago but the legitimate organization Bare Knuckle FC is relatively new. So who knows there's a lot of potential for new belts and you know, them acquiring new fighters and which is more potential opponents for you. So it's definitely exciting. If you do go back to MMA, where would you go? I mean, I know that's a you know, hard question to answer, you know, but would you prefer to go to somewhere like Invicta an all female organization? Or Bellator what's in your mind right now?

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I've actually always been Invicta. Bellator are combative, but it was good to me. I always your like ups and downs with people with them, but they were really good to me. I mean, I never it wasn't the same. Like I know, Feldman. I've talked to Feldman personally, but it wasn't the same there but I was really good friends with voters and stuff like that. So I still talk to them every once in a while.

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Okay, so it just kind of depends on who goes yeah, all right. Yeah, you just sound real down down for whatever mmm bear dako whoever wants to fight I liked

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38 So for me it's like I had that time constriction on me I feel like you only have so much longer to do what you want to do. So I don't want to hold myself back as much as I'd love to like one day i Well, biggest thing when I first started was I want to get into the UFC but I'm like, at 38 I've gotten very small window to get into the UFC. You know, whatever I can get. I know I've taught me when the starling fight happened. I actually was hit up by by combat and I was like, well I actually have a fight coming up again because I was already scheduled for somebody else so I was like I can't right now. And it just never happened.

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Okay, yeah. What are you know, I know you love MMA and bare knuckle but what are some downsides to each sport? You know, I don't know don't want to talk bad on bare knuckle don't want to talk about on MMA, but you know, we both love MMA. We both love fighting but what are some of the things that are not your favorite with either Bare Knuckle or MMA?

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So I was really big on since I was a black belt in jujitsu. Well I still but it's not you know, so for me it was always groundwork and so we really focused on wrestling and I love wrestling but I frickin a practicing it is the hardest sport in the world to practice I would come home and my legs the whole lay would be all bruised up. And kicking was never a big I don't mind catching jacks and I actually won the preferred when people wanted to come at me with kids restroom and drop you with them. But that was my biggest thing with MMA is you have to you have to train everything and like putting everything together, which is why I love B cam C because C is training Bare Knuckle it's easier but harder because you are focusing on just that one aspect, which is when I started before I started in May I was just focused on jujitsu and I always told myself I'm gonna get into May I want to have something down behind me because I knew other people who had done it and they were like, I started winning there and did a little bit of everything and it didn't help me so if I had done jujitsu or just one thing it would have been better. So I sort of took that advice and I did that and I loved it and I that's what I love about BCAP see is you can stick with just that boxing face but I forget miss every time I train for a fight like man I want to go do jujitsu so bad yeah, I want to get hurt because I always you get hurt more in jujitsu? Oh

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yeah, yep, yep, yep. And I you know, I don't if you know, I come from a wrestling background and I love it so much, but I fell in love with Muay Thai because like you said it's you know, a different kind of pain you know, when you're just slamming your body slamming your body on the mat like, like getting like kicked in the shin what in my opinion, it was like a break from my whole body just you know, you know, and I know how to fall right and everything but yeah, I just got tired of wrestling practice for so many years. So striking was like refreshing like it's not like it doesn't have it. It's hurtful moments but I understand completely

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love when they were pulled a crash pad out because there was a crush but millenia had one crash pad. So it's like when you use that for wrestling, I was like, Thank God falling on the mat.

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I got to bring it up because I just found this out and it's such a small MMA world. I scheduled scheduled you for the podcast and then boom, my boxing coach Chuy Gutierrez He messaged me and said, Oh, I just had a session with her. And it turns out that you're now training with my boxing coach, which makes me so happy because I'm like, Alright, I'm gonna see her in the gym or after, you know, some days. So is that something that you're going to keep doing training with chewy? Or do you have other striking coaches? Since all you really have to focus on is your striking?

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Yeah, I plan on still training with him. I was training over here locally, but I need a little bit more like I feel like, you know, when COVID Hey, it was really hard to find like a boxing place to go to. And so, you know, I found one that's really good here. And it's he's an amazing coach. I love my coach over a year at warzone. But they don't have as many professional boxers, they don't have as many females. That's the biggest part. And I was like, I need to find somewhere where they have a lot of girls. And that's the hardest thing and then trying to get in and I need somebody who had already trained with him. And when he mentioned to me, I was like, oh, shoot, I didn't know you were there, too. But I figured it's such a small world. And actually, that same day that I was there, I met a girl that I was supposed to spar with from another coach I had Oh, wow. More. She's like, hey, they said that they had a bare knuckle girl. I was like, Yeah, that was me. She's like, we're useless. As far with me. I was like, yeah. Yeah, it's crazy. How small it definitely is a small world. And she happened to know because she's like, Yeah, I saw when Sterling fire. I was like, that was my fight. Like, that was you? Yes. But everywhere

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epic. Yeah, epic fight. Okay. Well, you know, I know now that you're from Southern California, you're local, but give us a little brief history on kind of where you're from and what was growing up like,

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I was born in Pomona I lived in Bloomington till I was like two, so I don't really count it. But I grew up mainly and actually up the hill and Apple Valley. And I was like, 10, my mom and dad split and then moved to Wisconsin, with my mom, because that's where her family's from. He did it and said I will. And let me my mom, honestly, I've both my parents. I'm not super close with my mom and I have our own issues. And like, I'll talk to her now every once in a while. But I was like, I need to come back because I've always been closer to other than her sister who happens to live over here. She lives in Orange County. So I go up there all the time. But I was always closer to my dad's side of family. Anyways, most of my cousins that I hang around, were on my dad's side. So I was I wouldn't just come back and live with my dad out here. And so since then, I've just been on there. I'm just a California girl other than issues with the government. I mean, it is what it is. I can't You can't be the weather. You can't yell close. Like I'm an hour away from LA an hour from Orange County, an hour from Disneyland to take my kids if I want to go so there's so much we can do a year. Growing up. I mean, I was just really, I was always into sports. And I was a tomboy. I was the one I didn't have a lot of bad friends that were girls but most of them were guys like my best friend was a little boy that lived two houses down I'd always be at his house. And when I was growing up, it was a little bit different. We didn't have the the internet we didn't have it was a watch TV ran over to friends houses. I honestly will joke around with people all the time. Like I don't know how I'm still alive. Because I don't even know how my parents who were was. You went to hit know that a friend would get a call like the parents would be like, Hey, is someone somewhere? And then they'd be like, Yeah, is it okay? She was like, Yeah, you're good. You know, it was a lot different growing up. out there. It was nice. But I was just always a tomboy riding around with boys on the trees. We had Joshua trees, and we didn't have a lot out there. So I was always like playing in mud and I was coming home dirty, but my mom would dress me super cute. I'd be wearing like matching hair accessories. And a dress. Come up. I come home Altura

Unknown Speaker 29:09
I love that I honestly I was the same exact way. And I'm sure there's a lot of female fighters Bare Knuckle MMA or whatever, that you know, no surprise, we were tomboys growing up, and then it's always funny now because I look back and I'm like, I would have never been caught dead wearing makeup or like a dress and I'm like, who am I? So I resignate with you there girl? When When did you feel like you had that kind of sexual realization? You know, it's like around puberty? Or did you have that conversation with your parents about sex and the birds and the bees? Or was it something that kind of, you know, a lot of times we just learn, like you said, you know, playing at a friend's house and you have your first kiss and then it kind of like flows in you know, into whatever.

Unknown Speaker 29:54
But nobody ever really talked about it like honestly I learned from like the school The classroom that you have you have to take. We had that, but it wasn't. It was just like one class where they talk to you about it. And they separate the girls and boys. I think they still do it because I had to sign something, my kids. But I say we'll learn some crazy shit from friends. And it was more when my mom and dad split. And we were living in an apartment. So there was thin walls to it. So you would hear some shaking looks like it was pretty bad. And then going into school to talk to friends. You just got like, oh, did you hear about this? Because we didn't have internet? Yeah. Will you believe? Like the crazy shit they said and growing up like I was pretty flat. One of the craziest things that I ever heard that somebody told me was about putting butter on your boobs to get them bigger. Younger and I was like, Okay, did you do it, did you? So my mom's very big show that she liked to watch. It was showgirls, and she would hide it. And I was like, 1312 13 I was like, What is this that she keeps hiding? So I had it on. I was glad I hadn't remembered a story that my friend had told me about that. So I literally did that. And her friend lived with us. It was a girl. She walked upstairs and I had the TV on show girls was on like totally was setting myself up. But whatever she didn't ask, she does the one I just was like, oh shit, and she walked downstairs. Nothing was

Unknown Speaker 31:28
hilarious. You know,

Unknown Speaker 31:31
it didn't work. I had to go to the doctor to get five.

Unknown Speaker 31:35
Yeah, you know, I remember when I was like, in middle school stuffing my bra with toilet paper and like, I'm like, Do girls do that still? Is that like a thing that young girls do stuff their bra.

Unknown Speaker 31:46
Amazon has cutlets. So I think

Unknown Speaker 31:50
Damn, you know, like,

Unknown Speaker 31:52
things that we didn't have growing up.

Unknown Speaker 31:57
I had, like, you know, like, you know, seven, seven pieces in here four pieces in here. One was like a lot beside boobie. Try to balance it out. But now these young girls just buy something off Amazon stick them up. Yeah.

Unknown Speaker 32:09
And I think now then, and back then there wasn't that many sex shops as there was now especially when I was at a teen I was in Wisconsin so well, till I was like 13. So that was like when you're really starting to learn about it and really starting to get more into boys. Right? So you didn't have that where now? Like, anybody can go anywhere. Feel as embarrassed? Because it's like, everybody's talking about it.

Unknown Speaker 32:35
Yeah. Which I love. And that's pretty much you know, the essence of this show is that you should feel comfortable talking about whatever it is you do, like no shame in your game, you know. And so it's so good that I mean, there's there's a line, right, like the over sexualization of children and what children and you know, the youth has access to, it's unfortunate, but I do feel like, you know, like you said, there's more sex shops, there's more like legitimate sexual education that's available, not just like an old granny in school, sticking a condom on a banana and being like, this is how to stay safe, you know, stuff like that.

Unknown Speaker 33:14
Exactly. And, you know, the one thing I hate is when I hear people talk, even because I know, like, there's certain of us that have certain reputation, I look the way I like, and people will give you shit because you have only bands or whatever. But you know what I feel like to me, I have kids and I feel like it's teaching them you do whatever the hell you want to do. You don't have to do it just because I do it. I don't tell my kids that, you know, if you feel uncomfortable, you need to go, you know, get implants or you need to go like you know, to change how you do your makeup and hair. That's not what the whole idea behind it is. It's that this is how I feel comfortable. And I'm telling you if you feel comfortable being a certain way, go do it. I'm 38 I'm not going to care about what, you know, Tom, Dick and Harry have to say up for a year about what I'm doing with my life. I'm just going to do it. Just to feel comfortable.

Unknown Speaker 34:05
So you have you have children, you said how many children and what ages are they? So I

Unknown Speaker 34:11
have three I have my oldest is 20. I had her when I was a teen. So she's 20 My she's almost 21 this year and I'm she's waiting to for us to take her to Vegas. I'm gonna give her her first drink. And then my son is going to be 16 That's coming up in May and then my youngest is 14 children.

Unknown Speaker 34:31
You got the whole spectrum and they are at that like adolescent age so this what we're talking about as far as like the birds and the bees and like learning about stuff and access to all this craziness like you are literally experiencing that with your children.

Unknown Speaker 34:45
Wow, though my youngest, I thought I had a little more time with her because me I was 14 when I am when I started my period. So it was my oldest. She started in sixth grade I was like oh my I literally was that one of my fights. And I didn't A call from my daughter telling me how she my oldest telling me how she had to explain to her that she wasn't dying. So bad. So I was like, Man, I thought I was able to talk to talk to her about it. At the end of that year now,

Unknown Speaker 35:15
she had a carry moment you remember that horror movie carry, where she's like, Oh, you're like,

Unknown Speaker 35:21
Oh, my oldest headaches late when it went through, and I felt so bad. But thankfully, like, I explained it right to her.

Unknown Speaker 35:28
Okay, so you got the three kids and I always ask, what is your current relationship status? And how do you identify sexually?

Unknown Speaker 35:36
So I'm single, you know, for me, it's just me, my kids. But as far as sexuality, like I, for me, I never put labels, but I guess I consider like pansexual. So really give a crap if it's guys. female, female, male, I don't care. It's whatever ID I fell into at that moment. That's when I'm in too.

Unknown Speaker 35:57
Great. Yeah. And, you know, this is the kind of show where we have dove deep into terminology. We've had people who were polyamorous and, you know, I think, you know, obviously, like straight bisexual, you know? And so in your words, what is pansexual? Just for the listeners who haven't been listening consistently.

Unknown Speaker 36:19
Yeah, so for. So to me, it just means that, you know, I love who I love it, or what, you know, whoever I want to be with at that time. It's more in the moment, I feel more. It's about that feeling. And that connection that you have with somebody whether it's male or female, and it's like one day I might like want to be with a woman the next day might be mad, just it's just that connection. Whatever connection I have with God, whoever it is, it's not exclusive to gender. Always. Yeah,

Unknown Speaker 36:49
yeah. Got it. Okay. So have you had, I'm assuming because you've had three children that you have had relationships with men? Have you also had romantic relationships with women? Or has it been strictly physical?

Unknown Speaker 37:02
Um, I, I've never had like, full on relationship relationships. But I've been with women. Like, it's more like, you get drunk, and then you have fun, and I like it. And a lot of times, you know, it's like people I knew. So it was like, I would see them again, it would happen again. But it's never full on like 100%. And honestly, I don't know, for me, I don't. I'm one of those that I'm at a point in my life where I'm so focused on the fighting and everything that relationship is like, bottom of my list, and I would add for whoever I was with to do that to them. So it's more for me, it's about having fun. And getting what I want when I need.

Unknown Speaker 37:44
Yeah, so first thing I think is dating apps are sound kind of ideal. Because if you're not looking for something extremely committed, dating apps tend to be nice for kind of like, you know, I don't want to say hookups. You know, yeah, hookup, but like something less serious, more casual. Have you ever done dating apps?

Unknown Speaker 38:04
I honestly have it. And I'm actually scared. And the reason why the reason why I

Unknown Speaker 38:08
shouldn't be scared you should be.

Unknown Speaker 38:11
I mean, I was pretty obviously I had my daughter when I was 17. So you know, I was very sexually active when I was younger, and the biggest thing was STDs and so I get really really scared with dating apps. Because so the one good thing about and I won't date fighters, but that's the one good thing if you were with somebody that was a fighter is you know that they they have a good thing so you don't worry about that. Obviously not everything. Yeah, but that's honestly the the biggest fear to me, because you don't know who and then obviously, the news has had some crazy shit about like Tinder.

Unknown Speaker 38:47
Oh, Tinder swindler that mother fucker. I believe

Unknown Speaker 38:52
in a couple years ago. Don't you remember the one where the girl was stuck in the hotel room? No, like I was I forget what the guy was doing to her. But she got lucky and got out and he was like he kept her there for like three days it was fucking crazy. This was like five years ago. Oh my god I'm like somebody that organic way

Unknown Speaker 39:12
you know and and it's really sad because you're right there are psychos like that on dating apps. So it makes it makes the dating world that much more scary. But I think just like we use caution when dating in the real world you know, we should also use caution when dating on social media meaning okay, if you're gonna meet up with this person for the first time, you should tell a friend you know like maybe share your location on your phone in case something happens so like, if you go missing they can find you like stuff like that and

Unknown Speaker 39:46
air tags and love hands. What's the air tag or tag it so my daughter has to go get one now she loses all her shit, but you haven't heard that you think so people will put air tags on your car and stuff. It literally will tell where your location is. Is it tied to your location. So

Unknown Speaker 40:01
it's like a GPS tracking device,

Unknown Speaker 40:03
pretty much for whatever you want it to be. You could put it on your keys you could have one for right now the newest thing is a, they'll put it in the car, and they'll track your car. I feel like

Unknown Speaker 40:13
this technology can be used for good and, you know,

Unknown Speaker 40:18
but in that way, I'm like, at least for my because my since my daughter's 20. At least I'd be like, Here, here's my location here, come find me. But then again, it's like at same time do I want her to know what I'm

Unknown Speaker 40:28
doing? You had your kids at 17? Which means yes, you were sexually active. Just want us through that situation? Because you obviously had one at 17. One A few years later, you know, so you had you know, your experience as a mom, you know, what was that? Like? You know, after you had your first kid, were you like, I want more? Um,

Unknown Speaker 40:50
they all happen by accident. Meaning I just never. For me, I was like, if it happens, it happens. And I was one of those that was like, whatever. Like, when I was younger, I really wanted a lot of kids. Okay, as I had my after my second one, I was like, I don't think I want any more. But I literally got pregnant again. 10 months later. So yeah, yeah, that's not so. Oh, and I got an IUD. Yeah, like, completely. It's

Unknown Speaker 41:25
another thing these young girls fucking have that we didn't have IUDs you lucky little bitches like we had to take that shitty little pill that what the fucking teenager is going to remember to take a tiny little pill every day. Like you're so screwed. Now there's an IUD gentleman if you don't know what that is, educate yourself. It's a basically a small, tiny, tiny, tiny piece of metal that goes into your uterus. No, it does not feel going good. Going in and it feels even worse coming out. So be grateful if your girl has an IUD say thank you, babe. I love you. Because I could get my you know, my shit snipped. But instead you're going through this pain. And it is like a goalie. And it just makes, you know, just blocks all the you know what, from getting up in there.

Unknown Speaker 42:08
The problem with like everything else, so I went, I was having too much changes when I was trying with the pill and stuff. I was getting really imbalanced. I was like, I can't do this. But the IUD like has very, very little hormones. Yeah, like very small. So it doesn't really affect the same way. And I was like this perfect me like I don't like you still have a risk of having an ectopic pregnancy, but it's very small.

Unknown Speaker 42:34
Yeah. And for female athletes, you know, we don't want to mess with our hormones any more than we have to because women we have high estrogen. And you know, there's some women that naturally have high testosterone, which is great lucky for them, but we just don't want to put any more estrogen in our body than we have to we're already crazy enough.

Unknown Speaker 42:52
Oh, yeah. lay in the weight. Like imagine, like you're getting ready for a fight like especially because we're weights specific kind of, you know, combat sports, you have to be on weight when you fight. Yeah, you're taking that pill. It's like, Hey, I'm gonna make weight. I'm gonna carry water water, like what's happening? Exactly. So

Unknown Speaker 43:12
you you don't do dating apps. You're single right now. You're very focused on your career. So it sounds like you're not even looking? No, not at all.

Unknown Speaker 43:21
I I'm one of those like, so. I think I'm a little bit harder. People have a hard time approaching me. But there are so when people do say hi. Like, I like talking to people, and I don't mind it. So if somebody comes around, and it makes sense, it makes sense. Yeah, I mean, more like organic. I've always been that type of person. I've I don't like the quit, like I've had quick hookups. I've had crazy shit for friends. And I did a lot of that already. That I'm like, Okay, I'm over it. I'm at a point in my life where my main focus is this and I really, really, really want to get in a good place because you don't have too many options like this anymore. Where there's a sport that's so up and coming to make such a name for yourself. Because I did MMA for years and I was foreign to an MMA and you didn't get the attention you did until I started doing speakeasy. Once I did became FC, it's like, okay, I see how much more of an impact I can have at this sport. I see the fans are out way more. So I feel like if I do anything now that's going to take me away from that like, and then on top of that I also am more of a giving person. I am the type that wants to make sure if I'm there I'm fully there. Yeah, yeah. And for other people because I wouldn't want somebody to do that to me unless it's one of those two. You know, if I find somebody that's like, I just want that because I just want to

Unknown Speaker 44:55
Yeah, and that's, that's really kind of you because a lot of people I've done this myself get into a relationship, only able to give 50% or 40%. Because unfortunately, the sport takes so much so much energy, so much time, you know, so much emotion that what's left for your partner is sometimes really selfish, it's like, bottom of the barrel, you get what's leftover, tired, you know, Sharifa, you know, like, you know, so dead, it's like, okay, let's have sex, but you do all the work, you know, and, you know, that's not fair to your partner. So, at least, you know, you know that that's not nice to do to someone, and you're focusing on your career, because you're right, I'm in the same boat, I'm going to be 35 in July. And every day that goes, goes by, because I'm on the bench right now. I'm injured. You know, it's just like this, you know, ticking down, I'm like, okay, like, how much longer do I have? And then I check myself, I'm like, Look, you're only 35 You're not gonna have kids, you got, you know, three to five more years minimum, you know, as long as I come back within the right amount of time. So I feel you on that with the clock ticking down. But you have a great platform now, like Bare Knuckle does seem to be just a really good opportunity, like you said, for you to grow and be a bigger name than in the MMA world, just because it's, you know, brand spankin new and you have you right out the gate, you made a name for yourself, you came out guns a blazing fight of the year. So I think you just made a statement, and now people are on the lookout for you. Yes.

Unknown Speaker 46:26
And that's what makes it scary to meeting people. I felt like I'm way more cautious now. Even like, when you get DMS and shit, you're like, I don't want to say anything to this person. Because, you know, they might like, fucking screenshot this and throw it out. Where you know, you're a little more cautious. And that's why I'm maybe I'm over over cautious about everything. But like, I can honestly make myself feel good. So I don't need to have a man like it's not something I'm gonna go.

Unknown Speaker 46:56
For sure. For sure. Yeah. And you know,

Unknown Speaker 47:01
do a better so, yeah.

Unknown Speaker 47:05
You just froze for a minute, but that's okay. So I want to ask, you know, you've had this experience, you've got your kids. If I had asked you, what's one of your worst dates, we gotta, I gotta ask like, you know, you don't do online dating. So it must have been an organic date. But when you think about the worst date you've ever had, what comes to mind?

Unknown Speaker 47:24
So I see you go, so I went out with this guy, and I knew well, and it was like, Okay, you think you're gonna have a great because you don't? You connected at that school and stuff like that, because I'm still in school. You go on the day, and it's like, they're on their phones. There's like, absolutely. I was sitting there like, there's absolutely no like, talking and then it's like, okay, phone a friend. Can you call me? Like, Okay, I gotta go.

Unknown Speaker 47:56
So he was just really rude on his phone.

Unknown Speaker 47:59
Yeah, just on the phone. And then just there was like, awkward. It was just really awkward. It was 100% Like, I was trying to have a conversation. And it was just like, pulling teeth with people. Those are like, I can't I don't know, you know, I don't know if it was because he got the nerve up to talk to me. And to finally like, ask me out, I don't know, I feel like there's just a different energy. And I, to me, I don't see myself this way. But I've been told other people do like I said, like, I see people like Adriana Lima. And I'm like, Oh, she's fucking hot. Like, if I was around that person, and I would be, you know, a little bit more like, what am I going to do with myself? I don't see myself that way. I feel very normal. And I can be I just, I'm average, but other people say difference. So I don't know if it's just because of that. I don't know if it's because we were out and different kinds of expectations, because I'm, I don't know, they expected me to be a little bit more bubbly. I don't know

Unknown Speaker 49:02
what Okay, well, you know, that guy just seems like he didn't put the effort in if you're on your phone and a first date, Fuck off, man. Like, give me the respect to just pay attention to what's going on that guy success. So if you could talk to the males or the ladies, you know, and you could tell them something about yourself, because you're right. I've actually got this as well that I am intimidating. And I get it because of the tattoos and the piercings and I'm MMA fighter for you. It's like this bloody Bare Knuckle badass baby got beautiful body, beautiful face, you know, boobs, you're looking great. And so it's intimidating for these men who, you know, obviously there probably are women, you know, they're obviously attracted to you. What would you tell them like, you know, you know, to make them feel better, or more or like they could talk to you?

Unknown Speaker 49:55
Yeah, I'm just an average person. I actually love talking. I so I am not the normal girl I've been around men so often I think maybe that's the other reason why people get put off. And maybe that was it was with him. I don't know I I love combat sports. I'm not into like other kinds of forts because I feel like they're boring, like basketball and all that stuff. So

Unknown Speaker 50:17
nobody's getting punched in the face. We don't want to watch now. Yeah, it's,

Unknown Speaker 50:21
but it's more the fact that in combat sports, it's a little less like, I don't know what's gonna happen versus like, those kinds of sports, you sort of know, it's gonna go back and forth. Yeah, all can only go one way or the other. It's sort of like, but I feel like I'm that type person that I can talk to anybody. And I've always been a little bit more motherly, I guess, because people do usually talk to me about their problems, their issues, but I don't feel like I'm that hard to talk to you. Like, you can literally talk about anything. I've been around men all my life, because that's all we are around in the gyms so I'm that type of girl that's used to hearing guys. I can talk shit about girls or about being with this person or, you know, so I feel like I'm a little more down to earth the most women that you know, they usually meet are. So I feel like if you're going to talk to me just talk to me. Yeah. Yeah, I'm not that scary, I promise. So it's really good. Now.

Unknown Speaker 51:24
What's the most romantic or craziest thing you've ever done for love?

Unknown Speaker 51:29
Um, so for crazy, I mean, I really, I'm, I'm horrible when it comes to that stuff.

Unknown Speaker 51:35
Horrible. Like, you just know.

Unknown Speaker 51:39
I'm not ever meant to like I wear lingerie to the pretty pictures, but I'm totally not that will go on like, I literally will sometimes forget people's birthdays. I'm really, really, really bad with that. But I mean, buying a box chocolates and I I'll buy edible reedbeds every once in a while. That's like, honestly, the biggest thing for me, I'm like, Okay, I guess I'm actually that, like, quick trips, like going, I like outdoors. So like, maybe there was one time where I like, did a trip where we went to like, the river buy out here. I forget what the river was. But we just went to the river and had a little quiet moment today.

Unknown Speaker 52:37
What is your perfect date? If you know somebody's taking you out and they want to show you a good time? What would be a perfect day like wow, this person killed it.

Unknown Speaker 52:45
Outdoors take me rock climbing. I like to get like down and dirty actually my finest time. I've never been on a date. But I did it like with with my jujitsu school, but I think it'd be awesome day would be like a tough butter or like as far as because I like I love that stuff. A little bit of both things. Like, if it's a guy that can show off their muscles, and at the same time you can I like being active. So yeah, I did Spartan run and I that was fun. I did a Tough Mudder and that was awesome. That is

Unknown Speaker 53:17
a really good idea. That's a really good idea. I never did the Tough Mudder. But do you know what the Bear Grylls challenges? I've heard of it. I haven't done that one. Me and a couple of my friends did it. And it was super fun. And so yeah, I'm like, oh, I should actually ask my boyfriend if he wants to do that. It's just and it's kind of like a bonding experience. Like, there's these activities you have to like figure out and do together and then one person is climbing a rope and the other one's like you can do you know like it's just a cutesy little situation and you're making like really good memories and you're working out and you're getting dirty like, yeah, and that's

Unknown Speaker 53:51
April, but there's it that's more brain. I was like I like I like the physically active stuff.

Unknown Speaker 53:57
So one of my friends got me a what's what's that called? Escape Room? Yeah, me an escape room for my birthday. And it was like me and for my girlfriends. And I like I'll admit it. I'm stupid when it comes to math like so bad. And probably even geography. Maybe science like look, I'm a professional fighter. I've got my degree in journalism. I love talking. I love writing but like, other than that, not the brightest tool in the box. So I remember thinking like, this is so sweet of her but I'm like you got me math for my birthday? Like no, never again. Yeah, so tough mudder Bear Grylls challenge perfect kind of date. Sounds good. It

Unknown Speaker 54:41
was another one too that they had the What's that show with the water? Where the where they the little red thing hits you going on? It's really funny. I forget what it's called. But they had to. It's on it's on a they had it over here in Pomona not too long ago. But it's like inflated Double things that you jump over and it's not whammy I forget what the hell it's

Unknown Speaker 55:04
called thinking of that game the Asian game the Japanese game wipe out.

Unknown Speaker 55:07
Yeah. Oh yeah, yes, they had that. That one too. Yes, that was another, but those things give me something where I'm active.

Unknown Speaker 55:16
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Unknown Speaker 57:19
It is. There's a place over here that has you can say you know people rent hotel rooms. Well, you can rent hot tub for a couple hours. Wow. about it. And they Yeah, somebody was like, let's go there. And we were drinking and having fun. I was like, Okay, got it. Now I'm like, it's probably a little gross. Because that wasn't there before and definitely lots of glory, but it's outdoors. You're in a room. It's like a regular cabanas. closed off. There's still like opening to it. But yeah, a lot of people go there for the same thing has windows like you totally one side is Windows. So you can see outside and there's like, I think they have like 15 Different hot tubs in this place. Wow. Literally somewhere where you can rent it for a couple hours.

Unknown Speaker 58:14
So you're kind of like almost being an exhibitionist, because it sounds like people could like potentially walk by Holy cow. Oh, that is? That is a cool answer. I love that.

Unknown Speaker 58:25
They're totally big windows right on the one side so and there's a walkway in front of it. So if they sort of wanted to if anybody saw you going in there, but most people are out there getting drunk and doing the same shit. So they like it.

Unknown Speaker 58:37
That's that's cool. And your partner didn't care either. Obviously, obviously. Have you? Have you ever been asked to do something that you weren't down for sexually? Or like, you know, romantically?

Unknown Speaker 58:51
No, not yet. I'm like, I don't do the bad stuff. So I mean, thumbs up that will eventually I'm sure. Well, now that's what the younger generations into but yeah, no, nothing yet.

Unknown Speaker 59:03
Okay. Okay. And what about abstaining from sex before a fight? That's like the number one question we ask. It's, you know, the show is about fighting and sex. And I'd say 99% of our guests have said, Of course not. We all have sex before we fight but I gotta ask.

Unknown Speaker 59:18
Never by choice. Never bikes. Oh, by toys.

Unknown Speaker 59:23
You never stop having sex by choice.

Unknown Speaker 59:26
Yeah, I don't care. I go for girls. I mean, so I'm in school for kinesiology and what does science girls it's a little bit different. I know guys, testosterone gets a little bit lower. Girls don't have the issue. So I mean, it wouldn't really matter

Unknown Speaker 59:41
to you, um, you sound like you are much more educated in that than I am. Does it actually have there been studies that say that it helps.

Unknown Speaker 59:50
I you know, I never looked into that kind of science. But I mean, I would think it would because your estrogen, your testosterone all that will go up a little bit. So it's going to gives you those endorphins and almost like that extra little push whereas men your testosterone goes down and you know it's a little bit different so for us I would think it would but I haven't looked at any kind of studies my opinion

Unknown Speaker 1:00:13
by well now yeah, let me know. But you know my opinion and even if the studies say otherwise I'll probably be like no fuck that I'm having sex. My opinion with that you know is just like pretty much everything in life if you think that it helps you then do it because as you know this sport is so mental you know 80 Fucking whatever you know percentage, it is mental. So if you believe that having six or not having six is going to give you some kind of extra oomph or extra superpower. Do whatever makes you happy.

Unknown Speaker 1:00:46
And I felt like and I feel like on top of that, like if it almost gets out some of that anxious Ness that you have before by anxious energy Yeah, that nerves and I don't get that bad honestly, I'm with people. I've said it before I'm one of the weirdest was when it comes to before my fight. I'm really laid back really chill, and I sometimes will tell myself, Is there something wrong with me? Like, am I am I going after this? Like, am I not anxious enough? Like what is wrong with you? But I'm totally like, normal day I think of it like a really hard sparring match. I totally don't. I don't get scared at all. That's

Unknown Speaker 1:01:22
wild, man. I am so fucking anxious. And like, one time I remember walking out I was I was doing it was a UFC fight. Or maybe it was before UFC I forget, but I had this feeling like, right as you're in the tunnel before you're about to walk out. Like, I felt so much anxiety that I felt like I was gonna pass out. And then they're like, All right, we're rolling. Go go. And I'm like, Well, we're going okay, you know, and it's like, as I'm walking out, I'm like, I have my degree. Like, I could be fucking doing anything else. Like, I'm, why am I why am I here? And then I go out there we Touch gloves. And I fall in love, you know, every single time and I'm like, that's why I picked this board because I don't want to, you know, sit at a desk and miss out on this adrenaline and this basically free drug feeling, you know?

Unknown Speaker 1:02:09
Seriously, I love it. Yeah, the last one. I was totally like, okay, in my two poem I and they do they tell you, you're in walkouts by voc walkouts, I think are way longer than the bkfst locka walkouts. I know, the one that was the longest was not going yeah, that was a huge ramp. But yeah, the last time I went, it was just a right, go and take your time, okay. And I'm going I'm like, Why do I feel like I'm just going to like the movies. I felt like it was like no other day and I totally knew what I was going into, but even during the fight even after the fight, and I think it was sort of cool, because that was the first time it was actually my last fight. So it was the first time they had been on ESPN report this. And so I was like, well, it's cool. Because like all these people and I have a lot of fans from Mexico and all those places because of being anchored by thick. Oh, nice. And I am Latina. I'm like oh Ma, German and my dad's Mexican. I got in trouble before like, why do you represent your you don't look. I'm white because my mom like if I show you my dad, my dad is fucking dark. Like,

Unknown Speaker 1:03:19
that's how that's what that's how my that's what my background is white mom. Mexican dad.

Unknown Speaker 1:03:25
Yeah. So that's where I'm like, Okay, and so it was cool. Because I was like, okay, my and that's more what I always represented, like, I always felt more pulled towards my Latin side. And that's my, my dad's side. So it was cool. Because I was like, Well, I'm who I am on here. I feel really calm. And they get to see that and so I was like, my personality showed more in this fight, I think than any other because that cool and calm. But at that moment, I'm like, What's wrong with me?

Unknown Speaker 1:03:52
It's awesome. I you know that everybody's different. But I feel like, I don't know, for me personally, when I get nervous and have that anxiety, like, another side of me comes out like I do well under pressure. And yeah, you know, if I wasn't nervous, I feel like I might not perform as well. Or maybe Maybe I'm crazy. I don't know.

Unknown Speaker 1:04:12
I think we all have our it's sort of like the SEC thing. It's like, whatever makes you feel better is what's gonna make you feel better. And it is what it is. What is

Unknown Speaker 1:04:23
a something that you would tell your younger self, about your sexuality, or about what you've learned in dating and love and relationships? I mean, just this last two years, I've learned so fucking much about love, like with a real healthy partner. So you know, I can't imagine I have a horrible memory but I'm like thinking back to what I felt about love when I was 16 is you didn't know shit back then. Right? So after all this, you know, all these relationships you have children now what would you tell young Sharifa

Unknown Speaker 1:04:56
I was in such a hurry to grow up. So I think I mean a lot of It was like, personal stuff in the background, I had issues at home and stuff like that when I was younger. So I think I just wanted to get out of what my situations I wanted to grow so quick and I wanted to be on my own. I wanted to have a family because I wanted that feeling that I didn't have. And I think I would just tell myself, like, calm down, like, um, and it's not like it like you think it's like the most important thing when you're younger, but you don't need it. Like it's something I love my kids. I definitely will not give them up for anything. But I had the chance I would have waited till it was a little bit older. Yeah, a little smarter and had that career already going. And, and because I do think that if it wasn't for having them, so yeah, I would have started earlier, I would have started wrestling, I would have started jujitsu earlier, I would have gotten into MMA before I did. So I do feel like I would tell myself, just calm down. You'll still find it, it'll like if you're meant to have kids, you're gonna have kids, it'll still come

Unknown Speaker 1:06:03
for sure. And you know, you never know, who knows, maybe you would have started earlier and something bad could have happened, you had an injury or you got burnout, because we've been doing it so long. Maybe this is better, because you have your children. They're all set their 14 to 20 you know that they're good. Now you don't gotta change diapers, you don't gotta worry about getting a babysitter and all that. I don't know what goes into it. But mom stuff, you know, and now it's just you, you know, and you can shine bright in this new organization. Maybe this is what you're meant to do. And I totally tell my daughter, if you have a kid, I am taking a diaper. I saw this video yesterday and I sent it to two of my best friends who have like toddlers, and it's like this younger chick. And she's like, this baby's walking. And you can tell she just has no idea what to do with kids. And she's like, chill, bro, chill when I'm like this would be dealing with kids like hey, stop, stop that crying. Stop it not gonna stop that. Stop here.

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Here's the doughnut. Everything My mom doesn't watch.

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So there's a couple more questions I want to ask before we do the epic lightning sex round if that's okay. So we you know, know what we want now and we're now we're not afraid to speak up in my teens and in my 20s I was way too passive and kind of just let sex. You know, whatever happened happened you know, if I didn't like something I would speak up but for the most part, you know, I kind of felt like I was a passenger. I was never in the driver's seat. Right? So for you what is like a big pet peeve in the bedroom something that you know, if it happens, you'll speak up and be like, This is not okay.

Unknown Speaker 1:07:43
Biggest thing is that they need to be clean. I hate like I don't like I've never been big with like a lot of like, body hair. So like those are like the big things for me. I'm like, please be a little bit clean.

Unknown Speaker 1:07:59
Yeah, Mansky. Take a shower. It's been a lot to ask like, hey, ya know, sometimes

Unknown Speaker 1:08:06
they want us to be like a perfect right sometimes they want us to be clean. They want us to know what it's the same shit.

Unknown Speaker 1:08:12
Yeah, you know, I understand if you guys were maybe out on you're really tomboy outdoorsy date during the Tough Mudder and you come home and it's just like a romantic passionate sex and you have you know, dirt in your butt crack. Okay, whatever.

Unknown Speaker 1:08:28
But, you know, that happened.

Unknown Speaker 1:08:30
You know that you're you know, she's coming over, jump your ass in the shower or wash your balls a little manscape free manscape out here. You know, trim your balls with the manscape actually know. Our sponsor bath me actually has a ball trimmer guys. So they got penis pumps. They got lubes they got cock rings and they got bald trimmers. You know why? Because I got one from my boyfriend. And he's

Unknown Speaker 1:08:57
some hair. Just want a little bit.

Unknown Speaker 1:08:59
This is what I told my boyfriend. I'm like, Look, you want me to put your balls in my mouth. shaver balls.

Unknown Speaker 1:09:05
That's all. And he's like, yes, good deal. With a nice freshener down there, please.

Unknown Speaker 1:09:14
I think I do have like, what

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do they have bald deodorant? Hold on angle. Do they have bald?

Unknown Speaker 1:09:22
Oh, yeah, I was like I thought they did

Unknown Speaker 1:09:27
that's like grandpa stuff.

Unknown Speaker 1:09:30
He's like it smells bad. Better. Okay.

Unknown Speaker 1:09:34
Results says you just get a handful and go up to the boys.

Unknown Speaker 1:09:38
When that tastes funny. Oh, yeah.

Unknown Speaker 1:09:40
What about are you know, us tasting it? Oh, yeah. So I guess you either get ever take smelly or tasty balls you get to choose one or the other. All right. I feel like it's time for the lightning sex route. This is a rapid fire yes or no segment that we've created so that people can you know, basically tell us more about their sex lives without having to say asked titty COC fuck whatever you know and feel more comfortable so you're ready Sharifa All right. Lightning cetera lightning sex round with Teresa Here we go. Do you dirty talk in bed? Yes. Do you spank or like to be Oh, do you spank or like to be spanked?

Unknown Speaker 1:10:25
Either one as long as not super super hard got it by a man for it's not too many. Yeah,

Unknown Speaker 1:10:31
there's some like welts. You know if you get not enough of those and by I know, I

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know. Everyone's like, Oh, you guys like it rough? And I'm like, yes, but not like in the cage fighting rough. There's a lie. For sure. Yeah, yes. Yes. Thank you. Okay, biting.

Unknown Speaker 1:10:49
nibbles. But not full on, like, don't penetrate my

Unknown Speaker 1:10:52
skin. Got it. Not into the blood play. Some people are choking.

Unknown Speaker 1:10:59
Not too much, but yes. Okay.

Unknown Speaker 1:11:01
threesomes don't mind. Okay, do you watch porn? Yes. Nice. Any fetishes like foot fetish? No. bodily fluid fetish. No. Bondage like ropes. Blindfold handcuffs. Yes. Okay. Roleplaying.

Unknown Speaker 1:11:20
I depends on what it is. There's something like super stupid.

Unknown Speaker 1:11:24
Yeah, it's so hard. I feel like you're either really into this or you just you can't. Can't stop giggling it's Yeah, so yeah, I'm the one that's like, I can't pretend to be somebody else. But I don't know. Maybe who knows the

Unknown Speaker 1:11:37
backup. Okay, but if you want me to totally be like, your teacher, I can't.

Unknown Speaker 1:11:43
I could be like a bad student. And you can be like, you know, like, you're a bit of bad little girl. Maybe. I would laugh so hard.

Unknown Speaker 1:11:50
I can only do so much like okay, that's like two minutes. All right. Let's go.

Unknown Speaker 1:11:54
Yeah. But stuff on your partner. You already said no. No. Ever been to a sex club or a swingers party?

Unknown Speaker 1:12:02
No, but I was supposed to.

Unknown Speaker 1:12:04
Oh, all right, mister. Are you a lingerie lover?

Unknown Speaker 1:12:08
Um, well, I guess I only because I have two

Unknown Speaker 1:12:11
girls Same here. All the sudden. I have to buy like I don't even know what they were called. Like, this one's a body. This one's a teddy. This one. I'm like,

Unknown Speaker 1:12:21
I literally will Google it before I buy it. And now I have Tupperware is full of it.

Unknown Speaker 1:12:27
And I hope you were that's a really good idea. Actually. Costco Costco. Thank you pro tip. I just started my site. I'm doing fan time. I know you have only fans.

Unknown Speaker 1:12:38
I have both. Oh, I started fan time first and then I find more people are only fans and they kept bugging me for only bands and I found that I get way more on only fans, but I still found time I'll do more videos. Got it. Only fans is more pictures.

Unknown Speaker 1:12:54
Got it. Okay. And then few more body hair. You already said no.

Unknown Speaker 1:12:59
A little bit. Okay, but like, I can't like the furry chairs. Like,

Unknown Speaker 1:13:04
okay, ever been caught having sex or masturbating?

Unknown Speaker 1:13:08
Yes. Yes.

Unknown Speaker 1:13:11
Would you like to share that embarrassing story?

Unknown Speaker 1:13:14
So I was with a guy and his friend walked in. I was like, Hey, you want to go away? And I was like, I was telling. I was like, dude.

Unknown Speaker 1:13:24
He just stood there. Like, watch it.

Unknown Speaker 1:13:26
I almost feel like it was sort of trying to I was just like, Yeah, I'm not in not cool. And I and I did my little girl when she was like two Oh my god. I hope he was hiding in my closet. One. Oh, no, no, she was there. And I was getting ready. And then I just was kicked out deep was there with me. And then we just started to get a little heavier. You know, a little hot and heavy and my daughter walks out what me? What are you doing? Oh, no. Oh my god. Please tell me she's not gonna remember.

Unknown Speaker 1:14:03
I think you're good at two. You know? She probably didn't see too much. Okay, well,

Unknown Speaker 1:14:09
she's gonna be told but it's okay. They don't know which girl

Unknown Speaker 1:14:15
Oh, you have twins?

Unknown Speaker 1:14:16
No, when but they think sometimes when I say that birthdays, they think they are but they're not. I have one my 20 year old and my 14 year old. They're a day apart and birthdays. Oh, that's crazy.

Unknown Speaker 1:14:27
But a lot of years obviously. Yes. Yes. Yeah. You know, me and my brother. I'm July. He's July 8, and I'm July 9, and we're one year apart. Yeah. Oh. Oh, DJ is the same to his brother is what a year at one day apart as well.

Unknown Speaker 1:14:43
That's crazy. Yeah, I It's like a family thing too, because my mom and my grandma aren't that far apart. And then me and my cousin were exactly a month apart and birthdays. While

Unknown Speaker 1:14:55
I think people all of our family members are just get busy and they're like our Now's the time to pop the kids out.

Unknown Speaker 1:15:03
Round the same time every year.

Unknown Speaker 1:15:07
Okay, so that was the lightning sex round. Congratulations. Would you like to play fuck marry kill with us one marry one kill one go. I think we're done. We're done here. Let's go. Awesome. Okay, we have your bare knuckle boxer. So we're giving you some boxers. We have Tyson fury, Manny Pacquiao and Mike Tyson tell me who you want to fuck who you want to marry who you want to kill?

Unknown Speaker 1:15:38
Oh, man. I probably honestly I probably marry Tyson because he has like a crazy like he's got money. He's got crazy as house he has Tigers I was listening to him even though he says that. You can't really have other people around Tigers because they're like a solitary animal and they will want to kill you if they are not like comfortable with you. Mike Tyson not Tyson fury. Dyson. Hi, that's a hard one. I wouldn't want to kill any of them. Yeah,

Unknown Speaker 1:16:09
you don't like Manny Pacquiao? Like,

Unknown Speaker 1:16:12
I really like my hand loves him. I have. So on my dad's side. I have an aunt from the Philippines that married into the family straight from the Philippines. Every time he fought that was when we were over that you would just hear her screaming. So and I was never 100% Like into boxing at that time. But I was like, Man, I knew who Manny Pacquiao was. Yeah. But man, I mean, I don't ever see me being with Tyson Tyson fury types. So like, if one had to go it'd be him. I guess that means leaving Manny Pacquiao to fuck. All right. All right. Good job. He's the governor so why not? Yeah, for sure. No, I think he made it.

Unknown Speaker 1:16:57
I don't know. I know he's in politics. I don't know if he holds an actual position now but he's just

Unknown Speaker 1:17:02
all around for I know, Governor or something like that. So.

Unknown Speaker 1:17:05
Okay, let's do a couple of these fan questions in the wall that you get out of here, crossly. We got at Zacky B. Does size matter?

Unknown Speaker 1:17:21
It does because when they're too big, it fucking hurts. Oh,

Unknown Speaker 1:17:24
that is a good answer. Yeah.

Unknown Speaker 1:17:27
It was like super big and it's like they're hitting your universe. Well, that bucket hurt.

Unknown Speaker 1:17:31
Yeah, yeah. And you can't with with someone very, very, very large like that. If you like rough sex. You can't can't Yeah, you can't have rough sex. It's just painful.

Unknown Speaker 1:17:41
You're like, Oh, my stomach. Yeah. Okay.

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At the Webster dude 84 favorite tattoo and story that goes with

Unknown Speaker 1:17:48
it. So I think it would, honestly I have two and they're both my arms.

Unknown Speaker 1:17:55
So you just call that one into? Yeah.

Unknown Speaker 1:17:58
Well, because this this one is my my I really love my like I said, my Mexican side. I really love where I came from. So this was that. But this one means a lot to me because it's my each flower represents my one of my children. And then the hummingbirds are my grandfather and grandmother both passed on my dad's I've, my grandmother passed when I was really young of cancer. And then my grandfather passed when my, my oldest when she was like two years old, one year old. And he they were a huge part of my life. My grandfather was one I when I was like, 17 I went I never expected anything of anybody. I always grew up like, we weren't poor, but my parents like to make us feel like we were poor. They want us to not, like ask for things and I you know, everybody has their own thing because of how they were when they were growing up. And my grandfather kept like pushing money to me I was like, I don't need a gram kind of like, but he would still he when he would hide it and like my stuff. But when I go home I find it so he was a huge part of my life. I was really sad when we when he passed because he was huge influence growing up,

Unknown Speaker 1:19:06
but me this is this tattoo right here is it says Guba and it means best friend and Italian and he that's for my grandpa. That's what he used to call me growing up because he raised me because a big part of my life. And he's still alive. Yeah, just talked to him on the phone. But he would do that he's still like to this day, he'll call you know, and be like, Do you need some money? And I'm like, No, I'm a grown woman. I don't need it. He's like, I'm gonna put $20 in your account. And I'm like, okay, grandpa. Thank you. You know what I feel like it just makes him happy. Because he's like, Yeah, and I'm like, Oh, I love that so much. So yeah, I resonate with that as well. So yeah, that's very hard your heritage and then you know your family members past and present. So great answer. She can't choose the Webster dude. 84.

Unknown Speaker 1:19:53
They all mean a lot to me, but those two are the most.

Unknown Speaker 1:19:56
Another question. In your opinion. Do you think there's a difference? means between making love and fucking same guy at Zacky be.

Unknown Speaker 1:20:04
Oh yes, definitely. Because making love it's like you're more intimate. It's like To me that's more like you had a really good like maybe like it's an anniversary or you just had like a really good date are something it's a little more intimate and then just biking is like okay quickie let's go

Unknown Speaker 1:20:23
Yeah. Do you think you can? Do you think you can make love to someone that you just met? Or is it something that you can only do with someone who you have a connection over time with? Um,

Unknown Speaker 1:20:35
well it depends on I guess the person because you can note while if you just met somebody No. If you're just starting to be with somebody like you could have known them for a long time I like it's that connection.

Unknown Speaker 1:20:47
Yeah, I agree. I agree. Okay, at stay rich exotics. Can I book you for a foot fetish? Shoot

Unknown Speaker 1:20:58
what is involved?

Unknown Speaker 1:21:00
Yeah, my like putting oil on my toes or like stepping on food what's going on here?

Unknown Speaker 1:21:06
I will open it if it's something that's right. I wouldn't need more information. Okay.

Unknown Speaker 1:21:13
I'm not I'm not even mad at this guy. He's just shooting a show

Unknown Speaker 1:21:17
at shipping information or send it to my agent chat and we will get back to you

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with some shout out to Chad Chad is awesome Chad Lashley I believe works for Sucker Punch shout out to sucker punch we are managed by the same management company. Yes, we are. I love them. Love them. Love you, Brian. At she fights to media. This one is awesome. This they're an Instagram account that's dedicated to all female. Female fighters. Yeah, spend? Yeah, okay, great. spend three years in prison or never win another fight again.

Unknown Speaker 1:21:50
Oh, God, I'll spend three years in prison.

Unknown Speaker 1:21:53
You're You're I was gonna say you have kids, but they're grown they can take care of themselves.

Unknown Speaker 1:22:00
Okay, I wouldn't be the first one in prison in my family. It's been smaller things. I was like people that were married into the family.

Unknown Speaker 1:22:09
Girl Say no more. We all got passed and my family is one of them too. Psycho bandit 33 The most important thing you learned from your first BK fight that you'll take into the rest of your career.

Unknown Speaker 1:22:22
How important boxing is they always say boxing is so I you know, I didn't know what to expect when I was going to be Kempsey but like for me, I was like alright, if I'm gonna get into this after this first way I am 100% committed to boxing. If you are already a boxer you should go into like Muay Thai or MMA and like make that more point. The reason why is because from the MMA aspect for beak FC, we can dirty bots where we're clenching. Or you can hold the arm. So you can do either or like you went. So I feel like I'm really comfortable. And I love pocket fighting. So I've always been comfortable fighting on the cage fighting in slight the pocket. But for me, the biggest thing was the basic striking fundamentals because everything I learned was more like MMA base and circumstance was on right. So yeah, it's just getting in there because I already had that nitty gritty like, I like those fights. If you go watch, I've only had one that wasn't like that, if my last night was just the same way I like those dirty down, like get inside and get in your face. And let's go

Unknown Speaker 1:23:30
and we love to watch those kinds of fights. So that's why you're blowing up girl. You know, your description of that just made me realize that I don't know the rules and the difference between regular boxing and bare knuckle boxing besides the fact that you don't have gloves on. So you're saying that in regular boxing, obviously you can't hold and you can't do that clench, but it's okay to and bare knuckle. Yes, they won't break you up.

Unknown Speaker 1:23:54
Now, they won't break you up. As long as there's still action going on. If you're just holding they're going to stop you.

Unknown Speaker 1:24:00
But a new building and you're just up recoding the shoot out of your opponent. Yep, that's

Unknown Speaker 1:24:05
my fight the last my last fight that I won in Wichita. With link they even make comments how we were probably one of the longest standing like clench like hitting each other that they've seen because we were still staying active there was no reason to stop us from fighting in the clinch and she came from a really tight background so she was cool, too so I knew that going into it though and she's tall me everybody's heard of

Unknown Speaker 1:24:33
me Awesome. Okay so few more questions at underscore goddess Eva. ever worry about your family saying stuff about your only fans?

Unknown Speaker 1:24:44
No, I'm not because like I said they're older. Funny thing is I was like most worried about like aunts, uncles or somebody and my attic goes so that's not funny but my like my grandfather passed so I had to go visit It my, my grandmother in Wisconsin when my grandfather passed last year, and my aunts were bringing it up, they're like, oh, like you should put this on your only fans. Oh, you should. You're like, it's a good Wally. Well,

Unknown Speaker 1:25:14
not, not the time to talk about the spotlight should be on grandpa right now.

Unknown Speaker 1:25:22
That family that family was not very nice. But yeah, I'm not and then even like my kids, so what I worry most is more, my son, because he's going to be 16. So it's more like his friends. But you know how boys are if they find out one is and he's raising wrestling music, he just said, right now he's doing pole vaulting for schools. So I just get worried more

Unknown Speaker 1:25:47
with that. Yeah. I mean, let's face it,

Unknown Speaker 1:25:51
do this, like my friend found out? Like, that's the only thing I worry about. I mean, if you

Unknown Speaker 1:25:57
walk into a wrestling room and a bunch of 16 year old boys find out that you have, they can see your movies, you know, like they're gonna pay 10 however much money that they'll pull their money together to see those titties.

Unknown Speaker 1:26:12
But it sorry about that. I was, I went to one of my son's wrestling, wrestling events. And I was wearing a t shirt similar to this and I always do, but

Unknown Speaker 1:26:24
ever since I got boobies, I'm like, every shirt needs to be cropped like

Unknown Speaker 1:26:30
show like he didn't tell me you told me you told. told somebody else is like, can you please tell her to wear something that's a little bit more covered up please. I started out who was messing with him because I started got that feeling when I was like, Oh, he doesn't care. And he's a type. He loves me. And he's very Him and I are very, very close. So I don't think he would ever like my kids would ever have a problem with it. Because they know it's just more that feeling that it's outside. I want to protect them from inside.

Unknown Speaker 1:27:05
Yeah, yeah. Okay, last question at Mani master. Oh, nine. Oh, have you ever dated a guy who enjoyed pain?

Unknown Speaker 1:27:15
Not that they've told me. Anybody with those crazy fetishes like please, I think there would be a point. I think that that might scare me a little. Like, I don't mind giving a little bit of pain but I think it's that like if they're asking me to like, what did I say there was a movie or something where they wanted to get electrocuted or

Unknown Speaker 1:27:35
something. I don't know. But I feel like there's obviously the spectrum right where there's a guy who's like, pinch my nipples hard and you're like, okay, that's okay. And then a guy's like, grabbed my debit card and you're like, okay, and then it's like, I don't know like cut me like I'm out I'm out. Okay, that's it. Yeah. But everybody has their own you know, comfortability level. So yep,

Unknown Speaker 1:27:59
yeah, yeah. I have not been with a guy that has like paid. I don't know if I would want you because I'm like, so the type that like I already do so much and training and I'm already hurting, like, well, that time just for you. Like, I don't know. Have you gotten those DMS and I'm ready. Yeah, like how much we'll pay it as far as far with you, girl. You have me afterwards.

Unknown Speaker 1:28:21
What is I mean? It's something we usually talk about is the crazy DMS because females in general get, you know, outrageous messages right? And then it seems like fighter girls. I don't know the dudes are like, they flocked like crazy messages right about feet and kick me in the balls. I'll pay you like what are some of the craziest things you've received? That's usually

Unknown Speaker 1:28:42
fit like that. Like hey, how much would it be for you? I had one guy who was like, I will pay you $10,000 But my friend and a triangle like Oh, take 10 But I don't know who you are. Really gonna pay?

Unknown Speaker 1:28:57
Yeah, yeah, that's

Unknown Speaker 1:28:59
very sketchy situation. Are we doing this in public and fully like a like here because you can come to my I'll tell you where I go train out and you could come to my training you know, just give me the money of French professor might want some of that. Let you do it. They're taking

Unknown Speaker 1:29:16
a 10% fee. So the question we asked at the end of every episode is if you could hear a guest doesn't have to be a fighter but who would you like to hear next on sex and violence with rebel girl?

Unknown Speaker 1:29:29
Um, so I mean, there's so many people but even like, for me, like I would love to hear someone like Amanda Serrano or even like, you know, someone that I always loved watching and UFC who I would love to see one day maybe do bare knuckle is like Alexa Grasso.

Unknown Speaker 1:29:47
I asked her but she you know the show is not for everybody. Yeah, and you know, like that was definitely like a you know, a hard ask for me because right off the bat, I felt her kind They're like very, very timid, like, she's a badass, just a complete Savage in the cage. But you could just tell when someone has a more quiet introvert demeanor and I'm like, Would you like to be on my sex podcast? And she's like, her response was so nice. It was like, No, I don't think that I would be comfortable with that. I'm like, okay, understandable.

Unknown Speaker 1:30:22
I understand that you're not hurting my feelings.

Unknown Speaker 1:30:23
Yeah. She seems like such a sweetheart. I love the way that she represents the sport as well. I've seen some of her interviews and stuff. I think she's an awesome fighter and an awesome person.

Unknown Speaker 1:30:34
You know who else if we're talking about man is like a Tom show or Lewis? Lewis told me no.

Unknown Speaker 1:30:41
Oh, these are bare knuckle boxers. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. You know what? I haven't really had too many male Bare Knuckle boxers. I've had. Tyler good, John. Do you know? Yes,

Unknown Speaker 1:30:51
yes. And I think I think Tom show probably would actually say yes, because I heard that I heard a interview he did the other day, but people like him because he has that lovely mustache.

Unknown Speaker 1:31:01
Okay, okay. I didn't know who he was at first. But now as soon as you said that, I understand. I remember who

Unknown Speaker 1:31:06
you were. He was one of the ones I used to always watch when I watched he was one of the reasons why I fell in love with a BK RC was actually watching his face because he's got really pretty boxy. When you think Naira and he had a really cute grades by anybody who wants to watch PTSD. Other than watching my fights, go watch Tom shows versus Joe Elmore. He did not win that fight but that one was a war and that's a total huge brawler for versus a really technical boxer and it was amazing to watch. All right,

Unknown Speaker 1:31:37
I will check that out and I will totally slide into his DMS for show purposes that is and we want to continue to follow your journey through social media support you through only fans fan time whatever else you have going on, please tell us now where we can do all that.

Unknown Speaker 1:31:53
That was a whole bunch of shit. So I have a bio my bio on Instagram you can go to the links that I have a direct me where it points you everywhere. But if you go to Instagram as Teresa underscore sweetheart, if you go to Twitter, it's B KFC sweetheart. My thought use ticked off that much. I have one I was like I keep saying I'm gonna do more. Same as my Instagram. And then on Facebook is treason Sigala MMA. It's a page on there. People always try to go on to my private one that I use more for family and that's the only reason why I still have Facebook is more for the family. I almost never will approve people on the private Facebook just but that's more family. But only fans is just only fans. The only fans I'm listed under Shree, sweetheart and then if you go to fan time, it's true. I have cameo I have memo so there's a bunch of shit out there you are millions, I don't know, if you have millions account or if you've heard of it, what is the price that you don't so millions is more about your fighting aspect. But it's they have it's a little mix of everything. So you can have merchandise on there. So you can get merch from me on there. As well as like video requests. So you can do like video that almost like cameo does. And they do something else. Oh, watch parties. So if you ever want to do like a watch party, you can schedule it and it can either be free or you can charge for it. And it's you like watching like UFC or like be KFC and their watch.

Unknown Speaker 1:33:32
I'm watching it with you and you can like interact with them. Yeah, yes. That's very cool. Okay.

Unknown Speaker 1:33:38
Yeah. And then I do have my own website, like the ones for like my autograph merge. Or like my, I do have my own personal merch that I'll do everyone's bare knuckles be

Unknown Speaker 1:33:52
You are on your marketing, which is very smart of you. Where

Unknown Speaker 1:33:57
I was like, if you're gonna do it, you gotta go big, right? Yeah,

Unknown Speaker 1:34:00
no, no, you're I mean, it's so smart. You know, that's why I finally started my own fan time. Because, you know, I would post a couple of sexy pictures here and there, but it's like, why not fucking capitalize on the money? You know? When, like, I'm not doesn't bother me. You know, like, I'm not like, you know, oh, no, Jesus, you know, like, it's whatever. I don't I don't really

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put it to me this way. Because they were like, you know, you always ask for sponsors. When you're getting ready to buy. They're like, um, I don't know why you don't do and only fans, that's literally our way of sponsoring you and you're putting the same content. Oh, yeah. I think it'd be like that. I'm like, it's true. A lot of it. I mean, obviously, there's the Pay Per View stuff. It's a little bit different. But the stuff that you put on your main page is is stuff that you would do anyways on your Instagram. It's not like and you know, it's still NSFW, but it's not so much stuff that you wouldn't get on.

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What is NSFW standards suitable for work?

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not suitable.

Unknown Speaker 1:34:57
I always had to keep looking that up because I was like, oh my Does that mean I was like Ah, got it? Okay, so you're not gonna be at a regular job looking at girls wondering

Unknown Speaker 1:35:07
got it not suitable for work well thank you so much for being on the show I always add all those links at the end so but it's just so nice to hear it because especially from you you've got so many you know options to choose from I can buy merch I can look at your titties I support you and you're fighting like

Unknown Speaker 1:35:27
you watched the videos go to bed on time if you want the picture. Well, I mean, the pictures on both but if you want more pictures, it's on it's on only fans so

Unknown Speaker 1:35:35
thank you so much for sharing this I love your mindset right now about fighting it's kind of like Hey, I got my kids right now you know my window is short I recognize that I'm fucking focused right now on my career. I resonate with that as well I'm very happy that I have a partner in my life that you know is supportive and I'm not out there looking for a dick and wasting my time and going on dates and putting energy into that like it's a whole thing obviously so I wish you the best I will hopefully see you in the gym with chewy and just keep being awesome. I'm sure we will thank you bye bye danger phrase Kansas sound outside young girl bands name tattooed on his car walk jog

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Alright guys, that's it for episode 94 With Sharifah BK FC sweetheart Segalla she really was a sweetheart right? So like, just a little cutie. And

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you know, she

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does. You know, I'm sure she is very intimidating to men and maybe other women but she's just a sweet person and she seems so focused and I'm looking forward to even training with her in the gym. So thank you guys for tuning in. Next week. We've got a really great guest we talked to Emily wittmeyer. She is a strong way fighting in Invicta FC. And she previously competed in the UFC. So she's got lots of stories and we're going to normal you know the normal sex and violence talk that you guys like every week. Tune in. Before I tell you goodbye. I want to give a quick shout out to this company athletic Brewing Co. This is a non alcoholic beer designed with athletes in mind. Me and DJ Zol are going to crack one for the first time for you guys and test it out. Okay. Boom. Non drinkers. Yeah, to to sober people drink a non alcoholic beer. But you know what, fuck it. It's not alcoholic and it's made for athletes. So let's try this out.

Unknown Speaker 1:38:40
I haven't had that taste in my mouth in six years. It really tastes like a beer. It does taste like a beer. Really good beer.

Unknown Speaker 1:38:48
You know what I took a sip and I like bad memories came back I was like, oh god poor decisions. All my poor decisions start. Fantastic. That's good. It actually is good. You know not just saying that. But it you know, it's weird because you know, it's all sober six years and I'm you know, I'll be sober three years in July. And it's just weird to take Oh, one more taste. It's different, right? Want to hit your lips. Just kidding. Just kidding. Okay, thank you athletic Brewing Co for sending us a couple of cases of non alcoholic beer. All right, guys, back to the show. So don't forget, check out our website www sex violence with rebel One more day to buy a piece of merch on the website and the winner. You know you buy a piece of merch automatically entered into the giveaway. The winner gets assigned UFC glove could be you guys hurry up by something by now. And lastly, I want to tell you guys, please you know if you have any guest suggestions, we are very interactive. You know we respond to every email if you think I might, I won't write back I will. Please please send us an email. That's a section by was special thank you to DJ Zol for being my homie for helping me always. I love you, buddy. You can check him out on Instagram at DJ Zol tomorrow kids studio, where we do the damn thing at tomorrow kids official and you can find us on Instagram at sex and violence with rebel girl and myself at Ashley MMA. I love you guys. What do I say every week? Be kind, be grateful, but don't take shit from anyone. I'll see you guys next week with a new guest and more tales of sex violence. Cheers

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